Financial infidelity (86)

Jul 23, 2011 7:47 PM CST Financial infidelity
revealer24
revealer24revealer24Arundel, Queensland Australia62 Threads 985 Posts
_PrOwLeR: what an interesting thread ....

I think the safest of all is just stick to the KiSS method when it comes to finances ...

some relationships will never ever work between some people because of the have or dont have aspects of each others assets or lack there of ...

Its sad as people that material things takes prominence over feelings, though this not being the perfect world, its a sad fact of reality ..

Its all Adams fault !! ... I mean he did bite into that bloody apple way back when ...

If one cannot match anothers finances or assets .. then simply just live alone and avoid all this fuss ... cause the minute you try and get together ... this will be the weak link that will bust you up ...

just my opinion ... though when it comes to money ... other than yourself ... whom can you really ever trust anyways ?? ...


My ex setup the husband of one of her friends as an example of how finances should work. The guy handed all his income ($12k a month) to his wife and knew nothing about how the money was spent. In my eye he is a fool and totally irresponsible. How does he know his wife doesn't channel some of his money to her bank account in Russia? (As I learned all Russians have bank accounts under their parents' name in Russia.)

I could not do it. I always felt that I was happy to let my ex manage the finances as long as I am involved in the decisions and know where the money goes. She did not want it, so I managed my income myself. Eventually finances became a source of conflict.
Jul 23, 2011 7:55 PM CST Financial infidelity
tonyxf
tonyxftonyxfwerribee, Victoria Australia2 Threads 4,525 Posts
_PrOwLeR: Its all Adams fault !! ... I mean he did bite into that bloody apple way back when ...
Well a decent woman would have cost him an arm and a leg, so he decide he could only spare a rib.
Jul 23, 2011 8:06 PM CST Financial infidelity
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
tonyxf: Well a decent woman would have cost him an arm and a leg, so he decide he could only spare a rib.
Adam must of been with Barry Plant confused some dodgy agents there blues
Jul 23, 2011 8:59 PM CST Financial infidelity
revealer24
revealer24revealer24Arundel, Queensland Australia62 Threads 985 Posts
tonyxf: Well a decent woman would have cost him an arm and a leg, so he decide he could only spare a rib.


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Aug 6, 2011 5:35 AM CST Financial infidelity
daggyone
daggyonedaggyoneWonthaggi, Victoria Australia143 Threads 14 Polls 1,963 Posts
a simple pre-nup should do the trick.
Just make sure you get the factual profit and loss statements of your future beau as they may be up to their armpits in debts and have no owned assets. Just highly depreciated expensive overpriced symbols of wealth owned by some unheard of financial institution.
You should also have a statement made by your accountant as to your fianancial position, ie: property owned, loans/credit owing and investments so as to have a clear record for any future breakup if your finances were to be question, it would all be there in b&w
Aug 10, 2011 7:02 PM CST Financial infidelity
CherryDesires
CherryDesiresCherryDesiresBathurst, New South Wales Australia58 Posts
normalguy68: Keeping a secret cash stash from your partner.
Not sharing bank details.
Keeping separate bank accounts.
The sort of thing people do when they're not really working together as a couple, but rather as two separate units who are not united.
Do you do this or have you done this.?
ie: keep pseparate financials


Not in a committed relationship. It depends on how serious your relationship is and what sort of future you see together.
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