Why its so difficult to find true love in this planet? (119)
Tony_singh: Why this can anyone know the answer ?
Because true love is not selfish and people are innately selfish looking for what they can get out of a relationship and not what they can give.
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Jillll: Because true love is not selfish and people are innately selfish looking for what they can get out of a relationship and not what they can give.
I love myself unselfishly ...
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EagleWoman: It´s a little deeper than that.
I´m personally struggling with the concept ...
For instance, is monogany a "condition" therefore can´t be part of an unconditional love relationship?
of course certain "ways" would need to be mutual on both sides, it would be difficult to be unconditional if ones morals or values are pushed or broken.I´m personally struggling with the concept ...
For instance, is monogany a "condition" therefore can´t be part of an unconditional love relationship?
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almera03: of course certain "ways" would need to be mutual on both sides, it would be difficult to be unconditional if ones morals or values are pushed or broken.
You mean love could be unconditional once both set of values match?
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EagleWoman: You mean love could be unconditional once both set of values match?
That doesn't sound right though possibly it could mean that.Surely there has to be common ground to start with?
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almera03: Oh pleeeeeease take off those rose tinted specs....
there is love
there is chocolate
there is football
there is not
true love
true chocolate
true football
you'll be telling me next there are fairies at the bottom of your garden...or should that be true fairies
there is love
there is chocolate
there is football
there is not
true love
true chocolate
true football
you'll be telling me next there are fairies at the bottom of your garden...or should that be true fairies
Maybe its the opposite of false love lol.
Your right though, love is love, simple.
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because life is temporary.
one day everything will finish as our life.
accordingly we will never see true love in this planet.
one day everything will finish as our life.
accordingly we will never see true love in this planet.
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Glatlol: Maybe its the opposite of false love lol.
You right though, love is love, simple.
I understand there are different types of love, the love a parent feels for a child is different from the love they would feel for their partner, the love one has for a pet could also be different, they are though all love, one could maybe call them real love or true love, but they are all love.You right though, love is love, simple.
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almera03: That doesn't sound right though possibly it could mean that.
Surely there has to be common ground to start with?
Surely there has to be common ground to start with?
Wouldn´t "common ground" be the same as having matching/similar set of values/morals?
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Yeah...so its huge tension between the desire to love and be loved, and the fear of intimacy and getting re hurt.
I personally believe that if we could be more fearless about loving, we could find many people among us, maybe even like right in front of us (and on this site) whom are lovable and that we could love at least on some level, if we were really willing to be open and less defended.
I've heard some people say that it's not even really 50/50 mutuality, but its gotta b 100 / 100, for it to be really amazing.
Anyways, that's what I think. Lots of really good points in this thread...
I personally believe that if we could be more fearless about loving, we could find many people among us, maybe even like right in front of us (and on this site) whom are lovable and that we could love at least on some level, if we were really willing to be open and less defended.
I've heard some people say that it's not even really 50/50 mutuality, but its gotta b 100 / 100, for it to be really amazing.
Anyways, that's what I think. Lots of really good points in this thread...
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And true love, you just hook your love up to the "fear-o-meter",
and that'll give you a pretty accurate readout.
-of course, this all works best in regards to "mature love",
that's where it all gets really tough, lol,
again, jimo
and that'll give you a pretty accurate readout.
-of course, this all works best in regards to "mature love",
that's where it all gets really tough, lol,
again, jimo
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EagleWoman: Wouldn´t "common ground" be the same as having matching/similar set of values/morals?
they wouldn't need to be matching exact. If I wanted an open relationship and you didn't, how could there be unconditional love, it wouldn't work, some morals/values do need to be common between you both------ This thread is Archived ------
True love is fairy tale late night reading, although finding that some one special, and living with the knowledge of deep and meaningful devotion to one and other is the greatest feeling in the world.You find it after going through the trials and tribulations of searching for it, hence the pain when you lose it
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almera03: they wouldn't need to be matching exact. If I wanted an open relationship and you didn't, how could there be unconditional love, it wouldn't work, some morals/values do need to be common between you both
Ok!! So we pretty much been saying the same thing!!
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EagleWoman: Ok!! So we pretty much been saying the same thing!!
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rockrabbit: True love is fairy tale late night reading, although finding that some one special, and living with the knowledge of deep and meaningful devotion to one and other is the greatest feeling in the world.
You find it after going through the trials and tribulations of searching for it, hence the pain when you lose it
... You find it after going through the trials and tribulations of searching for it, hence the pain when you lose it
Well said. I sort of agree. I think real/true love is other centered and without expectations of each other and it can only be attained from life experiences without getting lost in all the selfish comfort zones... It's no fairy tale... IMO ......
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true love can never be found..cause most people have a hard time trusting others,and even when they think they've found it,they always find a way to hurt each other,true love is only a fairytale.
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almera03: What, that you want an open relationship, wow, that has caught me unawares
No I don´t!!!
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They should just buy a dog.
It´s a little deeper than that.
I´m personally struggling with the concept ...
For instance, is monogany a "condition" therefore can´t be part of an unconditional love relationship?