IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE ( Archived) (251)

Jul 6, 2011 7:25 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
felixis99: thank you for phrasing so well what I'd like to say but don't have time to compose because I must get to the office

let everyone be responsible for their behaviors and choices men & women both, but the kind of man described in the OP sounds morally bankrupt and boring - to me anyway


hey felix wave

I totally agree with you sweetie wine

What you're saying here is that it's about RESPECT from both parties, not emasculating men as this thread topic suggests.

If any man feels less than a man it's b'coz of his "ego" and the women that refuse to stroke it.

Expecting men to show respect doesn't involve them losing or giving up their manhood in my opinion!! roll eyes
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Jul 6, 2011 7:28 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
SummerUK
SummerUKSummerUKWashington UK, Tyne and Wear, England UK24 Threads 8,842 Posts
DjWabbet: Shhhhh... the footys on...Joking...
Haha!! tongue





Love ya, sugar lips grin smitten
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Jul 6, 2011 7:30 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
mariespoodles: hey felix

I totally agree with you sweetie

What you're saying here is that it's about RESPECT from both parties, not emasculating men as this thread topic suggests.

If any man feels less than a man it's b'coz of his "ego" and the women that refuse to stroke it.

Expecting men to show respect doesn't involve them losing or giving up their manhood in my opinion!!
yep venus n mars.
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Jul 6, 2011 7:31 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
DjWabbet: Shhhhh... the footys on...Joking...


hahaha laugh laugh Wabbet!! wave
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Jul 6, 2011 7:34 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
I think a gentleman is the best way to go. Gentleman in public and home, rock star in the shower...and pure heaven in the bedroom.
And, if she wants to be slapped around a bit, sorry, not my style.

RRrrrr..... !!
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Jul 6, 2011 7:35 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
SummerUK: Haha!! Love ya, sugar lips
Right back at ya sweetheart! kiss smitten
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Jul 6, 2011 7:36 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Jeeepers: I think a gentleman is the best way to go. Gentleman in public and home, rock star in the shower...and pure heaven in the bedroom.
And, if she wants to be slapped around a bit, sorry, not my style.

RRrrrr..... !!
no role play lol.
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Jul 6, 2011 7:37 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles: hahaha Wabbet!!
Hey Spoodles wave and i wanted so much for my blues to win.. oh well next year huh? there will be no Lockyer...devil thumbs up
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Jul 6, 2011 7:39 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
reb56: yep venus n mars.


Yes venus and mars ARE our differences, without question reb. Respect on the other hand is a choice descent humans make... regardless of gender!! teddybear
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Jul 6, 2011 7:39 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
Jeeepers
JeeepersJeeepersCowpet Bay, Saint Thomas Virgin Islands (USA)21 Threads 6,482 Posts
reb56: no role play lol.
Got handcuffs ? devil
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Jul 6, 2011 7:41 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
Jeeepers: Got handcuffs ?
lol ive been a bad boy cane me lol.
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Jul 6, 2011 7:47 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
DjWabbet: Its interesting that you havent noticed that like everything else in life the "Alpha Male" model has and will continue to evolve.

The Alpha male you refer to is at best, a throwback to the 70's and 80's, why, if you think back even further to the times when the alpha male was the sole breadwinner and etiquette demanded that his meals were on the table when he finished work, the housework and children were tended to by the time he got home and the housewife was at his beck and call in a life long sentence of indentured servitude.

The Alpha males of today, have developed and evolved, i have actually gone with a male friend of mine and stood in a store and argued about the merits of thread counts in bed sheets, now, we are both ex rugby players, we still drink (and know our limits) strip clubs bore us to no end, and if we had to fight for survival we would and have no compunction about doing so.
The difference is that we are much more smarter than our predecessors and we realise that its not all about us.

Or is it that personally you just prefer the old knuckle draggers?


And the Golden Carrot Award goes to...

(Psst! hope you've got another thanking-the-academy speech up your sleeve)

*drum roll*

Deee Jay WWWWABBIT!!!

*tumultuous applause*
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Jul 6, 2011 7:51 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
reb56
reb56reb56carthage, Missouri USA55 Polls 8,629 Posts
mariespoodles: Yes venus and mars ARE our differences, without question reb. Respect on the other hand is a choice descent humans make... regardless of gender!!
as my mother taught me/god bless rip.the golden rule works.
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Jul 6, 2011 7:53 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
DjWabbet: Hey Spoodles and i wanted so much for my blues to win.. oh well next year huh? there will be no Lockyer...


sorry to hear that sweetie blues comfort

here ya go lips bouquet lips

feel better now? hug

See!!! ... I'm capable of showing sensitivity to manly issues while still remaining all woman Wabbet lol shimmy wink laugh
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Jul 6, 2011 7:56 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
jac379: And the Golden Carrot Award goes to...

(Psst! hope you've got another thanking-the-academy speech up your sleeve)

*drum roll*

Deee Jay WWWWABBIT!!!

*tumultuous applause*


applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause applause
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Jul 6, 2011 7:57 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
reb56: as my mother taught me/god bless rip.the golden rule works.


handshake teddybear
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Jul 6, 2011 7:58 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
moodyblues: It's just that if I had to pick between a knuckle dragger and a man who has monthly facials - I'd pick the knuckle dragger. Sorry, just different things for different people.


Monthly facials are not deal breakers for me.

Curtains are not deal breakers for me.

Oh, for shame, they're not that important to me.

Sharing, love, respect and negotiating those things equally, are a teeny weeny bit higher up on my list than lampshades.
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Jul 6, 2011 8:01 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
jac379: And the Golden Carrot Award goes to...

(Psst! hope you've got another thanking-the-academy speech up your sleeve)

*drum roll*

Deee Jay WWWWABBIT!!!

*tumultuous applause*
Awww shucks *Shuffles feet awkwardly*

Ummm.. i would like to thank the academy....
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Jul 6, 2011 8:02 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Jeeepers: I think a gentleman is the best way to go. Gentleman in public and home, rock star in the shower...and pure heaven in the bedroom.
And, if she wants to be slapped around a bit, sorry, not my style.

RRrrrr..... !!


Yeah... writing ...that's soooo going on my list of real man requirements...in fact... typing ...its going on my profile checklist...

rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 6, 2011 8:02 AM CST IN DEFENSE OF THE ALPHA MALE
moodyblues
moodybluesmoodybluesCAPE TOWN, Western Cape South Africa3 Threads 210 Posts
Jeeepers: Got handcuffs ?
Of course. But not those fluffy girlie ones - real ones.
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