Don't start what you can't finish ( Archived) (111)

Sep 14, 2013 3:29 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
lalasierra
lalasierralalasierralos angeles, California USA147 Threads 67 Polls 935 Posts
ChristinDew: A man sent email and started fun conversations, and finally made a woman fall for him. Then suddenly, pop up and said "I am not ready, it's too fast". Why a man bother to start something if he felt not ready for the consequences?


Playing games with your head. What a loser!thumbs down
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Sep 14, 2013 10:09 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
ChristinDew: It was damn true D. I think it was just so cruel.
Make a woman fall without any intention to love her


it's called he's either or married or in jail and doesn;t want to admit itroll eyes tongue
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Sep 18, 2013 6:51 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
Rbjustme
RbjustmeRbjustmeNowhere, Victoria Australia8 Threads 192 Posts
This is my sore point, this one. It happened to me somewhere else, no a dating site, it was on my own chat forum, now gone. I fell deeply in love with a woman totally unexpected, changed my life, my attitude, changed everything from darkness to bright sunshine, after 25 years of being on my own, by my choice.

Proposing was my next step, when we met. Only two hours after the most wonderful conversation via e-mail and Skype, I received an e-mail pulling the rug right out from under my feet, "I'm Sorry" was the title, and the reason for it, was that she entered into the relationship for the wrong reasons.

Not much consolation for any one on the receiving end of this sort of behaviour, on line communication is excellent, but heavens, it can bring you down so quickly. uh oh sad
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Nov 24, 2013 7:36 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
sweetsmile1
sweetsmile1sweetsmile1philippines, Metro Manila Philippines1 Posts
I FINISHED WITH BAD EXPERIENCES LIKE OTHERS

Dont trust Nazzareno schembri from Qrendi Malta, he treat woman nice at first with a dinner at the mamas at imsida malta , to have someone to go out with , then used other women to get rid off you,
this man wild and play a game with women heart, don't be hurt from this man like my all friends on CS did. he have a false, profile as Zaren12, that he never opened it, but using it to hurt his x woman that is not him but it is.

all his games start as friend and very nice but finished with depression, and bad excperience.

He believes that lie and secrets keeps relationship strong
don't go into his boots.
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Nov 24, 2013 7:40 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
ChristinDew: A man sent email and started fun conversations, and finally made a woman fall for him. Then suddenly, pop up and said "I am not ready, it's too fast". Why a man bother to start something if he felt not ready for the consequences?


good question...cold feet maybe?
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Nov 24, 2013 7:42 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
sweetsmile1: I FINISHED WITH BAD EXPERIENCES LIKE OTHERS

Dont trust Nazzareno schembri from Qrendi Malta, he treat woman nice at first with a dinner at the mamas at imsida malta , to have someone to go out with , then used other women to get rid off you,
this man wild and play a game with women heart, don't be hurt from this man like my all friends on CS did. he have a false, profile as Zaren12, that he never opened it, but using it to hurt his x woman that is not him but it is.

all his games start as friend and very nice but finished with depression, and bad excperience.

He believes that lie and secrets keeps relationship strong
don't go into his boots.
Thanks for the tip but you may be in violation like Jim from Austrailia for this.dunno
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Nov 25, 2013 5:50 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
ChristinDew: It was damn true D. I think it was just so cruel.
Make a woman fall without any intention to love her


He just wanted to see if he could have her ? Some men get off on doing this and many women also. They do this just to boost their already fragile ego's. These are losers and sad people in my opinion.
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Nov 25, 2013 5:57 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
ChristinDew: Well, maybe. but can't see the reason why.


Has this happened to you, ChristinDew ?
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Nov 25, 2013 6:00 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
chatonlyman2: Thanks for the tip but you may be in violation like Jim from Austrailia for this.


Only one side of that story was heard and Jim deleted his own profile.
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Nov 25, 2013 6:19 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
Glatlol: I would think it might have to do with the fact that the woman "fell for him" by mail, IMO thats a warning flag and I would run like the wind to.



