would you truly give up? (73)

Dec 14, 2011 5:18 AM CST would you truly give up?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
just say you actually met someone you would like to spend ur time with in an intimate relationship.....would you be willing to give up part of yourself to the other person?uh oh
Dec 14, 2011 5:29 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
eumundibabe: just say you actually met someone you would like to spend ur time with in an intimate relationship.....would you be willing to give up part of yourself to the other person?

It depends how important the part is to you, i haven't given anything up with my new partner, maybe we are so alike. i think depending what your giving up, could put presure on the relationship later on.
Dec 14, 2011 5:34 AM CST would you truly give up?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
yes true you are...every relationship i have had seemed to have an essence of giving up something....actually tonight i was thinking that perhaps giving up on trying to find someone ..................i suppose all intimate relationships do have a certain amount of giving up something for the other person
Dec 14, 2011 5:39 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
eumundibabe: yes true you are...every relationship i have had seemed to have an essence of giving up something....actually tonight i was thinking that perhaps giving up on trying to find someone ..................i suppose all intimate relationships do have a certain amount of giving up something for the other person

I don't believe you should give up something that is a part of you, that why they fell for you in the first place. I've been there, where i've had to give up certain things, These things are a part of who we are.
Dec 14, 2011 5:43 AM CST would you truly give up?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Kristia49: I don't believe you should give up something that is a part of you, that why they fell for you in the first place. I've been there, where i've had to give up certain things, These things are a part of who we are.


Hi Krisia... you have the right idea hun...

No, dont give up anything for another.. except time of course.. but if its something bad like 'smoking' then I would consider it if he was important enough... only coz it would be good for me... lol
Dec 14, 2011 5:44 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
Merriweather: Hi Krisia... you have the right idea hun...

No, dont give up anything for another.. except time of course.. but if its something bad like 'smoking' then I would consider it if he was important enough... only coz it would be good for me... lol

yes i agree if it affects your health, then yes. teddybear
Dec 14, 2011 5:45 AM CST would you truly give up?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
Kristia49: I don't believe you should give up something that is a part of you, that why they fell for you in the first place. I've been there, where i've had to give up certain things, These things are a part of who we are.


its always lovely and blissfull at the beginning....both people showing their best pearly whites.....then when it gets a bit comfortable those little suttle requests creep in like.............i like the bed made...well i dont.....can i have my steak well done next time when you cook....why do you wear makeup i like women natural.......toilet seat down...toilet seat up lol lolrolling on the floor laughing
Dec 14, 2011 5:49 AM CST would you truly give up?
lolshorty
lolshortylolshortyWhoop whoop, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 416 Posts
All for compromises but definately not giving up, anything important up for anyone.... wow
Dec 14, 2011 5:49 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
eumundibabe: its always lovely and blissfull at the beginning....both people showing their best pearly whites.....then when it gets a bit comfortable those little suttle requests creep in like.............i like the bed made...well i dont.....can i have my steak well done next time when you cook....why do you wear makeup i like women natural.......toilet seat down...toilet seat up lol lol

Thats why i believe you should be yourself in a relationship, not pretend your someone else. Yes thats when it all comes out in the open, finding a natural is hard but i think i have finally found him.It's so nice to be yourself, not worry about if you say the wrong thing.
Dec 14, 2011 5:51 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
lolshorty: All for compromises but definately not giving up, anything important up for anyone....

you learn as you get older, to be treated as an equeal.
Dec 14, 2011 5:54 AM CST would you truly give up?
lolshorty
lolshortylolshortyWhoop whoop, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 416 Posts
Kristia49: you learn as you get older, to be treated as an equeal.


