An expectation to 'OBEY' (66)
yeah you shouldn't wouldn't be making karmas around me unless you were willing to listen up, and if i deemed so, Obey me, rather be single than be involved with a women who won't listen
pisceslady7: I just received another of several messages I have received from men who have an interesting sentence in their profiles. They are looking for a 'loyal and obedient woman'.
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
Dont worry about it
it just proves that these contacts come from scammers who have no grasp of the English language as no guy in his right mind would Ever say that to an Aussie Girl.
Just report them.
pisceslady7: I just received another of several messages I have received from men who have an interesting sentence in their profiles. They are looking for a 'loyal and obedient woman'.
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
Yes and while you are obeying , loose the bikini and get a burka , black one to , no flowers just dark blackI let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
Martia: Dont worry about it it just proves that these contacts come from scammers who have no grasp of the English language as no guy in his right mind would Ever say that to an Aussie Girl.
Just report them.
Just report them.
Martia, I am not worried about it as I know what I am and am not willing to put up with. And yes, he was reported, but for other reasons in his profile...location etc. did not add up.
epirb: Yes and while you are obeying , loose the bikini and get a burka , black one to , no flowers just dark black
Actually I am neither for or against the burkha. On the proviso that it is the WOMAN'S choice as it often is......especially here.
pisceslady7: Actually I am neither for or against the burkha. On the proviso that it is the WOMAN'S choice as it often is......especially here.
thats the whole point ,choice , I don't doubt that woman's choice of the burka depends on getting a whipping on not . That is not choice .pisceslady7: I just received another of several messages I have received from men who have an interesting sentence in their profiles. They are looking for a 'loyal and obedient woman'.
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
I so love being disobedient.... 
epirb: thats the whole point ,choice , I don't doubt that woman's choice of the burka depends on getting a whipping on not . That is not choice .
I agree that if it is IMPOSED it is not a choice, however, many women DO choose to wear it as a sign of their faith just as some christian women choose to wear a cross as jewellery. I do not believe in forcing women to do things...I did stress CHOICE so I think we are possibly in agreement.???
pisceslady7: I just received another of several messages I have received from men who have an interesting sentence in their profiles. They are looking for a 'loyal and obedient woman'.
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?
I'm going to be shot down in flames(cyber) for this but...
I think ladies sometimes have an unspoken/unwritten clause stating that the man must obey her (lawn mowing, fixing this and that).....Who remembers 'Rumpole of the Bailey'?...Dear ol' Rumpole was the archetypal male bemoaning...
'She who must be obeyed.
.... maybe scammers translator is broken . brake the word down (obedient) O BED I, ent makes no sense till fed to google ent it came up with ENTERTAINMENT TO NIGHT ,so your not so local scammer really means . O BED I ENTERTAINMENT TONIGHT , there, makes sense kind of . 
venere08: I'm going to be shot down in flames(cyber) for this but...
I think ladies sometimes have an unspoken/unwritten clause stating that the man must obey her (lawn mowing, fixing this and that).....Who remembers 'Rumpole of the Bailey'?...Dear ol' Rumpole was the archetypal male bemoaning...
'She who must be obeyed.....
I think ladies sometimes have an unspoken/unwritten clause stating that the man must obey her (lawn mowing, fixing this and that).....Who remembers 'Rumpole of the Bailey'?...Dear ol' Rumpole was the archetypal male bemoaning...
'She who must be obeyed.....
No flames from me. Old Rumpole...makes me smile! "She who must be obeyed" I am sure rarely was. he used to complain about having to be home in time for dinner!!
Yes, women do sometimes expect men to do certain things, just as men expect meals cooked, clothes washed, houses cleaned, children fed and watered etc. etc. Statistics still show that when both partners work women still do far more than 50% of the housework on average
Relationships should be negotiated....not dictated. Or is that just me?
Or we could look at it this way...
'You obey me, and I obey you'
...Simples!!
'You obey me, and I obey you'
...Simples!!pisceslady7: No flames from me. Old Rumpole...makes me smile! "She who must be obeyed" I am sure rarely was. he used to complain about having to be home in time for dinner!!
Yes, women do sometimes expect men to do certain things, just as men expect meals cooked, clothes washed, houses cleaned, children fed and watered etc. etc. Statistics still show that when both partners work women still do far more than 50% of the housework on average
Relationships should be negotiated....not dictated. Or is that just me?
Yes, women do sometimes expect men to do certain things, just as men expect meals cooked, clothes washed, houses cleaned, children fed and watered etc. etc. Statistics still show that when both partners work women still do far more than 50% of the housework on average
Relationships should be negotiated....not dictated. Or is that just me?
OOPS.....I do realise that many men also do the housework, so please....do not shoot me withn the flamethrowers either! I can still see the love of my life with his pinny on making quiche....bless his heart!
venere08: Or we could look at it this way...
'You obey me, and I obey you'...Simples!!
number one a grade scammer could never say that , must be a hidden meaning 'You obey me, and I obey you'...Simples!!
I shall have to break it up a bit a see epirb: number one a grade scammer could never say that , must be a hidden meaning I shall have to break it up a bit a see
My comment is stand alone...not related to your scammer post, epirb.
...So no hidden meaning in my comment.
Martia: Dont worry about it it just proves that these contacts come from scammers who have no grasp of the English language as no guy in his right mind would Ever say that to an Aussie Girl.
Just report them.
I rest my case VENEREJust report them.
pisceslady7: No flames from me. Old Rumpole...makes me smile! "She who must be obeyed" I am sure rarely was. he used to complain about having to be home in time for dinner!!
Yes, women do sometimes expect men to do certain things, just as men expect meals cooked, clothes washed, houses cleaned, children fed and watered etc. etc. Statistics still show that when both partners work women still do far more than 50% of the housework on average
Relationships should be negotiated....not dictated. Or is that just me?
Yes, women do sometimes expect men to do certain things, just as men expect meals cooked, clothes washed, houses cleaned, children fed and watered etc. etc. Statistics still show that when both partners work women still do far more than 50% of the housework on average
Relationships should be negotiated....not dictated. Or is that just me?
Sometimes a fine line
Martia: Wondered where you had got too.
I've been working my little hoozies off ... How is ya?
Martia: Dont worry about it it just proves that these contacts come from scammers who have no grasp of the English language as no guy in his right mind would Ever say that to an Aussie Girl.
Just report them.
Just report them.
Actually there are quite a few christian fundamentalist churches which still teach women are "the weaker vessel" (1 peter 3:7) and that wives should "submit" to their husbands (Ephesians 5:22)
(just one of many reasons I'm not a big believer...)
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I let this man know what I thought of such a suggestion....loyalty is one thing....but he says she must 'obey him'. Some men obviously still do not see women as equals which I find rather strange.
Just wondering if others have seen this as well. Also, are MEN asked to 'obey' by some women???? (and I do mean in an 'overall relationship sense')
I have been in several relationships as have most single women my age, however, only once (in my early 20s) was I ever expected to OBEY, - which came as quite a shock as both of my parents raised us to be equal in relationships and part of a team - needless to say, that early relationship was nipped in the bud. In my 30s and 40s I have never even come across a hint of this.
Are we going backwards to the 1800s?