cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
Why do 90% of the men in this site "want no kids". It's annoying and sounds a bit selfish each time I read a profile and if it isn't screaming "wants no kid but welcomes yours" it's screaming "probably wants no kid".How about us ladies that have no kids yet, don't we have a chance of hooking up here.
What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?
coolady: Why do 90% of the men in this site "want no kids". It's annoying and sounds a bit selfish each time I read a profile and if it isn't screaming "wants no kid but welcomes yours" it's screaming "probably wants no kid".How about us ladies that have no kids yet, don't we have a chance of hooking up here.
What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?
Eh... ... lots of people already have enough kids, finished their procreating duties.
Ummm...take a closer look. People are connecting. And if I had a magic wand or that transport thingy that is used on the Starship Enterprise, I'd be transporting myself sooo quickly to somewhere else on the other side of the planet right now.
Hey Coolady, some of us have had our kids and raised them..I mean if it happens then fine and joyous but lets face it someone like me isnt getting any younger and would find it very hard at this age to have children..Love kids cant wait for grandchildren
cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
70Libra: Eh... ... lots of people already have enough kids, finished their procreating duties.
If they have finished procreating, they should fr**king make way for us to procreate too. Just kidding! They are annoying and it sounds selfish to me. It sounds like "I have my own kids and don't care about you". Once I open a profile and see that "No kids" sign, I run like crazy. LOL
coolady: If they have finished procreating, they should fr**king make way for us to procreate too. Just kidding! They are annoying and it sounds selfish to me. It sounds like "I have my own kids and don't care about you". Once I open a profile and see that "No kids" sign, I run like crazy. LOL
Exercise is important
Nah, seriously though. That's their preference. You have preferences too I assume.
cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
pops666: Hey Coolady, some of us have had our kids and raised them..I mean if it happens then fine and joyous but lets face it someone like me isnt getting any younger and would find it very hard at this age to have children..Love kids cant wait for grandchildren
Thanks but don't make me feel terrible sweetie, I love kids very much and when people are talking about their grandchildren beside me, I almost want to cry as in "I have no kids and some are already enjoying their grandkids".
coolady: Why do 90% of the men in this site "want no kids". It's annoying and sounds a bit selfish each time I read a profile and if it isn't screaming "wants no kid but welcomes yours" it's screaming "probably wants no kid".How about us ladies that have no kids yet, don't we have a chance of hooking up here.
What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?
u have asked some good questions . the major factor being single on the site is deficiency of truth,many peoples dont trust each other and they ony want parter inthier own area.for kids i have no idea why they dont need kids although i saw many loving and caring childs for parents inthe free western culture
coolady: If they have finished procreating, they should fr**king make way for us to procreate too. Just kidding! They are annoying and it sounds selfish to me. It sounds like "I have my own kids and don't care about you". Once I open a profile and see that "No kids" sign, I run like crazy. LOL
To be fair you sound just as selfish because you appear to expect everyone to want the same as you.
There are a wide variety of members here, all with different backgrounds, ages, experience etc etc. That means that not everyone wants to start a new relationship, if indeed that´s what they are looking for here, with someone who has dependent children. I know I don´t, but I adore children, and you seem to be implying otherwise.
cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
70Libra: Exercise is important
Nah, seriously though. That's their preference. You have preferences too I assume.
Yes Baby! Ha-ha-he-he I am having fun here but seriously(coolady whispers to 70libra)these "no kids" men are getting on my nerves here. They better go get another "no kids" planet for themselves he-he.
coolady: Yes Baby! Ha-ha-he-he I am having fun here but seriously(coolady whispers to 70libra)these "no kids" men are getting on my nerves here. They better go get another "no kids" planet for themselves he-he.
I'm the other end of the scale. I don't want any more kids and would pass by the ones who DO want more kids...
Hey... I'll pass on the names of the yes men to you, and you pass on the 'no kids' names to me
cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
JAN_is: To be fair you sound just as selfish because you appear to expect everyone to want the same as you.
There are a wide variety of members here, all with different backgrounds, ages, experience etc etc. That means that not everyone wants to start a new relationship, if indeed that´s what they are looking for here, with someone who has dependent children. I know I don´t, but I adore children, and you seem to be implying otherwise.
Quit gettin uptight Jan we are just talking here and catching some sunday evening fun okay. I love kids and have no problem if I hook up with someone that has kids, I will love his kids and even feel glad and blessed that I have step kids. Now loosen up a bit darling.Smile!
coolady: If they have finished procreating, they should fr**king make way for us to procreate too. Just kidding! They are annoying and it sounds selfish to me. It sounds like "I have my own kids and don't care about you". Once I open a profile and see that "No kids" sign, I run like crazy. LOL
If they looked at my age I think they would know it isn't going to happen by no natural way. Those days are gone for me. But I am willing to try as long as the right man wants too
Reminds me of an old southern joke. You can poke fun at me but I am not going to take you serious.
cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
Happygolucky4u: If they looked at my age I think they would know it isn't going to happen by no natural way. Those days are gone for me. But I am willing to try as long as the right man wants too Reminds me of an old southern joke. You can poke fun at me but I am not going to take you serious.
cooladyOPTrinidad, Port of Spain Trinidad and Tobago24 posts
pops666: Not trying to make you feel bad..I mean my profile states undecided..As I said if it happens it happens...no harm intended and i wish you luck
Don't take me on dear, we are just talking. Wish you luck too
Raynew1959Barrington, New Hampshire USA2,218 posts
coolady: Why do 90% of the men in this site "want no kids". It's annoying and sounds a bit selfish each time I read a profile and if it isn't screaming "wants no kid but welcomes yours" it's screaming "probably wants no kid".How about us ladies that have no kids yet, don't we have a chance of hooking up here.
What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?
At 52 years old myself, I have already raised a couple of wonderful boys. The last thing I want is more as it is time to have fun
coolady: Why do 90% of the men in this site "want no kids". It's annoying and sounds a bit selfish each time I read a profile and if it isn't screaming "wants no kid but welcomes yours" it's screaming "probably wants no kid".How about us ladies that have no kids yet, don't we have a chance of hooking up here.
What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?
Well being one of the "wants no kids" people; I think it equally selfish to have kids when you know damn well you can't afford to support them. You are not doing them any favours. Way too many people are having kids and can't even feed them. WTF?
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What are we all also doing here if nobody wants to be with anybody people? So many lonely people, clicking and unclicking, logging in and out yet wallowing in loneliness. I understand that it isn't every person one finds appealing but our own is too much here. It's as if everybody is scared of everybody else. What's really going on in this our site pips?