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Oct 5, 2012 2:55 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
seadancer7
seadancer7seadancer7Waterville, Maine USA1 Threads 6 Posts
WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
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Oct 5, 2012 3:07 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
langleygirl
langleygirllangleygirlWestlock, Alberta Canada70 Threads 8,202 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?
Perhaps its not so much "fear" as actually thinking that someone is invested into getting to know them with the same effort? Not sure how inclined I'd be to take someone "seriously" if I found they were speaking with a whole bunch of other people. It doesn't imply a huge amount of interest in oneself.
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Oct 5, 2012 3:12 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?



It makes very little difference to me who she communicates with other than me. If she doesn't feel that I'm the one she wants to spend her time with, getting to know me, then it's her decision.

No jealousy, no insecurity, it's just the way it is, and it's also no different when a man decides the same.

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Oct 5, 2012 3:40 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?



The operative word here seems to be 'younger' confused

Would these men have the same issues if they were not aware of this confused
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Oct 5, 2012 5:11 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?


Jealousy and insecurity are perfectly normal ,why should anyone pretend to be above them or hide them
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Oct 5, 2012 5:41 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?


I think men are no different from women in that respect. It may not be logical, but it is human to feel jealous and insecure when a person that you're seriously interested in keeps "shopping," or gives the appearance to shop.
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Oct 5, 2012 6:01 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
langleygirl: Perhaps its not so much "fear" as actually thinking that someone is invested into getting to know them with the same effort? Not sure how inclined I'd be to take someone "seriously" if I found they were speaking with a whole bunch of other people. It doesn't imply a huge amount of interest in oneself.



it is the fact that she is desparate, and communicates with several, hoping to catch at least one of them.. being lonely bed at night, is very destructive too her
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Oct 5, 2012 6:02 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
kidatheart: It makes very little difference to me who she communicates with other than me. If she doesn't feel that I'm the one she wants to spend her time with, getting to know me, then it's her decision.

No jealousy, no insecurity, it's just the way it is, and it's also no different when a man decides the same.

oh u r very bright minded then, but think about STD problem also
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Oct 5, 2012 6:03 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
serene56: The operative word here seems to be 'younger'

Would these men have the same issues if they were not aware of this


yeah,,and the hidden operative word is COUGARcomfort
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Oct 5, 2012 6:04 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
Boban1: Jealousy and insecurity are perfectly normal ,why should anyone pretend to be above them or hide them
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I would leave such a person immediateky and kick her very very hard out of my life..there 4 billion wimin to choose from whenever needed
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Oct 5, 2012 6:06 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
Scubadiva: I think men are no different from women in that respect. It may not be logical, but it is human to feel jealous and insecure when a person that you're seriously interested in keeps "shopping," or gives the appearance to shop.


I thow her out in the dustbin of my love life history..beer
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Oct 5, 2012 6:07 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?


what d u mean by MEM? man?
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Oct 5, 2012 6:39 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
cloud747: I would leave such a person immediateky and kick her very very hard out of my life..there 4 billion wimin to choose from whenever needed


I`d fight ,love is worth fighting for
I would scratch and bite and hit them with my purse...grin
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Oct 5, 2012 9:44 AM CST SILVER & BLUE
Frankinstien
FrankinstienFrankinstienSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 1,521 Posts
seadancer7: WHY DO MEM FEAR LOSING A POTENTIAL DATE, BECAUSE SHE COMMUNICATES WITH SEVERAL OTHER MEN WHO ARE YOUNGER? iS IT A SIGN OF JEALOUSY OR INSECURITY?


We do ? . . .confused . .. .Well I don't . You are big girls now and you can talk to whoever you want to . I will do the same . .cheers
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