Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS? ( Archived) (177)

Sep 13, 2013 2:08 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
ChristinDew
ChristinDewChristinDewToronto, Ontario Canada4 Threads 61 Posts
arkisetzu: Been awhile in Cs and it saddens me to think that i can't really find someone worthy of love here. Or is there really such a thing called L-O-V-E. Most of the people I meet are just users and time wasters.. Sigh....


It's the easiest place to find scammers and players. What to expect, even players exist on real world. Time consuming and wasting eventually. buddies
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Sep 13, 2013 2:16 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Reject the players,pay attention to non players.confused
ChristinDew: It's the easiest place to find scammers and players. What to expect, even players exist on real world. Time consuming and wasting eventually.
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Sep 13, 2013 2:33 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
ChristinDew
ChristinDewChristinDewToronto, Ontario Canada4 Threads 61 Posts
chris27292729: Reject the players,pay attention to non players.

How do we know they are non players? Everybody would do anything to get girls attention, and when the girl start to falling, then uhhhhmmmm they would "this is not what I am looking for" and left like never said things before.... ouchhhh very mad
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Sep 13, 2013 2:49 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
yes, then she left
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Sep 13, 2013 2:51 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
CuspofMagic: yes, then she left



Might be better off that way. uh oh

Hiya Cuspo tip hat
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Sep 13, 2013 2:57 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
......true love......can only be found...when 2 people meet on a regular...basis.....any one can sit behind a screen.....pouring out a load of hog.wash...to thos who belive it....and thinks that person really loves me.....gullible......there are woman on here iwould love to meet.....but my funds....don't allow me to......so friendship,s are formed.....liking is not loving.....shame but true.
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Sep 13, 2013 3:43 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
truheart1941: ......true love......can only be found...when 2 people meet on a regular...basis.....any one can sit behind a screen.....pouring out a load of hog.wash...to thos who belive it....and thinks that person really loves me.....gullible......there are woman on here iwould love to meet.....but my funds....don't allow me to......so friendship,s are formed.....liking is not loving.....shame but true.


Is that another "rule" about what "true" love is all about?

Who sets these rules, and do they actually have any merit or meaning, in reality?

I "like" a number of people, some that I've never had any contact with, and I also love a number of people, some that I no longer have any contact with. It's not down to a matter of definitions, of what love is, it's more of how you feel towards someone, and your actions, even if it's letting go.

Nobody said it was easy.cowboy
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Sep 13, 2013 3:43 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
truheart1941: ......true love......can only be found...when 2 people meet on a regular...basis.....any one can sit behind a screen.....pouring out a load of hog.wash...to thos who belive it....and thinks that person really loves me.....gullible......there are woman on here iwould love to meet.....but my funds....don't allow me to......so friendship,s are formed.....liking is not loving.....shame but true.


Is that another "rule" about what "true" love is all about?

Who sets these rules, and do they actually have any merit or meaning, in reality?

I "like" a number of people, some that I've never had any contact with, and I also love a number of people, some that I no longer have any contact with. It's not down to a matter of definitions, of what love is, it's more of how you feel towards someone, and your actions, even if it's letting go.

Nobody said it was easy.cowboy
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Sep 13, 2013 3:48 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
kidatheart: Is that another "rule" about what "true" love is all about?

Who sets these rules, and do they actually have any merit or meaning, in reality?

I "like" a number of people, some that I've never had any contact with, and I also love a number of people, some that I no longer have any contact with. It's not down to a matter of definitions, of what love is, it's more of how you feel towards someone, and your actions, even if it's letting go.

Nobody said it was easy.
hi yer....wave long time no see.....hope life is being good to you.......pete.thumbs up cheers
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Sep 13, 2013 3:50 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
truheart1941: hi yer.... long time no see.....hope life is being good to you.......pete.


Thanks true....wave laugh tongue cheers
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Sep 13, 2013 3:53 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
menu11: Thanks true....
wave hi menu......just git on yer horse....and drink yar milk.....(john.wayne)grin laugh
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Sep 13, 2013 4:10 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
kidatheart: Is that another "rule" about what "true" love is all about?

Who sets these rules, and do they actually have any merit or meaning, in reality?

