True love never really dies. (49)
NuliiiiiiiDublin, Ireland449 Threads 7,367 PostsJan i ment to add you are one of the nicest "Honest" ppl on site 
and it have enjoyed reading your posts and you will be missed BUT wohooooooooooooo for you Beautiful 
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Nuliiiiiii: Jan i ment to add you are one of the nicest "Honest" ppl on site and it have enjoyed reading your posts and you will be missed BUT wohooooooooooooo for you Beautiful
Opsssssssssssssssss I have enjoyed reading Damm that Vino again
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Jan_is 
it is the best piece of news I have read last weeks on CS!
Good Luck! Be happy Jan!
it is the best piece of news I have read last weeks on CS!
Good Luck! Be happy Jan!
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For one of the nicest ladies on C.S. I wish you both joy and happiness.
Barbados is a magical place and long may the romance continue.
Love is lovelier the second time around
For you both.
Barbados is a magical place and long may the romance continue.
Love is lovelier the second time around
For you both.
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JAN_is: As some of you know I was celebrating the marriage of my son and his beautiful now wife just last week in Barbados. The wedding on the beach was wonderful, and Barbados simply Paradise. However, another totally unexpected romance evolved during my 2 weeks there....that of my ex husband and I.
We fell in love all over again, though he apparently has never felt able to move on completely since we separated, and has never stopped loving me. It was a bolt from the blue for me, and I realised that I too still loved him. We had been together for many years as the old-timers here know, and the ten years we´ve been apart have flown over. We´ve both changed in many ways of course, but talking and spending time together just revealed how close, and in love we still are.
Our break up was devastating for both of us, yet not for reasons of infidelity or other serious issues, we simply grew apart and felt we were moving in different directions. That makes it all sound rather a flippant decision to split, but sometimes the horror stories we all read here are not the only reasons why couples break up.
I don´t know if there are folk here who have experienced a similar type of break up, or if there is any chance they will get back together, but it can and does happen, as I can happily testify.
It´s not going to be easy, we´re not fools, but we have, and always have had. something very special and we are going to give it our best shot.
I´m extremely optimistic.
I will be deleting my profile here after I´ve read and responded to any responses I may get, and I truly wish you all the best.
I am happy for you and wish you the best. But I for one will truely miss you...We fell in love all over again, though he apparently has never felt able to move on completely since we separated, and has never stopped loving me. It was a bolt from the blue for me, and I realised that I too still loved him. We had been together for many years as the old-timers here know, and the ten years we´ve been apart have flown over. We´ve both changed in many ways of course, but talking and spending time together just revealed how close, and in love we still are.
Our break up was devastating for both of us, yet not for reasons of infidelity or other serious issues, we simply grew apart and felt we were moving in different directions. That makes it all sound rather a flippant decision to split, but sometimes the horror stories we all read here are not the only reasons why couples break up.
I don´t know if there are folk here who have experienced a similar type of break up, or if there is any chance they will get back together, but it can and does happen, as I can happily testify.
It´s not going to be easy, we´re not fools, but we have, and always have had. something very special and we are going to give it our best shot.
I´m extremely optimistic.
I will be deleting my profile here after I´ve read and responded to any responses I may get, and I truly wish you all the best.
May your days be filled with sunshine and happiness. 
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awww Jan i am very happy for you,wish you both much happiness.------ This thread is Archived ------
Dear Jan, This is So Great to Hear, You will be missed here, but hopefully You two will Restore the Marriage Vows in time, and just think the Peace and Joy it will also bring to Your Children...
May God Bless Both of You in this,
Larry
May God Bless Both of You in this,
Larry
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Soo Happy to read that Jan 
For the two happy couples (and all the others out there).. 
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Jan, I am very happy for you and your ex. Wishing you days of happiness, nights of love and dreams that will unite the two of you again. I will miss you...
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Fabulous news, Jan!...I agree, true love never dies.
What often happens though, is that the conditions for giving and receiving disappear, for whatever reason.
You have been re-ignited yours, in the most beautiful manner possible.
How absolutely special...Wishing you continued joy.
What often happens though, is that the conditions for giving and receiving disappear, for whatever reason.
You have been re-ignited yours, in the most beautiful manner possible.
How absolutely special...Wishing you continued joy.
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great .news jan,I wish you both the best....pete...... 
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JAN_is: As some of you know I was celebrating the marriage of my son and his beautiful now wife just last week in Barbados. The wedding on the beach was wonderful, and Barbados simply Paradise. However, another totally unexpected romance evolved during my 2 weeks there....that of my ex husband and I.
We fell in love all over again, though he apparently has never felt able to move on completely since we separated, and has never stopped loving me. It was a bolt from the blue for me, and I realised that I too still loved him. We had been together for many years as the old-timers here know, and the ten years we´ve been apart have flown over. We´ve both changed in many ways of course, but talking and spending time together just revealed how close, and in love we still are.
Our break up was devastating for both of us, yet not for reasons of infidelity or other serious issues, we simply grew apart and felt we were moving in different directions. That makes it all sound rather a flippant decision to split, but sometimes the horror stories we all read here are not the only reasons why couples break up.
I don´t know if there are folk here who have experienced a similar type of break up, or if there is any chance they will get back together, but it can and does happen, as I can happily testify.
