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Jun 21, 2012 2:14 PM CST Last relationship
sunnyisles48
sunnyisles48sunnyisles48Castries, Saint Lucia86 Posts
JeanKimberley: It's sad but I agree with her mother maybe because women have a shelve life - if you are not going to marry her then she needs to find a husband and would be wasting her time being in love with you.... is that possible the thought here?

I agree with you. Maybe that was a case of 'why buy the milk when I can have the whole cow'dunno
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Jun 21, 2012 4:56 PM CST Last relationship
Tnpseudonym
TnpseudonymTnpseudonymmiddle TN, Tennessee USA12 Threads 575 Posts
I always listened to him, encouraged him when he needed it and then.... he went back to his wife doh

This wasn't too long ago and he contacted me recently and I told him not to talk to me cause I was still, understandably, ticked. His response; "I didnt want you at all u were not what I was looking for. So I really didn't miss out. So with that said I am so glad I didnt get to know you. But maybe some day some one if there is that someone out there which I doubt will maybe put up with a weirdo like you. Ciao"

BTW his profile still says divorced
dunno

These is all the things a woman likes to know before hand, like that you're still married, wanting someone to sponge off of, and someone to emotionally dump a load on - you know, the important stuff, lol.
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Jun 21, 2012 4:58 PM CST Last relationship
Tnpseudonym:

BTW his profile still says divorced


If his profile is here, write a testimonial for him in the relevant area.
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Jun 21, 2012 5:06 PM CST Last relationship
EagleWoman
EagleWomanEagleWomanMalaga, Andalusia Spain22 Threads 4,719 Posts
MADDOG69: If his profile is here, write a testimonial for him in the relevant area.


Hey! Thanks for mentioning those!! I´d forgotten they existed and just checked mine to discover I have 1 which I hadn´t read and a couple of fans I didn´t know I had laugh
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Jun 21, 2012 5:09 PM CST Last relationship
Iseek
IseekIseekWaterford, Ireland2 Threads 455 Posts
JustJess77: We were together almost 7 years and he passed away.



Oh My God, I am very sorry, can't imagine how you feelteddybear
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Jun 21, 2012 5:20 PM CST Last relationship
Rain4gypsy
Rain4gypsyRain4gypsyJeddah, Makkah Saudi Arabia3 Threads 13 Posts
Tpnseudonym, I am sorry you went through that some men can be so mean. You sound that you have moved past that. teddybear
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Jun 21, 2012 5:25 PM CST Last relationship
Tnpseudonym
TnpseudonymTnpseudonymmiddle TN, Tennessee USA12 Threads 575 Posts
Rain4gypsy: Tpnseudonym, I am sorry you went through that some men can be so mean. You sound that you have moved past that.


I was never really stuck on it, thank goodness cheers and I had written a testimonial even though it says 'write something positive about someone', I kept it nice and clean but I think he has it set where he has to approve them. Suprisingly it never got put up.
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Jun 21, 2012 5:27 PM CST Last relationship
Jillll
JillllJillllRancho Cucamonga, California USA3 Threads 1 Polls 1,390 Posts
He was so busy making his first million dollars that he didn't have time for me.
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Jun 21, 2012 8:06 PM CST Last relationship
montemonte
montemontemontemonteunknown, New Jersey USA114 Threads 4 Polls 5,631 Posts
Tnpseudonym: I always listened to him, encouraged him when he needed it and then.... he went back to his wife

This wasn't too long ago and he contacted me recently and I told him not to talk to me cause I was still, understandably, ticked. His response; "I didnt want you at all u were not what I was looking for. So I really didn't miss out. So with that said I am so glad I didnt get to know you. But maybe some day some one if there is that someone out there which I doubt will maybe put up with a weirdo like you. Ciao"

BTW his profile still says divorced


These is all the things a woman likes to know before hand, like that you're still married, wanting someone to sponge off of, and someone to emotionally dump a load on - you know, the important stuff, lol.


