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"Do you think Chinese women are different from Western women? If yes, how?"

The answers I received were all definitely "yes", noting both cultural and physical differences. The results were very close to those found in my own cross-cultural experience. The answers are summarized below :

§ Western women tend to be the equal of their male counterparts. Because of this many tend to act like men. Chinese women are not afraid to be women. Chinese women have opinions and work hard and disagree with their loved ones too, but they still remain feminine.

§ Western women are more direct, outgoing and experienced in love. They know what they want and achieve it with much confidence. Chinese women are more timid, more reserved, and less confident. They often put others’ views and feelings before their own, which causes them to lose some of their own personality.

§ Western women put more value on the quality of the marriage, while Chinese women give more value to the marriage itself. Therefore Chinese women are more willing to overcome their difficulties or even live with the difficulties within the marriage, rather than abandoning it entirely.

§ Western woman are more independent than Chinese women in general.

§ Chinese women are willing to work hard and save money because the memory of their old lives is still fresh. They tend to worry about tomorrow rather than to enjoy today.

§ They have a different style of beauty: Chinese women have black hair, brown eyes, smooth hairless skin, more petite bodies, and exhibit a quiet oriental elegance.

Why choose Chinese women?
please go to Chinese Women in Love and Marriage

Why do Chinese women choose you?
As Western men have many reasons to choose Chinese women, so do Chinese women have many reasons to choose you. For them, too, it also depends on the person and differs from one to another. The following are reasons I have seen in my experience with Asian Promise:

§ More choice

Many people cannot find their match nearby. In order to have more choice, they must broaden their search. As China opens its door and the Internet becomes more widely available, international dating becomes possible. As the world become more and more international, the dating market will become bigger and bigger. More choice means more chance for her to find the best match.

Moreover, Chinese men do not prefer women who have had a divorce or who already have children, which makes it very difficult for these Chinese women to find a new marriage inside China. Because of this, these Chinese women choose to search for love outside of China (an important reason that Asian Promise has experienced). These women do not mind leaving their own country, giving up their well-paid jobs or meeting the challenges of a new culture - they want love and to be loved again.

§ Improving quality of life

Improving one’s quality of life through marriage is a tradition in China . Although nowadays many single Chinese women have a good income and life, there are still many women from remote places in China living a more basic way of life. To them, the Western world is a modern world and offers a better life and better opportunities. A good quality of life is a good foundation of the marriage. These women want to find a husband to love and to be loved, and they also hope he will bring them a better life. Sometimes a better life doesn’t mean money and a house, but rather spiritual nourishment.


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