Am I wrong? (28)
JustJess77Monroe, North Carolina USA5 Threads 248 PostsThank you guys...I stopped talking to anybody on here after this incident which ended up being a good thing cuz it gave me the chance to see what was in front of me...a really great guy who I'm happy with.
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JustJess77: Thank you guys...I stopped talking to anybody on here after this incident which ended up being a good thing cuz it gave me the chance to see what was in front of me...a really great guy who I'm happy with.
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I think it's a wise move to only concentrate your time, energy and resources on one person at a time so you can give them your undivided attention and not spread yourself thin. But only do this once you are sure you are into each other enough to take this major step. Don't jump the gun!
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JustJess77: Thanks for telling me what I already knew..sometimes you just need to hear from someone else so you know your not the crazy one
Sometimes I need validation from others, and I admit that there are times when I am not SURE whether I'm right about something. It's good to get feedback, and it's good to be able to change our thinking, if that is what needs to happen. In your case, you are right. To thine own self be true. 
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JustJess77: I just wanna know if I'm wrong. On here I get multiple emails everyday...most I don't even bother to respond to cuz you know they are scamming. But there are a few that I do respond to and start conversations...just friendly not any kinda romantic thing. Anyway if I feel I have a connection with someone I give them my full attention..never gonna know unless you try. Anyway I will tell anyone else I have been talking to that I am going to see what comes out of it and that I don't talk to multiple guys at the same time and that we can be friends.
I was told that this is playing games. How is it playing games when I'm completely honest with you? I never lead someone to believe anything untrue. Am I in the wrong here?
I was told that this is playing games. How is it playing games when I'm completely honest with you? I never lead someone to believe anything untrue. Am I in the wrong here?
Some people just can't handle honesty. Or maybe they expect too much from you when it's still too early or uncalled for. We are living in an *instant* world....unfortunately.
So, NO, I don't think you are wrong. You have a right to handle your life in the best way You feel.
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JustJess77: I just wanna know if I'm wrong. On here I get multiple emails everyday...most I don't even bother to respond to cuz you know they are scamming. But there are a few that I do respond to and start conversations...just friendly not any kinda romantic thing. Anyway if I feel I have a connection with someone I give them my full attention..never gonna know unless you try. Anyway I will tell anyone else I have been talking to that I am going to see what comes out of it and that I don't talk to multiple guys at the same time and that we can be friends.
I was told that this is playing games. How is it playing games when I'm completely honest with you? I never lead someone to believe anything untrue. Am I in the wrong here?
I was told that this is playing games. How is it playing games when I'm completely honest with you? I never lead someone to believe anything untrue. Am I in the wrong here?
No you are not wrong you are not playing games to start with you are just chatting with peeps you haven't made plans to meet them yet have you ? How are you suppose to suss peeps out if you don't chat and try to see if it's worth taking friendship to another level JMO This is a chat site after all.
<<< coffee date or not 
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JustJess77: Thank you guys...I stopped talking to anybody on here after this incident which ended up being a good thing cuz it gave me the chance to see what was in front of me...a really great guy who I'm happy with.
well that is great, sounds like you did better than you even imagined. Hopefully this will work out well for you.
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JustJess77: Thank you guys...I stopped talking to anybody on here after this incident which ended up being a good thing cuz it gave me the chance to see what was in front of me...a really great guy who I'm happy with.
If you want to concentrate on one person that's fine, good luck to you and
I hope it works out for you, but don't ever let anyone tell you who you can talk to or who you can mail, you decide how many or how few people you want to communicate with no body else, if you do let someone else dictate to you then it will become a control issue,
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