seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
Perhaps its not so much "fear" as actually thinking that someone is invested into getting to know them with the same effort? Not sure how inclined I'd be to take someone "seriously" if I found they were speaking with a whole bunch of other people. It doesn't imply a huge amount of interest in oneself.
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
It makes very little difference to me who she communicates with other than me. If she doesn't feel that I'm the one she wants to spend her time with, getting to know me, then it's her decision.
No jealousy, no insecurity, it's just the way it is, and it's also no different when a man decides the same.
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
The operative word here seems to be 'younger'
Would these men have the same issues if they were not aware of this
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
Jealousy and insecurity are perfectly normal ,why should anyone pretend to be above them or hide them
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
I think men are no different from women in that respect. It may not be logical, but it is human to feel jealous and insecure when a person that you're seriously interested in keeps "shopping," or gives the appearance to shop.
langleygirl: Perhaps its not so much "fear" as actually thinking that someone is invested into getting to know them with the same effort? Not sure how inclined I'd be to take someone "seriously" if I found they were speaking with a whole bunch of other people. It doesn't imply a huge amount of interest in oneself.
it is the fact that she is desparate, and communicates with several, hoping to catch at least one of them.. being lonely bed at night, is very destructive too her
kidatheart: It makes very little difference to me who she communicates with other than me. If she doesn't feel that I'm the one she wants to spend her time with, getting to know me, then it's her decision.
No jealousy, no insecurity, it's just the way it is, and it's also no different when a man decides the same.
oh u r very bright minded then, but think about STD problem also
Scubadiva: I think men are no different from women in that respect. It may not be logical, but it is human to feel jealous and insecure when a person that you're seriously interested in keeps "shopping," or gives the appearance to shop.
I thow her out in the dustbin of my love life history..
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
We do ? . . . . .. .Well I don't . You are big girls now and you can talk to whoever you want to . I will do the same . .
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