I "like" a number of people, some that I've never had any contact with, and I also love a number of people, some that I no longer have any contact with. It's not down to a matter of definitions, of what love is, it's more of how you feel towards someone, and your actions, even if it's letting go.

Nobody said it was easy.


unidirectional love is easy.

bidirectional isn't, but should be the goal ...... surely ....dunno





grin cheers
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Sep 13, 2013 4:15 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
kidatheart: Is that another "rule" about what "true" love is all about?

Who sets these rules, and do they actually have any merit or meaning, in reality?

I "like" a number of people, some that I've never had any contact with, and I also love a number of people, some that I no longer have any contact with. It's not down to a matter of definitions, of what love is, it's more of how you feel towards someone, and your actions, even if it's letting go.

Nobody said it was easy.

I've adopted four dogs in total, one stray and three from the pound.

I made choices. I didn't adopt the bullmastiff with bits of school uniform between its teeth, I didn't adopt the hysterical yappy little thing who might have driven my neighbours to have a word with my landlord.

Every single dog I've had has caused me some problems settling in, which I reckon takes about 6 months to a year before they start to feel completely relaxed about my commitment to them.

It made me think about how much of 'love' is to do with choice: I made an appropriate choice and then I stuck with it. I chose these dogs and I chose to love them. Come what may, we'd work things out and they were not going back to the pound.

Whilst I understand human interaction is a little more complex, I still think there's an element, or some elements of choice. If each of us has some level of choice and 'love' isn't something that randomly happens to us that we have absolutely no control over (isn't that a bit odd to think this might happen?), then each of us can choose for ourselves who and how we wish to 'love'. If that's reciprocated, the medium through which it happens is perhaps not the most important feature.
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Sep 13, 2013 4:20 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
truheart1941: ......true love......can only be found...when 2 people meet on a regular...basis.....any one can sit behind a screen.....pouring out a load of hog.wash...to thos who belive it....and thinks that person really loves me.....gullible......there are woman on here iwould love to meet.....but my funds....don't allow me to......so friendship,s are formed.....liking is not loving.....shame but true.


So why are there so many dating sites out theredunno

Of course on line dating works. If you are not prepared to make the journey why sign up for the trip.

Yes the chances are few and far between, but for those that have managed to cross over the barriers,romance is still alive and kicking.heart wings
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Sep 13, 2013 4:24 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
Glitch101: So why are there so many dating sites out there

Of course on line dating works. If you are not prepared to make the journey why sign up for the trip.

Yes the chances are few and far between, but for those that have managed to cross over the barriers,romance is still alive and kicking.
hi Glitch.....if I knew the answer to that, I would be a more happier man.dunno
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Sep 13, 2013 4:29 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
truheart1941: hi Glitch.....if I knew the answer to that, I would be a more happier man.



Basically most sites are in it because it's a lucrative business.

Why is it lucrative? Because people still believe in love or the possibilities of meeting Mr.or Mrs Right.

It's like going shopping , you get what you pay for. laugh
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Sep 13, 2013 4:33 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
Glitch101: Basically most sites are in it because it's a lucrative business.

Why is it lucrative? Because people still believe in love or the possibilities of meeting Mr.or Mrs Right.

It's like going shopping , you get what you pay for.
...I cannot argue.....with that.......bouquet hug
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Sep 13, 2013 5:06 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Glitch101: Basically most sites are in it because it's a lucrative business.

Why is it lucrative? Because people still believe in love or the possibilities of meeting Mr.or Mrs Right.

It's like going shopping , you get what you pay for.

How do you mean 'you get what you pay for'?
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Sep 13, 2013 5:09 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
jac379: How do you mean 'you get what you pay for'?
Goes down on one knee..."Jac,light of my life,the beat of my heart...will you marry me,my angel?" bouquet
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Sep 13, 2013 5:15 AM CST Is there such thing as online "true love" in CS?
Glitch101
Glitch101Glitch101London, Greater London, England UK21 Threads 1,079 Posts
jac379: How do you mean 'you get what you pay for'?



Do I really have to spell it out for you.sigh


If you are on a paying site you have to pay money for the privilege of meeting people don't you,and you can't take it back and get a refund!

It was purely hypothetical.

doh
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