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In response to: it is important/right to keep a relationship going on with you ex's of the past. Like ex lover's girlfriends/ boyfriends, wife's/husbands.
If you have no kids together?????
If you have no kids together?????
I say to each their own.
Would I do it no.
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I am still friends with my 2 ex's..People and relationships are different. Up to the 2 parties involved.
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Singlelisious: I am still friends with my 2 ex's..People and relationships are different. Up to the 2 parties involved.
Are you Winter and cold proof ,why dont u wear a suit even in winter ?
Hi Single
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Funny you should ask something like that...I actually still keep in touch with 2 of my ex's...I don't hate them, actually still care deeply about them, just can't be married to them funny thing the other day last week, within 3-5 mins got a text from both of them, it's a crazy life 
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SoonerGal: Funny you should ask something like that...I actually still keep in touch with 2 of my ex's...I don't hate them, actually still care deeply about them, just can't be married to them funny thing the other day last week, within 3-5 mins got a text from both of them, it's a crazy life
Even when you are in a new relationship would you think it is fair to the new person in your life. Do you not feel it is a bit disrespectful to your new partner if you had one???------ This thread is Archived ------
josingleinspain: Even when you are in a new relationship would you think it is fair to the new person in your life. Do you not feel it is a bit disrespectful to your new partner if you had one???
Well, the way I see it, trust goes a long ways...first of all I wouldn't be with an insecure man, if I'm divorced that pretty much says that my feelings for that person on a intimate way is gone. I personally wouldn't have a problem with it unless he still confessed being in love with her...
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Hi Jo, 
I personally have no interest in any contact with my ex. I didn't have it in former relationships that himself kept any contact. 
How I would react would depend on the form of their relationship, if one of them is still carrying a torch.
Bit different to your topic, half of my friends are male and giving up on one of these friendships for someone coming new into my life would not happen.
I personally have no interest in any contact with my ex. I didn't have it in former relationships that himself kept any contact. How I would react would depend on the form of their relationship, if one of them is still carrying a torch.
Bit different to your topic, half of my friends are male and giving up on one of these friendships for someone coming new into my life would not happen.
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josingleinspain: it is important/right to keep a relationship going on with you ex's of the past. Like ex lover's girlfriends/ boyfriends, wife's/husbands.
If you have no kids together?????
If you have no kids together?????
I think that if these are any unresolved issues or lingering resentments or still any bad feelings and once there are no kids involved that it is wise to totally walk away. Also current boyfriends will not be impressed if ex's are still on the scene. Would you like to be meeting his ex girlfriends ?
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josingleinspain: Even when you are in a new relationship would you think it is fair to the new person in your life. Do you not feel it is a bit disrespectful to your new partner if you had one???
Something in your post brought something to mind.
My former mother-in-law and her ex husband were still good friends even though he married someone else.The new wife and the ex are the best of friends.So go figure.
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Ccincy: Something in your post brought something to mind.My former mother-in-law and her ex husband were still good friends even though he married someone else.The new wife and the ex are the best of friends.So go figure.
Yes I guess works for some me personally I feel if there are now ties like kids, then leave it where it belongs in the past.
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Every one is different. Some do okay with the past being around and some don't.
Etiquette and respect take precedence over standards and trust. Standards and trust are almost automatic with the first two. As long as there are no children or any type of joint debt involved, an ex is just that. That doesn't mean being rude to each other or any thing of the sort. It just means they are going to go forward with their lives the same as I do with mine.
I don't see a point in having the past around on either side. It may not bode well for either of us with significant others. Occasionally we will see each other around, maybe even with a partner. Common courtesies all around, but there's no reason to have an environment that could create doubt and infringe on trust: Etiquette. The respect is to not put your partner in a position or maintain situations that could cause deep questioning or worse to begin with.
If you get along with your past partner(s) that well that you frequently visit and/or hang out..etc. Be respectful enough to include your current partner if things are going that well or even if you want things to grow. At some point, it could easily arise that you may have to make a decision to roll back somewhat on one or the other.