Some Asian women and Filipona's are using these sites to find husbands to not only support them but also their entire extended families and without even meeting the guy. lol Run for the hills. Run for your life. pmsl
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Nov 25, 2013 9:32 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
happy369
happy369happy369Onehorsetown, Indonesia979 Posts
Prapiroon: Some Asian women and Filipona's are using these sites to find husbands to not only support them but also their entire extended families and without even meeting the guy. lol Run for the hills. Run for your life. pmsl
i thought Filipinos are Asian toogrin
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Nov 25, 2013 10:02 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
there's no crystal ball for getting into relationships. i think letting you know, "i am not ready, it's too fast" is some really good information, and much better than just not hearing from him again.

wine
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Nov 25, 2013 10:20 AM CST Don't start what you can't finish
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
jono7: there's no crystal ball for getting into relationships. i think letting you know, "i am not ready, it's too fast" is some really good information, and much better than just not hearing from him again.

I get the impression that not being ready, or people wanting a different pace are not uncommon, especially in the medium of the internet.

I don't think its uncommon for people to sign up to an internet dating site as part of a process towards being ready for a relationship. It's maybe a way of exploring thoughts and feelings about relationships. dunno

People do start what they can finish, they maybe just don't want to finish now, or a particular person who isn't the right one for them.
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Nov 25, 2013 1:42 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
happy369: i thought Filipinos are Asian too


I thought Filipinos are Filipinos, Japanese and Chinese are Asian.
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Nov 25, 2013 1:51 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
michael63ca
michael63camichael63caVancouver, Alberta Canada50 Threads 2 Polls 784 Posts
jac379: I get the impression that not being ready, or people wanting a different pace are not uncommon, especially in the medium of the internet.

I don't think its uncommon for people to sign up to an internet dating site as part of a process towards being ready for a relationship. It's maybe a way of exploring thoughts and feelings about relationships.

People do start what they can finish, they maybe just don't want to finish now, or a particular person who isn't the right one for them.


Or believing they are ready and then the sudden realization that they have something not worked out within themselves, and need to focus on that first? At any rate,it's better to find out sooner than later!
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Nov 25, 2013 2:04 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
michael63ca: Or believing they are ready and then the sudden realization that they have something not worked out within themselves, and need to focus on that first? At any rate,it's better to find out sooner than later!

Yes, and perhaps more likely that my suggestion.

It happens, its not personal.

But then neither is rejection of any sort really, I suppose. dunno
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Nov 25, 2013 4:20 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
unlaoised: Only one side of that story was heard and Jim deleted his own profile.
Thanks but can you bring him back.group hug
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Nov 25, 2013 4:27 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
Prapiroon
PrapiroonPrapiroonCarlow, Ireland366 Posts
happy369: i thought Filipinos are Asian too


Your quite right they are of course.lol But their culture perhaps is a little different. They have very strong family ties and when they go to work abroad it is to send money home to their families. They are beautiful and they have many fine qualities but western guys do not always know what they are getting into when they enter into a relationship with a Filipina so this is why I mentioned them separately. innocent
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Nov 25, 2013 10:24 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
happy369
happy369happy369Onehorsetown, Indonesia979 Posts
Prapiroon: Your quite right they are of course.lol But their culture perhaps is a little different. They have very strong family ties and when they go to work abroad it is to send money home to their families. They are beautiful and they have many fine qualities but western guys do not always know what they are getting into when they enter into a relationship with a Filipina so this is why I mentioned them separately.
i think it is very admirable to support ones family and adults who are grown up enough to enter a relationship should know the pro's and cons about it, its not like international dating started a month agowine
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Nov 25, 2013 11:09 PM CST Don't start what you can't finish
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
Kaybee50: Is it possible you and he have different intentions right now?

Perhaps he wants "light and flirty" right now.

And this is the "dance" that we all navigate through this maze of dating, seeking. We all aren't at the same place at the same time, a "fit" is a rare thing to find, and our hearts suffer when the other doesn't reciprocate. But we hurt, learn, get up, and try again. It will happen again and again, and we will grow wiser and more self-aware in the process, and then, maybe one day, you will see that all of the men before were stepping stones to the One that has been searching for you as much as you've been searching for him.



I could not have said it better....!!!

Christin, was this Guy close-by..?, did you skype or chat face to face with him..??
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