It´s not going to be easy, we´re not fools, but we have, and always have had. something very special and we are going to give it our best shot.
I´m extremely optimistic.
I will be deleting my profile here after I´ve read and responded to any responses I may get, and I truly wish you all the best.
We fell in love all over again, though he apparently has never felt able to move on completely since we separated, and has never stopped loving me. It was a bolt from the blue for me, and I realised that I too still loved him. We had been together for many years as the old-timers here know, and the ten years we´ve been apart have flown over. We´ve both changed in many ways of course, but talking and spending time together just revealed how close, and in love we still are.
Our break up was devastating for both of us, yet not for reasons of infidelity or other serious issues, we simply grew apart and felt we were moving in different directions. That makes it all sound rather a flippant decision to split, but sometimes the horror stories we all read here are not the only reasons why couples break up.
I don´t know if there are folk here who have experienced a similar type of break up, or if there is any chance they will get back together, but it can and does happen, as I can happily testify.
It´s not going to be easy, we´re not fools, but we have, and always have had. something very special and we are going to give it our best shot.
I´m extremely optimistic.
I will be deleting my profile here after I´ve read and responded to any responses I may get, and I truly wish you all the best.
What a lovely post to read, congratulations, I really hope everything goes well for the two of you.
You will be missed here, I liked your reading your posts
Best of luck to you, Jan
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this post had me in tears Jan..my ex has got back in touch with me after 2 yrs of no contact..when I became ill he couldnt handle it and I didnt blame because 10 months before he had buried his 38 yr old wife after nursing her for 8 yrs ..he kinda went off the rails going round with bad crowds I needed my space to deal with my illness on my own so we decided to part we stayed friends tho lost contact for two yrs..Ive known him all my life we lived together for 7 yrs we both just needed to deal with things our own way,when he called me it was from prison to tell me he is serving a ten yr sentence..Im so mixed up about my feelings for him I feel a tremendous amount of guilt for sending him off the rails ...I had accepted a long time ago he was gone from my life and although I wasnt ready to move on because of my illness I accepted we were over..Ive got some seriuos thinkin to do...and this is the best happy ever after story Ive read..Im well made up for both of you and wish you both a long happy life together..its been a pleasure knowing you here ...
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this post had me in tears Jan..my ex has got back in touch with me after 2 yrs of no contact..when I became ill he couldnt handle it and I didnt blame because 10 months before he had buried his 38 yr old wife after nursing her for 8 yrs ..he kinda went off the rails going round with bad crowds I needed my space to deal with my illness on my own so we decided to part we stayed friends tho lost contact for two yrs..Ive known him all my life we lived together for 7 yrs we both just needed to deal with things our own way,when he called me it was from prison to tell me he is serving a ten yr sentence..Im so mixed up about my feelings for him I feel a tremendous amount of guilt for sending him off the rails ...I had accepted a long time ago he was gone from my life and although I wasnt ready to move on because of my illness I accepted we were over..Ive got some seriuos thinkin to do...and this is the best happy ever after story Ive read..Im well made up for both of you and wish you both a long happy life together..its been a pleasure knowing you here ...
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boomboom_uk: this post had me in tears Jan..my ex has got back in touch with me after 2 yrs of no contact..when I became ill he couldnt handle it and I didnt blame because 10 months before he had buried his 38 yr old wife after nursing her for 8 yrs ..he kinda went off the rails going round with bad crowds I needed my space to deal with my illness on my own so we decided to part we stayed friends tho lost contact for two yrs..Ive known him all my life we lived together for 7 yrs we both just needed to deal with things our own way,when he called me it was from prison to tell me he is serving a ten yr sentence..Im so mixed up about my feelings for him I feel a tremendous amount of guilt for sending him off the rails ...I had accepted a long time ago he was gone from my life and although I wasnt ready to move on because of my illness I accepted we were over..Ive got some seriuos thinkin to do...and this is the best happy ever after story Ive read..Im well made up for both of you and wish you both a long happy life together..its been a pleasure knowing you here ...
Maybe you could renew your friendship Boomy instead of trying to figure out if you have any romantic feelings for him. It doesn't sound like there's a need to rush what you want to do. Take it slow so that he fits into your life and not the other way around. His being in prison is a way of keeping him at a distance but at the same time a way to slowly develop a new relationship.
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A Toast to you and the former ex - soon to be an ex - ex! Love springs anew May much happiness surround you and yours------ This thread is Archived ------
good luck - hope it goes well for you
I have heard of this kind of thing happening successfully before. You are lucky that your friendship was in good enough repair after the divorce to make this possible for you!
I think it is rare & but also great for you. Best wishes
I have heard of this kind of thing happening successfully before. You are lucky that your friendship was in good enough repair after the divorce to make this possible for you!
I think it is rare & but also great for you. Best wishes
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montecito: Maybe you could renew your friendship Boomy instead of trying to figure out if you have any romantic feelings for him. It doesn't sound like there's a need to rush what you want to do. Take it slow so that he fits into your life and not the other way around. His being in prison is a way of keeping him at a distance but at the same time a way to slowly develop a new relationship.
right now Monte Im not even giving him a second thought until I get my results Ive told him not to phone my home again but to send me his address and I will write to him as a friend when I find out which way my life is heading..too much going on in my life just now to analyse my feelings...
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