How much can we sacrifice for spouse? ( Archived) (18)

Feb 27, 2012 10:59 AM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
"A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his
wife, who had long hair asked him to buy her a comb
for her hair to grow well. The man felt very sorry and
said no. he does not even have enough money to fix
the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not
insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at
a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He
came home in the evening with the comb in his hand
ready to give to his wife. He was surprised when he
saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold
her hair to a Brazilian manufacturer and was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from
their eyes. not for the futility of their actions, but for
the reciprocity of their love''

How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
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Feb 27, 2012 11:05 AM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
leni0822
leni0822leni0822taipie, Taipei Taiwan1 Threads 1,486 Posts
nice love story...anybody can do that but to the one who is worthy....but for medunno i can't sacrifice for a jerk spouse
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Feb 27, 2012 11:14 AM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
leni0822: nice love story...anybody can do that but to the one who is worthy....but for me i can't sacrifice for a jerk spouse

it looks like a short variation of "THE GIFT OF THE MAGI" by O. Henry
~vestmon/Gift_of_the_Magi.html
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Feb 27, 2012 11:25 AM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Lakeside90: "A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his
wife, who had long hair asked him to buy her a comb
for her hair to grow well. The man felt very sorry and
said no. he does not even have enough money to fix
the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not
insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at
a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He
came home in the evening with the comb in his hand
ready to give to his wife. He was surprised when he
saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold
her hair to a Brazilian manufacturer and was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from
their eyes. not for the futility of their actions, but for
the reciprocity of their love''

How much can we sacrifice for spouse?

the moral of the story is ..." grand me the wisdom to choose wisely"
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Feb 27, 2012 12:56 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
Lakeside90: How much can we sacrifice for spouse??


That is a sweet story but it is about just material things.

If I had a spouse and loved him, I would give my life for him.

hmmm

On second thoughts, maybe not!

I will buy him a new watch.

grin

(That was in jest before people shoot me)

laugh
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Feb 27, 2012 1:08 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
Lakeside90: "A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his
wife, who had long hair asked him to buy her a comb
for her hair to grow well. The man felt very sorry and
said no. he does not even have enough money to fix
the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not
insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at
a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He
came home in the evening with the comb in his hand
ready to give to his wife. He was surprised when he
saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold
her hair to a Brazilian manufacturer and was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from
their eyes. not for the futility of their actions, but for
the reciprocity of their love''

How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
Most people reading this would know that this is just a form of an O Henry story called "The Gift of the Magi". scold Uncool to do this, by the way.
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Feb 27, 2012 1:09 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
nevica: it looks like a short variation of "THE GIFT OF THE MAGI" by O. Henry
~vestmon/Gift_of_the_Magi.html
thumbs up thumbs up sorry, didn't see your quote before I wrote! So sue me....lips
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Feb 27, 2012 6:59 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
Lakeside90:

How much can we sacrifice for spouse?


As much as we want to in a way that brings meaning and peace, no matter how others may judge your sacrifice. Only you know. When the sacrifice is judged as not worthy and disempowering by the individual, then that is when the person knows the limits. There is no empirical list for the all...
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Feb 27, 2012 7:00 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
rohaan: Most people reading this would know that this is just a form of an O Henry story called "The Gift of the Magi". Uncool to do this, by the way.


Rohan! Just wanted to say hi! Cool to see you and hope you're doing great. Did you have an opinion on sacrifice, btw? I'd be interested to hear ithug
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Feb 27, 2012 7:28 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
StressFree: Rohan! Just wanted to say hi! Cool to see you and hope you're doing great. Did you have an opinion on sacrifice, btw? I'd be interested to hear it
None of my own at the present, but I like what my fave 60's singer said in a song:

"Love is supposed to be that special kind of thing,
makes anyone WANT to sacrifice..." Janis Joplin
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Feb 27, 2012 8:09 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
there isn't much i wouldn't surrender for love.
sacrificing something in exchange for
for what i consider more valuable seems like a winning
proposition to me.
but i would have to believe it was really love, not some
masquerade party..lol.
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Feb 27, 2012 8:12 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
StressFree
StressFreeStressFreesmall city, Kalmar Sweden176 Threads 16 Polls 8,986 Posts
rohaan: None of my own at the present, but I like what my fave 60's singer said in a song:

"Love is supposed to be that special kind of thing,
makes anyone WANT to sacrifice..." Janis Joplin


Love it!
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Feb 27, 2012 11:47 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
Here's the story by a iconic local TV newsman who plays the postman telling the story 20 years ago.. grin

http://www.youtube.com/watch?gl=BE&feature=related&v=_EaG-VWUC9c


wine


"I never saw that telephone pole, but I still need to spread the love." ~Cupid, trussed and bandaged, ordering Papa Murphy's heart shaped pizzas
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Feb 28, 2012 1:10 AM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
Witchaywoman
WitchaywomanWitchaywomanCarpentersville, Illinois USA97 Threads 13 Polls 4,344 Posts
The lady's hair will grow back so she can use the comb. It looks like it works out better for her in the end. Unless she dies. Then he can give the comb to another girl. Then He wins.

I would sacrifice a whole goat for a good spouse.
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Feb 28, 2012 1:11 AM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
shay28
shay28shay28Ha'il,, Saudi Arabia468 Posts
Lakeside90: "A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his
wife, who had long hair asked him to buy her a comb
for her hair to grow well. The man felt very sorry and
said no. he does not even have enough money to fix
the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not
insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at
a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He
came home in the evening with the comb in his hand
ready to give to his wife. He was surprised when he
saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold
her hair to a Brazilian manufacturer and was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from
their eyes. not for the futility of their actions, but for
the reciprocity of their love''

How much can we sacrifice for spouse?


Lovely story!hug
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Feb 28, 2012 3:49 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
Lakeside90: "A very poor man lived with his wife. One day, his
wife, who had long hair asked him to buy her a comb
for her hair to grow well. The man felt very sorry and
said no. he does not even have enough money to fix
the strap of his watch he had just broken. She did not
insist on her request. The man went to work and passed by a watch shop, sold his damaged watch at
a low price and went to buy a comb for his wife. He
came home in the evening with the comb in his hand
ready to give to his wife. He was surprised when he
saw his wife with a very short hair cut. She had sold
her hair to a Brazilian manufacturer and was holding a new watchband. Tears flowed simultaneously from
their eyes. not for the futility of their actions, but for
the reciprocity of their love''

How much can we sacrifice for spouse?


I have never liked the word sacrifice. The word sacrifice for me has the flavour of attached expectations.

If someone chooses to do or not do something for another person and that action is born out of love, it´s a loving gift, never a sacrifice.
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Feb 28, 2012 4:04 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
trueheart1941
trueheart1941trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK27 Threads 8,005 Posts
....I ..like,d this storey....no wise cracks from me....it,s how i would like it.......just a true love......priceless.......thumbs up thumbs up
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Mar 4, 2012 4:22 PM CST How much can we sacrifice for spouse?
I will sacrifice a ram..
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