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Oct 3, 2012 4:36 PM CST Left me hanging.
I was chatting with a man on yahoo im and he said he had a call and i waited for him for about 30 mins and he never replied again. Is it just me or are people getting so dang rude??? I would never do that to some one. If i wasnt going to chat any more I would say i had to go. I grow so weary of some people. I enjoy chatting with people on the pc. I like this site.
I can tell most of the time who is real and who is a scammer but it is hard to tell who will rude. thank you cs for letting me vent.very mad
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Oct 3, 2012 4:40 PM CST Left me hanging.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Sounds just plain rude to me comfort
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Oct 3, 2012 4:42 PM CST Left me hanging.
22W00
22W0022W00Antibes, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France1 Threads 313 Posts
There is no excuse for bad manners - they cost nothing!

Let's hope the guilty party reads this thread and feels suitably ashamed.

Stay positive - there are loads of nice guys on here, with manners to burn hug
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Oct 3, 2012 4:42 PM CST Left me hanging.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Take me to Disneyland and I`ll tell you what may have happened...grin
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Oct 3, 2012 4:49 PM CST Left me hanging.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Onward and upward darlin wine
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Oct 3, 2012 4:56 PM CST Left me hanging.
lisaofflorida64: I was chatting with a man on yahoo im and he said he had a call and i waited for him for about 30 mins and he never replied again. Is it just me or are people getting so dang rude??? I would never do that to some one. If i wasnt going to chat any more I would say i had to go. I grow so weary of some people. I enjoy chatting with people on the pc. I like this site.
I can tell most of the time who is real and who is a scammer but it is hard to tell who will rude. thank you cs for letting me vent.
It could be rude. As I read your comment, I felt for you a bit, because the world does seem to have become very rude. I always like to look at both sides of an isse, as far as possible. For instance, I have caller ID. Sometimes someone I know is calling, and I see it, but I just don't want to talk. It's completely possible for me TO talk, and I have enough time. Just don't wanna. Right then, anyhow. Does this make me rude? Some people would say or think so. Is it really? Could be...Sometimes people don't have the upbringing or skills to end a call. It's kind of tough, if you think about it. Would you really have liked it if he had said, "You know what, I'm not in to talking with you anymore". While I whole-heartedly agree that he could have been polite (I suppose...) please try to understand human frailty a bit more. No one is perfect. Maybe he just couldn't find the words to say what was on his mind. Try to give people the benefit of the doubt. JMO
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Oct 3, 2012 5:02 PM CST Left me hanging.
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
rohaan: It could be rude. As I read your comment, I felt for you a bit, because the world does seem to have become very rude. I always like to look at both sides of an isse, as far as possible. For instance, I have caller ID. Sometimes someone I know is calling, and I see it, but I just don't want to talk. It's completely possible for me TO talk, and I have enough time. Just don't wanna. Right then, anyhow. Does this make me rude? Some people would say or think so. Is it really? Could be...Sometimes people don't have the upbringing or skills to end a call. It's kind of tough, if you think about it. Would you really have liked it if he had said, "You know what, I'm not in to talking with you anymore". While I whole-heartedly agree that he could have been polite (I suppose...) please try to understand human frailty a bit more. No one is perfect. Maybe he just couldn't find the words to say what was on his mind. Try to give people the benefit of the doubt. JMO



I wouldnt call that rude Ro...Just screening thats what caller id is for...I do it all the time peace
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Oct 3, 2012 6:03 PM CST Left me hanging.
butterfly0123
butterfly0123butterfly0123Prague, Czech Republic3 Threads 447 Posts
Welcome to the internet... and move on to the next one. Don't put up with this crap! bouquet
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Oct 3, 2012 6:32 PM CST Left me hanging.
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
lisaofflorida64: I was chatting with a man on yahoo im and he said he had a call and i waited for him for about 30 mins and he never replied again. Is it just me or are people getting so dang rude??? I would never do that to some one. If i wasnt going to chat any more I would say i had to go. I grow so weary of some people. I enjoy chatting with people on the pc. I like this site.
I can tell most of the time who is real and who is a scammer but it is hard to tell who will rude. thank you cs for letting me vent.


Definitely rude. You'll never know in advance who will be rude, but you just get rid of the rude ones and keep the nice ones on your list.
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Oct 3, 2012 6:36 PM CST Left me hanging.
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
rohaan: It could be rude. As I read your comment, I felt for you a bit, because the world does seem to have become very rude. I always like to look at both sides of an isse, as far as possible. For instance, I have caller ID. Sometimes someone I know is calling, and I see it, but I just don't want to talk. It's completely possible for me TO talk, and I have enough time. Just don't wanna. Right then, anyhow. Does this make me rude? Some people would say or think so. Is it really? Could be...Sometimes people don't have the upbringing or skills to end a call. It's kind of tough, if you think about it. Would you really have liked it if he had said, "You know what, I'm not in to talking with you anymore". While I whole-heartedly agree that he could have been polite (I suppose...) please try to understand human frailty a bit more. No one is perfect. Maybe he just couldn't find the words to say what was on his mind. Try to give people the benefit of the doubt. JMO


