I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship? ( Archived) (29)

Mar 28, 2011 4:20 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
AnneDee
AnneDeeAnneDeePretoria, Gauteng South Africa5 Threads 1 Polls 29 Posts
Let't say your partener has everything else you are looking for but not 'sense of humour'. Is it a problem not to have it? Most people like to mention it in the top 5 characters of ideal match.dunno
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Mar 28, 2011 4:23 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
AnneDee: Let't say your partener has everything else you are looking for but not 'sense of humour'. Is it a problem not to have it? Most people like to mention it in the top 5 characters of ideal match.


Believe me men and women do need a sense of humour sometimesgrin cool
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Mar 28, 2011 4:24 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
ltlredcorvette
ltlredcorvetteltlredcorvetteNarrogin, Western Australia Australia3 Threads 112 Posts
I need to be with someone who can laugh and in turn be able to get me to laugh. I heard somewhere that laughter builds a bridge between two hearts when it's shared and I feel that it does for me.
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Mar 28, 2011 8:13 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
joelle2107
joelle2107joelle2107Jakarta, Indonesia170 Threads 36 Polls 5,561 Posts
tomcatwarne: Believe me men and women do need a sense of humour sometimes


nice new picture tom..wave
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Mar 28, 2011 8:46 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
I had one BF, he coldn't out jokes, but he loved hearing and laughing of those of others. So, at least this needs to be present. Someone 24/7 bad tempered is heavy. He may go somehwere else.
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Mar 28, 2011 8:52 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
AnneDee
AnneDeeAnneDeePretoria, Gauteng South Africa5 Threads 1 Polls 29 Posts
cristina: I had one BF, he coldn't out jokes, but he loved hearing and laughing of those of others. So, at least this needs to be present. Someone 24/7 bad tempered is heavy. He may go somehwere else.


Oohh! I get it now. At least laugh if you can't make others laugh. I like your post.
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Mar 28, 2011 8:53 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
AnneDee: Oohh! I get it now. At least laugh if you can't make others laugh. I like your post.


Thankskiss
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Mar 28, 2011 8:54 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
lucynad
lucynadlucynadSunny city, Sicilia Italy7 Threads 2,431 Posts
it's not a problem since he couldn't be my partner...grin

but neither a friend..

not even my customer, i guess

basically, he couldn't be anyone that i'm able to choose...

he could be my neighbour, though...grin laugh
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Mar 28, 2011 9:09 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
ClearlyStated
ClearlyStatedClearlyStatedNorth Bay, Ontario Canada15 Threads 1 Polls 489 Posts
Yes I think its critical to have a sense of humour because there will be times of pain and of joy and if you can't embrace them both for what they are......it will make life very difficult for you.

Then you have people that can laugh at others, but can't take it themselves, and the ones that are just over the top funny mopingwould probably make me wanna get a gun and NEVERMIND, then you have the ones that laugh only at "certain" humour confused which are no better than those that laugh at nothing.

OMG........OK I'm rambling AGAIN - frustrated ......YES you need a sense of humour, as long as its not condescending and low class.......THERE I said it.......YESyay rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 28, 2011 9:12 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
My man has a sense of humor and gets me laughing.So I guess I don't have to worry about that.
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Mar 28, 2011 9:14 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I think its very important to connect on a humour level. Its good to have someone who you can laugh with during the bad times. wine
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Mar 28, 2011 9:18 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
OMG without a sense of humor in the life, would just be too much for me to handle.....I want someone to laugh with me, and at me sometimes when I do silly crazy unexplainable things...and vice versa...Good Humor is mandatory...thumbs up
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Mar 28, 2011 9:19 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
They would have to have a sense of humour to put up with me.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 28, 2011 9:25 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
time4fun4u: They would have to have a sense of humour to put up with me.


Thats funny T...I just said they will need one to handle me grin wine
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Mar 28, 2011 9:26 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
venusenvy: Thats funny T...I just said they will need one to handle me
You would be like putty in my hands.If not,i would just tie you up and punish you.grin devil
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Mar 28, 2011 9:28 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
time4fun4u: You would be like putty in my hands.If not,i would just tie you up and punish you.


Gosh how did I get so lucky? yay
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Mar 28, 2011 9:29 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
venusenvy: Gosh how did I get so lucky?
yay yay yay lips
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Mar 28, 2011 9:33 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
chococherrie
chococherriechococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia71 Threads 5 Polls 5,647 Posts
he doesnt have to be funny but as long as he gets my humourblues
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Mar 28, 2011 9:35 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
chococherrie: he doesnt have to be funny but as long as he gets my humour


Like, straight away would be preferable, I think.popcorn
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Mar 28, 2011 9:38 AM CST I sense of humour a big deal in a relationship?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
And in answer to the question, a sense of humour stops you from killing your family. I find that helps good relations.
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