single Mummy venting!!! (38)
Britishmalteser: Hi everyone :)
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
Were you on here before about four years ago? I sorta vaguely remember you. So, welcome back.I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I am a single mother of 1 small child, we lost her dad before she was born I only see men run when I say I have one child, she is over 3 yrs old.Thats a fact.
I would not mind someone who has a child, I would assume he would understand me better for me as being a woman/mother.
I would not mind someone who has a child, I would assume he would understand me better for me as being a woman/mother.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Dear,
You hubby is the unfortunate man in this world who leave a respectful and beautiful wife.
I respect your feeling and hope someone you will get a good lover man in your life to love you so much becoz you deserve it.
once you will get your love, Your baby will be fortunate to get first your love and then her fathers love.
You deserve any man in this world.
You hubby is the unfortunate man in this world who leave a respectful and beautiful wife.
I respect your feeling and hope someone you will get a good lover man in your life to love you so much becoz you deserve it.
once you will get your love, Your baby will be fortunate to get first your love and then her fathers love.
You deserve any man in this world.
------ This thread is Archived ------
i agree stop complaining and look for the good in everything and everyone.
------ This thread is Archived ------
fair play t you not a easy job being mommy and daddy hats off to ya xxxx
------ This thread is Archived ------
Britishmalteser: Hi everyone :)
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
Are you sure that those guys did not hypnotize themselves (belief for the win! :D) into thinking and overemphasizing the ideas that they need or should this or that to be eligible for you? and by their combination of understood meanings, habitual thinking, and habitual expression just serves you things not very well thought through, and wouldn't either, if things were more clear?
just a thought
------ This thread is Archived ------
or it could be that guys feel so much pressure from the problem that single moms cry so much about, that some of them contemplate it and realize that it would be a honor, not a burden?
but then again, magical mystery female thinking happens, and that becomes wrong too. LOL
but then again, magical mystery female thinking happens, and that becomes wrong too. LOL
------ This thread is Archived ------
Damned if we do damned if we don't . You could leave finding a partner till your child has left home . The effect can be very bad on a relationship with about 75% fail when there children from another relationship present . I have been where you are now with three kids and did not like the odds .
------ This thread is Archived ------
epirb: Damned if we do damned if we don't . You could leave finding a partner till your child has left home . The effect can be very bad on a relationship with about 75% fail when there children from another relationship present . I have been where you are now with three kids and did not like the odds .
If her kid is 3 years old, he/she leaves at, in USA, what? 16? 18? 21 years old?
Even if she deals with the loneliness, what would do do with the electricity bill?
Basically, madam, my advice to you with be to improve your understanding of how things work, that way you would be less dependent, have more resources, believe less, know more, and in the end, the chances of finding a guy of the same qualities would improve proportionally.
------ This thread is Archived ------
I do not understand why you would not want a guy to be good to your child. I think that is number 1.
If you find a guy who wants you and the child and you love him, I would think that would be great.
I know you want a guy to love you. My Mom was the same way. Always on dates and if the guy liked me good. I think it is a package. Each person is important, but the highest priority is the child.
So you would have to wed out the ones who please you the best and care for you against the ones who are full of it, then will dump you.
The Dobe
If you find a guy who wants you and the child and you love him, I would think that would be great.
I know you want a guy to love you. My Mom was the same way. Always on dates and if the guy liked me good. I think it is a package. Each person is important, but the highest priority is the child.
So you would have to wed out the ones who please you the best and care for you against the ones who are full of it, then will dump you.
The Dobe
------ This thread is Archived ------
Britishmalteser: Hi everyone :)
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
The simple fact is most men don't want a ready made family, and without something more they don't really want a woman with another man's child.The fact that you are in your spot says to most men that you make poor decisions about choosing a man. Many others will be wondering what you did that made the babies dad leave you. Most every man is going be logical and think how much it costs to raise a child today, and is he really ready to put that much onto raising another man's child. Others will be thinking what if the guy is a crumb and trouble maker, what trouble lays in wait for the future.
I see this a lot now. It's a shame so many women choose to make such poor decisions concerning their future. It's an epidemic today.
------ This thread is Archived ------
theromancepoet: The simple fact is most men don't want a ready made family, and without something more they don't really want a woman with another man's child.The fact that you are in your spot says to most men that you make poor decisions about choosing a man. Many others will be wondering what you did that made the babies dad leave you. Most every man is going be logical and think how much it costs to raise a child today, and is he really ready to put that much onto raising another man's child. Others will be thinking what if the guy is a crumb and trouble maker, what trouble lays in wait for the future.
I see this a lot now. It's a shame so many women choose to make such poor decisions concerning their future. It's an epidemic today.
I see this a lot now. It's a shame so many women choose to make such poor decisions concerning their future. It's an epidemic today.
Also a shame that so many men put their needs first and walk away from their families thereby leaving single mums to be categorized in such a way!!! Not always the woman's fault..just sayin.
I may have made a bad decision but it took him 14 years and 4 children to walk away, doesn't make me a bad person. I'm left raising the kids not him.Saying that I'm not looking for a father for my kids, they don't need one,useless as the one is they have, he IS their dad.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Britishmalteser: Hi everyone :)
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
huh? did you decide this all on your own or did ou ask your daughter what she thinks of this? jest saying. I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Britishmalteser: Hi everyone :)
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
It seems selfish to only be here on CS for your self.
All children needs a father/mother figure.
------ This thread is Archived ------
jovisst: It seems selfish to only be here on CS for your self.
All children needs a father/mother figure.
All children needs a father/mother figure.
soem kids are polite and some are bombs
------ This thread is Archived ------
galrads: huh? did you decide this all on your own or did ou ask your daughter what she thinks of this? jest saying.
she mus have asked her daughter for sure
------ This thread is Archived ------
This Thread is Archived
This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.
« Go back to All Threads
« Go back to All Threads
More Threads
your favorite topic?
Why is this shameful?
Unions support Democrats!
Democrats destroyed America
More Proof The GOP is a Criminal Organization
s*xual skills
Have it both ways!
makeover
See It All The Time
I'm a 53 YEAR'S YUNG MAN that lives back in the 80s
More Threads
Report threads that break rules, are offensive, or contain fighting. Staff may not be aware of the forum abuse, and cannot do anything about it unless you tell us about it. click to report forum abuse »
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
If one of the comments is offensive, please report the comment instead (there is a link in each comment to report it).
I am a single Mummy, and i need to vent about something.
I have been a single mummy to my 3 yr old daughter since i was 3 months pregnant ( long story) and her "dad" has not been around since i was 3 months pregnant :/
Well basically, i get messages from men saying "you seem like a great girl, i would like to see you and maybe be a father to your daughter".
Now SERIOUSLY??? Im very happy playing the Mummy and Daddy role to my daughter, She DOESNT need a daddy. im on this site for me not her.
Actually there is one last thing. If you find a man you love, and I hope you do, he will be a father figure or even father to her if he is a good man. If you want a "Happy Family" some day that has to be accepted by you as well. But, until you find that man I do understand and respect your position.