By not having too much of my past involved or being involved with it; I save a lot of potential trouble from the beginning.
Etiquette and respect take precedence over standards and trust. Standards and trust are almost automatic with the first two. As long as there are no children or any type of joint debt involved, an ex is just that. That doesn't mean being rude to each other or any thing of the sort. It just means they are going to go forward with their lives the same as I do with mine.
I don't see a point in having the past around on either side. It may not bode well for either of us with significant others. Occasionally we will see each other around, maybe even with a partner. Common courtesies all around, but there's no reason to have an environment that could create doubt and infringe on trust: Etiquette. The respect is to not put your partner in a position or maintain situations that could cause deep questioning or worse to begin with.
If you get along with your past partner(s) that well that you frequently visit and/or hang out..etc. Be respectful enough to include your current partner if things are going that well or even if you want things to grow. At some point, it could easily arise that you may have to make a decision to roll back somewhat on one or the other.
By not having too much of my past involved or being involved with it; I save a lot of potential trouble from the beginning.
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Call me crazy, but one of the whole reasons for having and ex girl friend, is that she's no longer a girl friend.
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An ex is in the past. If there is nothing that binds you like children or joint assets/debts then there is no reason to maintain contact.
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That could cause some trouble if your in a new relationship!
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josingleinspain: it is important/right to keep a relationship going on with you ex's of the past. Like ex lover's girlfriends/ boyfriends, wife's/husbands.
If you have no kids together?????
If you have no kids together?????
actually no. I think it's very important NOT to keep those relationships going. usually by the time people break up they are kind of sick of each other anyway.
nothing wrong with being polite in passing...but no....stringing those realtionships out is not healthy...usually. there may be a few exceptions but overall it's not the best choice
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CuddlingSoul: Call me crazy, but one of the whole reasons for having and ex girl friend, is that she's no longer a girl friend.
Ok your crazy!You did say call me crazy.
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Scott1812: Ok your crazy!You did say call me crazy.
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I love it. 
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Draegoneer: Every one is different. Some do okay with the past being around and some don't.
Etiquette and respect take precedence over standards and trust. Standards and trust are almost automatic with the first two. As long as there are no children or any type of joint debt involved, an ex is just that. That doesn't mean being rude to each other or any thing of the sort. It just means they are going to go forward with their lives the same as I do with mine.
I don't see a point in having the past around on either side. It may not bode well for either of us with significant others. Occasionally we will see each other around, maybe even with a partner. Common courtesies all around, but there's no reason to have an environment that could create doubt and infringe on trust: Etiquette. The respect is to not put your partner in a position or maintain situations that could cause deep questioning or worse to begin with.
If you get along with your past partner(s) that well that you frequently visit and/or hang out..etc. Be respectful enough to include your current partner if things are going that well or even if you want things to grow. At some point, it could easily arise that you may have to make a decision to roll back somewhat on one or the other.
By not having too much of my past involved or being involved with it; I save a lot of potential trouble from the beginning.
Etiquette and respect take precedence over standards and trust. Standards and trust are almost automatic with the first two. As long as there are no children or any type of joint debt involved, an ex is just that. That doesn't mean being rude to each other or any thing of the sort. It just means they are going to go forward with their lives the same as I do with mine.
I don't see a point in having the past around on either side. It may not bode well for either of us with significant others. Occasionally we will see each other around, maybe even with a partner. Common courtesies all around, but there's no reason to have an environment that could create doubt and infringe on trust: Etiquette. The respect is to not put your partner in a position or maintain situations that could cause deep questioning or worse to begin with.
If you get along with your past partner(s) that well that you frequently visit and/or hang out..etc. Be respectful enough to include your current partner if things are going that well or even if you want things to grow. At some point, it could easily arise that you may have to make a decision to roll back somewhat on one or the other.
By not having too much of my past involved or being involved with it; I save a lot of potential trouble from the beginning.
makes sense... Etiquette... I think the key is how to keep the distance, especially if we are in situation when we always bump with exs in every now and then... No need to avoid them straightforwardly unless they obviously have potential to cause possible troubles in the future...
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