That is a different story. I also do not answer the phone sometimes when I don't feel like talking and I call the people back later. In this case, he could have said: oops, I got a phonecall that I have to take. Talk to you later. It was a chat conversation, so even if he didn't have a call, he could have lied about it or said: I'm really tired, I enjoyed the chat, but I'd like to lay down or whatever. To just go away and leave someone waiting is rude either way you look at it, imo.
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Oct 3, 2012 7:20 PM CST Left me hanging.
I have a lady friend up in MASS that I've chatted with for about 10 years. She does that to me all the time. She'll just stop talking and eventually she logs off without so much as a "see ya". She use to fall asleep. One time she hit her head on the keyboard.laugh I kind of got used to it. I don't get upset about it.
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Oct 3, 2012 7:40 PM CST Left me hanging.
michaelkk
michaelkkmichaelkkkilkenny, Kilkenny Ireland41 Posts
lisaofflorida64: I was chatting with a man on yahoo im and he said he had a call and i waited for him for about 30 mins and he never replied again. Is it just me or are people getting so dang rude??? I would never do that to some one. If i wasnt going to chat any more I would say i had to go. I grow so weary of some people. I enjoy chatting with people on the pc. I like this site.
I can tell most of the time who is real and who is a scammer but it is hard to tell who will rude. thank you cs for letting me vent.


sounds like his wife came back from shopping
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Oct 4, 2012 1:39 PM CST Left me hanging.
Scubadiva: That is a different story. I also do not answer the phone sometimes when I don't feel like talking and I call the people back later. In this case, he could have said: oops, I got a phonecall that I have to take. Talk to you later. It was a chat conversation, so even if he didn't have a call, he could have lied about it or said: I'm really tired, I enjoyed the chat, but I'd like to lay down or whatever. To just go away and leave someone waiting is rude either way you look at it, imo.
Women do it all the time. Their "defense" is that the man made them "uncomfort-
able" or something to that effect. Funny how many people will say that she was just doing what she had to do. But if it's a guy, well, then he's rude. I hate double standards.
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Oct 4, 2012 1:47 PM CST Left me hanging.
LonelyMontse08
LonelyMontse08LonelyMontse08San Pedro Sula, Honduras15 Threads 797 Posts
ughh I am sorry this happened to you, I really dislike rude people, one can easily spot the kind of person one treats by small actions like this one, go on trying I am sure someone nice will chat with you, good luck wave
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Oct 4, 2012 1:49 PM CST Left me hanging.
menu11
menu11menu11Galveston, Texas USA1,323 Posts
lisaofflorida64: I was chatting with a man on yahoo im and he said he had a call and i waited for him for about 30 mins and he never replied again. Is it just me or are people getting so dang rude??? I would never do that to some one. If i wasnt going to chat any more I would say i had to go. I grow so weary of some people. I enjoy chatting with people on the pc. I like this site.
I can tell most of the time who is real and who is a scammer but it is hard to tell who will rude. thank you cs for letting me vent.


Your lucky he didn't leave you hanging by a rope.laugh tongue
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Oct 4, 2012 2:13 PM CST Left me hanging.
lisaofflorida64: I was chatting with a man on yahoo im and he said he had a call and i waited for him for about 30 mins and he never replied again. Is it just me or are people getting so dang rude??? I would never do that to some one. If i wasnt going to chat any more I would say i had to go. I grow so weary of some people. I enjoy chatting with people on the pc. I like this site.
I can tell most of the time who is real and who is a scammer but it is hard to tell who will rude. thank you cs for letting me vent.


Well.....I certainly wouldn´t have been waiting 30 mins.
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Oct 4, 2012 2:34 PM CST Left me hanging.
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
rohaan: Women do it all the time. Their "defense" is that the man made them "uncomfort-
able" or something to that effect. Funny how many people will say that she was just doing what she had to do. But if it's a guy, well, then he's rude. I hate double standards.


Well, it goes without saying that I feel the exact same way if a woman does it. IMO, it's not a gender issue, but a matter of manners.
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Oct 4, 2012 7:49 PM CST Left me hanging.
Scubadiva: Well, it goes without saying that I feel the exact same way if a woman does it. IMO, it's not a gender issue, but a matter of manners.
I am glad to hear this. I believe you are being genuine, too. (There are many who have double standards, and that is what ticks me off). Thanks for writing.
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Oct 5, 2012 8:24 PM CST Left me hanging.
Lively_Waters
Lively_WatersLively_WatersMooresville, North Carolina USA1 Threads 176 Posts
For whatever reason, he needed to go. Should he have told you good night or whatever? Of course. But you've got to remember that people in general are cowards. So if his reason for leaving had to do with his not feeling a connection with you, more times than not, this is the way people act.

It's not only rude...but more thoughtless and uncaring! sigh
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Oct 5, 2012 8:33 PM CST Left me hanging.
NotABlonde
NotABlondeNotABlondeSpringwood, New South Wales Australia8 Threads 1,210 Posts
michaelkk: sounds like his wife came back from shopping


That was my first thought :)
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