Nicely with respect is great teddybear
Dec 14, 2011 5:59 AM CST would you truly give up?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
Kristia49: you learn as you get older, to be treated as an equeal.



glad for you and nicely said.......have always been myself in a relationship....but the thing they always like about me in the begginning is usually what they have trouble with down the track
Dec 14, 2011 6:02 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
eumundibabe: glad for you and nicely said.......have always been myself in a relationship....but the thing they always like about me in the begginning is usually what they have trouble with down the track

Just keep on being yourself, someday someone will love you for that.
Dec 14, 2011 6:02 AM CST would you truly give up?
AgentAjax
AgentAjaxAgentAjaxBrisbane, Queensland Australia81 Threads 1 Polls 3,965 Posts
eumundibabe: just say you actually met someone you would like to spend ur time with in an intimate relationship.....would you be willing to give up part of yourself to the other person?
My favourite love quote which I think complements this subject.


“Love is a noble act of self giving, offering trust,
faith and loyalty. The more you love the more you
lose part of yourself, yet you don’t become less
of who you are; you end up being complete with
your loved ones.”
wine
Dec 14, 2011 6:05 AM CST would you truly give up?
lolshorty
lolshortylolshortyWhoop whoop, Western Australia Australia10 Threads 416 Posts
eumundibabe: glad for you and nicely said.......have always been myself in a relationship....but the thing they always like about me in the begginning is usually what they have trouble with down the track


confused confused confused

I really dont care why they left or why i left them because its apparent regardless of the last reason/s there are issues and one of us isnt happy...

i can only be me
Dec 14, 2011 6:06 AM CST would you truly give up?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
AgentAjax: My favourite love quote which I think complements this subject.“Love is a noble act of self giving, offering trust,
faith and loyalty. The more you love the more you
lose part of yourself, yet you don’t become less
of who you are; you end up being complete with
your loved ones.”



Hellooooo AA..

Is this really your fav. love quote..

I am impressed... I did not ever view you this way... wave
Dec 14, 2011 6:06 AM CST would you truly give up?
Blizzard14u
Blizzard14uBlizzard14uGosnells, Western Australia Australia67 Threads 2 Polls 1,430 Posts
eumundibabe: just say you actually met someone you would like to spend ur time with in an intimate relationship.....would you be willing to give up part of yourself to the other person?


No not ever! I live a happier life now than I ever had, I would only date someone that would make my life better, if I am willing to accept her faults then she must accept mine?
You only get one life! Ask yourself do you really want to live that life as others want or as you want?

I am 46 now, I have had enough off people that want to change me or tell me how to live my life!

I live in a house off perfect harmony with my 16 year old daughter and her boyfriend , who I took in because off his bad parents!

I change peoples life’s for the better just knowing me now! I could never be better than I am now so why would I change!
professor
Dec 14, 2011 6:07 AM CST would you truly give up?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
Kristia49: Just keep on being yourself, someday someone will love you for that.
wave cheers but i dont think it happens to everyone......grin
Dec 14, 2011 6:09 AM CST would you truly give up?
eumundibabe
eumundibabeeumundibabesunshine coast, Queensland Australia30 Threads 486 Posts
AgentAjax: My favourite love quote which I think complements this subject.“Love is a noble act of self giving, offering trust,
faith and loyalty. The more you love the more you
lose part of yourself, yet you don’t become less
of who you are; you end up being complete with
your loved ones.”


thats prity coolheart wings
Dec 14, 2011 6:10 AM CST would you truly give up?
Kristia49
Kristia49Kristia49toowoomba, Queensland Australia31 Threads 2,039 Posts
Blizzard14u: No not ever! I live a happier life now than I ever had, I would only date someone that would make my life better, if I am willing to accept her faults then she must accept mine?
You only get one life! Ask yourself do you really want to live that life as others want or as you want?

I am 46 now, I have had enough off people that want to change me or tell me how to live my life!

I live in a house off perfect harmony with my 16 year old daughter and her boyfriend , who I took in because off his bad parents!

I change peoples life’s for the better just knowing me now! I could never be better than I am now so why would I change!

I agree, i've always said" You only have one life, don't put up with unhappiness, people who bring you down"
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