Yes, I believe in love at first site... happened to me sooooooo long ago. I believe it was a packet of Smith's Crisps the love was instantly that deep it still exists...
As for a person, well instantly fell in love when first looked at my children so I would agree it exists...
But as for love at first site for a lover... if I was to feel something upon first seeing someone I'd label it as lust, nice shirt or butt or something and a undeniable case of being in a certain type of mood... hahahaha
JustJess77: No...I believe in lust at first sight. Your reacting to physical qualities and you can't love someone without knowing them. Sometimes this lust can turn into love but it doesn't start as love. JMO thoug
Love is feeling you can not control. If you control that feeling you will choose the person will love you back. Also you can end up relationship when it does not work. I do not deny love can start after you know the person but it can start even you do not know that person
Lust just like love creates a change to the heartbeat, eyes dilation, sweat glands and everything else that are described as symptoms of love... I just think to call it love takes more than the first reaction to a person although it doesn't mean it can't develop into a love...
I was saying that I don't think there is a love at first sight when it comes to a lover that it is lust :)
trueheart1941brentwood essex, Essex, England UK8,005 posts
to me.........like grows into love......in the eye of the beholder...............to really like is the starting point.....to love...is another level........jmo.
SINRAT: Yes and it is lovely feeling. You like different person and you look at things differently.
We are apart now for reason. She is with somebody else now. Everytime, I see her I have got the same feeling. Honestly I still in love with her, I know I should move on.
trueheart1941: to me.........like grows into love......in the eye of the beholder...............to really like is the starting point.....to love...is another level........jmo.
the voice of experience! but the younger folk will have to make their own mistakes! alas
Yes...because I "recognised" him, the feeling was like "coming home"...it wasn't at all to do with lust, as all I could concentrate on in that first encounter, where his eyes...and the feeling was mutual.
JustJess77: No...I believe in lust at first sight. Your reacting to physical qualities and you can't love someone without knowing them. Sometimes this lust can turn into love but it doesn't start as love. JMO thoug
Yep, I do.....it's an instant recognition, a "knowing", and it just keeps growing from that moment on, like an infectious disease you don't want to be cured of.
kidatheart: Yep, I do.....it's an instant recognition, a "knowing", and it just keeps growing from that moment on, like an infectious disease you don't want to be cured of.
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I believe it was a packet of Smith's Crisps the love was instantly that deep it still exists...
As for a person, well instantly fell in love when first looked at my children so I would agree it exists...
But as for love at first site for a lover... if I was to feel something upon first seeing someone I'd label it as lust, nice shirt or butt or something and a undeniable case of being in a certain type of mood... hahahaha