sending email to no reply! (108)
DUBLINGUY1973: This question is asked quite often in threads. I've seen it a few times. Some people find that if you send back a mail saying a polite "i'm not interested" or "thanks but no thanks" you sometimes get a nasty reply back.
Personally i think if someone doesn't reply to a mail then you have your answer. It would be nice to get a reply but as i said, some people don't take it refusals very well.
Personally i think if someone doesn't reply to a mail then you have your answer. It would be nice to get a reply but as i said, some people don't take it refusals very well.
true
Dropdownbandit: well what do you say in your emails because most people dont reply to "hi want to chat " or crap like that , i do find it anoying when you make an effort to get a chat going and you dont hear anything back but what can ya do !
Looking back, the emails that I don't reply to are those kind. If someone sends something original then I'll answer, I don't like feeling like I'm on a list of people getting the same generic email.bdock12: i think im the same myself dont take rejection to well either ha
i got an email back from you before i remember i got rejected in a good way
i got an email back from you before i remember i got rejected in a good way
None of us do but I do think you need a thick skin sometimes whether its asking someone out or applying for a job.
Reminds me of a sign i saw in a pub once.....
"Please don't ask for credit as a slap in the face often offends"
bdock12: Hi im just wondering do you think its a bit rude to not reply if you get a mail from someone? like i have sent emails and id say 50 per cent of the time ya get nothing back? would it not be nice to even come back and say im not interested of you to young what ever the excuse may be so that ya dont end up mailing them again
It must be the content of your emails mate, or you are 'targetting' the ladies that are looing for something else. I've had 100% replies. Are you reading their profiles and looking at the section where they say what they're looking for before you send the email? Age, Height, Body type etc?
tusiemc: lol I got exactly the same one!!!-was his name starting with an 'N'by any chance?
That it did hun,
Hey ya have to admire him for havin the balls to send something like that knowing that if he sent it to a woman who is in a mood that he would more than likely find himself ball-less
But at the same time i dont' appreciate been spoken to like in general and make a point of not replying because i'm not gonna waste the time or energy when i am havin actual conversations with other people,
Dub_accent68: It must be the content of your emails mate, or you are 'targetting' the ladies that are looing for something else. I've had 100% replies. Are you reading their profiles and looking at the section where they say what they're looking for before you send the email? Age, Height, Body type etc?
Sometimes it can come across that people haven't even read your profile.Dub_accent68: It must be the content of your emails mate, or you are 'targetting' the ladies that are looing for something else. I've had 100% replies. Are you reading their profiles and looking at the section where they say what they're looking for before you send the email? Age, Height, Body type etc?
sometimes i dont that could be the case then! i do get mostly replys just somes ya would want to get back ya dont!
bdock12: Hi im just wondering do you think its a bit rude to not reply if you get a mail from someone? like i have sent emails and id say 50 per cent of the time ya get nothing back? would it not be nice to even come back and say im not interested of you to young what ever the excuse may be so that ya dont end up mailing them again
I just dont reply if im not interested, but I ignored someone last wk and he sent me another 1 the nxt day giving out 2 me and saying I could have at least mailed him back 2 say I wasnt interested ......... so I ignored him again
NoeloD076: Fair play to you that you put yourself out there and send the mail.
hey Noely thank u, hey us gals have to make an effort too ya know:)
Thumblina: And he probably wonders why he's single ffs!!!!
The mind truly does boggle sometimes
The mind truly does boggle sometimes
He had already mailed me last wk so I told him so, he said ye he knew that but thought I might have reconsidered my decision
Ah well if he sends enough out he might just get lucky although the hottie in his pic and the profession he claims 2 have im thinking he wouldnt need 2 be mailing women like that, more likely an aul wrinkly getting his kicks I reckon
tusiemc: lol I got exactly the same one!!!-was his name starting with an 'N'by any chance?
It wasn't me......i swear.
bdock12: sometimes i dont that could be the case then! i do get mostly replys just somes ya would want to get back ya dont!
No point in doing the 'shooting fish in a barrel' approach. Try to tailor your email to the individual lady, one lady at a time, they are not fools and you'll find they talk to one another anyway. Be expressive but not explicit. Also, asking them to 'tell me about yourself' is a request nobody likes to get.
Knew it was too good to be true.xxmissuniquexx: He had already mailed me last wk so I told him so, he said ye he knew that but thought I might have reconsidered my decision
Ah well if he sends enough out he might just get lucky although the hottie in his pic and the profession he claims 2 have im thinking he wouldnt need 2 be mailing women like that, more likely an aul wrinkly getting his kicks I reckon
Ah well if he sends enough out he might just get lucky although the hottie in his pic and the profession he claims 2 have im thinking he wouldnt need 2 be mailing women like that, more likely an aul wrinkly getting his kicks I reckon
Eww nasty, nah no matter how hot they look with an attitude like that there's no way i could never go there, not with an attitude like that.
claim to b a lotto millionare that works wonders
and when they meet you for date
explain your poverty and lack of money
by spending money on a realtions operation & poor orphans in africa
and when they meet you for date
explain your poverty and lack of money
by spending money on a realtions operation & poor orphans in africa
NoeloD076: It wasn't me......i swear.
ah we know it wasn't you hun, you're too nice to send crap like that :-)
NoeloD076: It wasn't me......i swear.
I want to state that Noely had no hand or act in the mail some us received earlier today
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Fair play to you that you put yourself out there and send the mail.