That's why I won't get involved with a man who is separated. There's a huge chance that they will go back to their wife. Even if the profile says single, divorced or widowed, you just can't believe it until you call the county clerk's office to find out if there was a divorce. BTW, you can even find out how much child support he is paying.

You got lucky to get out of that relationship. He sounds like a nasty person.hug bouquet
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Jun 22, 2012 7:24 PM CST Last relationship
pisceslady7
pisceslady7pisceslady7Kincumber nr. Gosford, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 4 Polls 1,910 Posts
JustJess77: Thank you, I have had enough time to come to terms with it. I'm sorry for loss as well.


Time does heal. I am pleased for him that he has gone....he had endured enough pain. And, yes, I have accepted it and am emotionally free to start again. One great thing I learned from him is that there are incredible men out there and how much joy a truly wonderful relationship brings. I think you and I both deserve to find a new great love. All the very best to you!
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Jun 22, 2012 9:52 PM CST Last relationship
JeanKimberley: It's a dilemma for men isn't it? Dating with the idea marriage in mind or just dating someone you love with no marriage in mind - one is good for the man, one is good for the women in a society that wants everyone married and part of a family.


I don't necessarily think that has to simply reflect his country or culture only though

anywhere you are it is important to date someone with compatible goals....here in the good old free to be whomever u want to be USA, if a man who I am interested in is not interested in some type of commitment after a certain period of time I will not continue to see him - first, because to me it means he's not all that interested which is unacceptable to continue in that case, second it means our goals are not compatible

so no matter one's culture - it is important to have compatible goals and be equally in love with each other - if not...move on
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Jun 22, 2012 9:53 PM CST Last relationship
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I got into a depressed funk, lost a job and she asked me to leave.
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Jun 22, 2012 10:01 PM CST Last relationship
Boban1: I`ve exchenget her for a car stereo...


extreme subwoofers???

Ida turned my guy in for a pair of thosedunno



as it is I jsut got sick of the BS and games - moved and quietly left no forwarding.....laugh
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Jun 22, 2012 10:16 PM CST Last relationship
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
felixis99: are you sure you aren't giving him too much credit???


Im trying to be ladylike snooty shimmy
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Jun 22, 2012 10:43 PM CST Last relationship
A_Little_Lupie
A_Little_LupieA_Little_LupieHuntsville, Alabama USA153 Posts
He had been cheating on me for 2-yrs (that i could prove) uncertain sorry, I don't share scold
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Jun 22, 2012 10:47 PM CST Last relationship
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
I'm probably the only one here who was dumped and not the dumper lol
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Jun 22, 2012 10:49 PM CST Last relationship
StillOfTheNight
StillOfTheNightStillOfTheNightClarenville Area, Newfoundland Canada11 Threads 2,832 Posts
A_Little_Lupie: He had been cheating on me for 2-yrs (that i could prove) sorry, I don't share


You only need to be able to prove one incidence , cheating is cheating.
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Jun 22, 2012 10:50 PM CST Last relationship
Bluefish22
Bluefish22Bluefish22Chooksville, Bay of Plenty New Zealand16 Threads 1 Polls 909 Posts
StillOfTheNight: I'm probably the only one here who was dumped and not the dumper lol
No, I got dumped, he just forgot to tell me hug
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Jun 22, 2012 10:56 PM CST Last relationship
StillOfTheNight: I'm probably the only one here who was dumped and not the dumper lol

Obviously didn't read the thread...
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Jun 22, 2012 11:23 PM CST Last relationship
bubbles2012
bubbles2012bubbles2012Southern Brisbane, Queensland Australia22 Threads 1 Polls 784 Posts
Rain4gypsy: why did you end your last relationship or rather why did it end?


simple - lifestyle changes - he fell in love with the asian culture and lifestyle...and by that I mean he could lead a single man's life - party with the boys, come home early in the mornings drunk as, play golf on Sundays without having to worry about the arguments with the wife, and the day to day responsibility of the kids...
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