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Jan 2, 2012 3:56 PM CST maybe you're the One!
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Mermaidon: For your information, we ALL have an Ego. Who do you THINK you are? Whatever it is, that's your ego whispering in your ear. You think you're this person now looking at your screen and passing judgment? Ego. You think you're this professional person making a living? Ego. You think you're a good father or a good husband? Ego. Whatever you think you are, whoever and wherever on this planet, that's your Ego telling you it.
Yes some of us have a bigger ego than others but that doesn't mean we should be judged of ridiculed.
The one who realizes the size of his Ego is better prepared to deal with life. Does it mean it's right to get your ego pumped up and look at people from above? No. But it doesn't also make it right for those who THINK their Ego is in check to judge others. We're all in the same boat and to think oneself better than another is the result of the Ego as well.
Okay, that's my rant for today.


Indeed...

"Most of us have only truly grown when our ego's haughty power has been brought down. An open and humble ego will recognise and keep in check any complexes that seek to undermine the soul or psyche,
therefore allowing true self awareness and the value of others.
Left unchecked, the ego can be like a petty tyrant reaffirming it's 'rightness' as compensation for the swamp of doubt on which it's castle is built."

James Hollis...or should I say my interpretation of his words.
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Jan 2, 2012 4:08 PM CST maybe you're the One!
bodleing: Indeed...

"Most of us have only truly grown when our ego's haughty power has been brought down. An open and humble ego will recognise and keep in check any complexes that seek to undermine the soul or psyche,
therefore allowing true self awareness and the value of others.
Left unchecked, the ego can be like a petty tyrant reaffirming it's 'rightness' as compensation for the swamp of doubt on which it's castle is built."

James Hollis...or should I say my interpretation of his words.
I like this very much Bod. Thanks for sharing. wine

Wishing you and that handsome Hound a wonderful 2012. dancing dog
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Jan 2, 2012 4:16 PM CST maybe you're the One!
bodleing
bodleingbodleingGreater Manchester, England UK238 Threads 8 Polls 13,810 Posts
Kaybee50: I like this very much Bod. Thanks for sharing.

Wishing you and that handsome Hound a wonderful 2012.


Thanks KB, hoping you have a great new year also.


teddybear
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Jan 2, 2012 6:11 PM CST maybe you're the One!
southmiami12
southmiami12southmiami12Tampa, Florida, Florida USA5 Threads 162 Posts
Being 31 and still single is nothing.
So focus on whoever you decide to be with.
Do what your heart desires.
Even if I don't think as you do, I don't judge.
I just think there is nothing more beautiful than a love between a man and a woman.
Wish you luck.

baron_jr29: I'm tired of this kind of life, no focus, no inspiration and no direction. I think that I am 31 years old it's time for me now to find my destiny and to pursue my dream of getting married or settle down to the man I love. maybe you're the one I've been waiting for..
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Jan 2, 2012 6:22 PM CST maybe you're the One!
Mermaidon
MermaidonMermaidonBrussels, Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium26 Threads 4 Polls 1,116 Posts
bodleing: Indeed...

"Most of us have only truly grown when our ego's haughty power has been brought down. An open and humble ego will recognise and keep in check any complexes that seek to undermine the soul or psyche,
therefore allowing true self awareness and the value of others.
Left unchecked, the ego can be like a petty tyrant reaffirming it's 'rightness' as compensation for the swamp of doubt on which it's castle is built."

James Hollis...or should I say my interpretation of his words.


I agree. The Mind, the seat of the Ego, is like a monkey jumping every which way and never sitting still. Quiet the Mind, look at yourself, find the Ego and all sorts of other things you never knew were there.
Again, the Mind is an untamed lion, tame it, or be devoured.
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Jan 2, 2012 6:48 PM CST maybe you're the One!
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
My only question is do all Arabs have hairless chests? confused


We're all glad that you're proud of yourself! Knock'm dead. grin
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Jan 2, 2012 6:49 PM CST maybe you're the One!
FreddyFudpucker
FreddyFudpuckerFreddyFudpuckerObamaville, Indiana USA10,179 Posts
Mermaidon: I agree. The Mind, the seat of the Ego, is like a monkey jumping every which way and never sitting still. Quiet the Mind, look at yourself, find the Ego and all sorts of other things you never knew were there.
Again, the Mind is an untamed lion, tame it, or be devoured.



there could be some conflict between the Id and the Superego. dunno
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Jan 2, 2012 7:51 PM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29: I'm tired of this kind of life, no focus, no inspiration and no direction. I think that I am 31 years old it's time for me now to find my destiny and to pursue my dream of getting married or settle down to the man I love. maybe you're the one I've been waiting for..


so you are looking for a man, my undressed friend???wave
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Jan 2, 2012 11:48 PM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29
baron_jr29baron_jr29riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 9 Posts
Springlark: It is obvious that this guy has an enormous ego. What do you do with a thing like that? I have some good advice but you wouldn't want to hear it, and I don't go along with offending even the wanna be gods of the earth.

It is really a big deal what is written on my post? maybe you have some problem with your personality...show off dude what you have and mind your own damn business...if you have nothing to say good in anyone's opinion then it's better for you to shut your mouth off!
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Jan 2, 2012 11:59 PM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29
baron_jr29baron_jr29riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 9 Posts
thanks mermaidon...
Mermaidon: So HOW is it bothering you how that man chooses to attend to his journey and the path he chooses to attain that end?
And why should you give a damn how he goes about it?
I guess I might've misunderstood you through your Canadian accent
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Jan 3, 2012 12:13 AM CST maybe you're the One!
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA39 Threads 3,164 Posts
baron_jr29: I'm tired of this kind of life, no focus, no inspiration and no direction. I think that I am 31 years old it's time for me now to find my destiny and to pursue my dream of getting married or settle down to the man I love. maybe you're the one I've been waiting for..


Good luck to you in your search, at least you have a focus and know what you want in life!! Welcome to CS!cswelcome party danceline group hug
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Jan 3, 2012 12:36 AM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29
baron_jr29baron_jr29riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 9 Posts
Springlark: WITH EYES SHUT TIGHT, AND A MIRROR BEFORE YOU- THE BLINDNESS OF THE EGO CAN NOT SEE LIGHT

You know what? as what I've read in your profile I found out that you're too selfish! Now i believed, no wonder if you will die single and alone and lonely and no body loves you because you're nothing but a greedy old man...closed minded and self centered!
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Jan 3, 2012 1:57 AM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29
baron_jr29baron_jr29riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 9 Posts
southmiami12: Being 31 and still single is nothing.
So focus on whoever you decide to be with.
Do what your heart desires.
Even if I don't think as you do, I don't judge.
I just think there is nothing more beautiful than a love between a man and a woman.
Wish you luck.

thank you...
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Jan 3, 2012 1:58 AM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29
baron_jr29baron_jr29riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 9 Posts
nevica: I am not the one but he may be here.
Good luck and don't get descouraged if people here say anything nasty to you, it's common here if you are different.

thank you...
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Jan 3, 2012 2:14 AM CST maybe you're the One!
myrevenge
myrevengemyrevengepekanbaru, Riau Indonesia14 Posts
Welcome, Baron..
I'm new to CS too. And I like it here. There will always be the pros and the contras. Take what you think good for you and ignore what is not.Hope you'll find what you're looking for..
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Jan 3, 2012 2:28 AM CST maybe you're the One!
baron_jr29
baron_jr29baron_jr29riyadh, Ar Riyad Saudi Arabia1 Threads 9 Posts
myrevenge: Welcome, Baron..
I'm new to CS too. And I like it here. There will always be the pros and the contras. Take what you think good for you and ignore what is not.Hope you'll find what you're looking for..

thanks welcome and good luck to both of us...
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Feb 28, 2012 10:40 AM CST maybe you're the One!
gigi47
gigi47gigi47brooklyn, New York USA1 Threads 82 Posts
baron_jr29: For this people who are so naive and criticise me for what i am and what i wanted to do in my life then go to hell...this is my life and you have nothing to do for that...You know guys you look so helpless! And for the people who understand us who are in this gender thank you for understanding...


i hope you find love and that it lasts for ever. find happiness,have good health and a long life together.kiss
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Feb 28, 2012 11:34 AM CST maybe you're the One!
WinterCherry
WinterCherryWinterCherryHoffman Estates, Illinois USA20 Posts
Baron_jr29, I hope you find what you are searching for.
Everyone deserves that.
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