Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ? ( Archived) (43)

May 31, 2014 10:32 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
lostabone
lostabonelostaboneMissoula, Montana USA22 Threads 8 Polls 57 Posts
It's like women just can't resist trying to get closer to them. Is it because they think they can get the same, that the other woman had with him ? Or is it because they feel sorry for him ?
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May 31, 2014 10:59 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
lostabone: It's like women just can't resist trying to get closer to them. Is it because they think they can get the same, that the other woman had with him ? Or is it because they feel sorry for him ?


I wouldn't say if that's true or untrue. But I will say that women prefer taken men and this is a scientifically proven fact*. Perhaps there's an overlap between taken men and divorced/widowed men? At least divorced/widowed men have proven that they've been able to attract a woman at at least some point in his life. The single man offers no such assurance of his experience. Also, the difference between a taken man and a divorced/widowed is that she doesn't have to indulge in mate stealing to get him, which some women may have a moral qualm against.

*http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2009/10/new-scientist-study-women-prefer-men-who-are/
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May 31, 2014 11:18 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
lostabone: It's like women just can't resist trying to get closer to them. Is it because they think they can get the same, that the other woman had with him ? Or is it because they feel sorry for him ?


Hmm.. not in my case, to be sure. I wouldn't touch either with a 10 ft pole. Friends yes, but for a relationship it's a big NO.
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May 31, 2014 11:20 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
lostabone: It's like women just can't resist trying to get closer to them. Is it because they think they can get the same, that the other woman had with him ? Or is it because they feel sorry for him ?


They certainly wouldn't be to me. What a generalisation doh
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May 31, 2014 11:27 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
lostabone
lostabonelostaboneMissoula, Montana USA22 Threads 8 Polls 57 Posts
unlaoised: They certainly wouldn't be to me. What a generalisation

OK...but do you know a man that if he would be available, you would be interested in him ? Simply because of the way he treated his mate ?
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May 31, 2014 11:32 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
lostabone: OK...but do you know a man that if he would be available, you would be interested in him ? Simply because of the way he treated his mate ?


Simply on that one quality? No.
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May 31, 2014 11:38 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
lostabone
lostabonelostaboneMissoula, Montana USA22 Threads 8 Polls 57 Posts
unlaoised: Simply on that one quality? No.

I will remain dubious on your answer.uncertain
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May 31, 2014 11:44 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
There is a pointlessness in asking these questions because you can't filter vanity from your responses. You're relying upon self-reporting, and not even anonymous self-reporting at that, from the most image-conscious people of them all.

You can prove that X is true, or at least that X is in the majority, yet if there's any chance that X will tarnish an image or suggest that a woman is not wholly unique in what she does then you can guarantee that X will form the minority of publicly stated female opinion.
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May 31, 2014 11:48 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
lostabone: I will remain dubious on your answer.


You ask for replies and then deny them?

It would take more than simply how he treats/treated his partner for me to be interested dunno
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May 31, 2014 11:50 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
I think most women attracted to married mandoh grin
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May 31, 2014 11:53 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Leo_7: I think most women attracted to married man


What do you base that on? confused
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May 31, 2014 11:58 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
unlaoised: What do you base that on?
laugh

The things some men think... never fails to amaze laugh
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May 31, 2014 11:59 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Nidifugous: The things some men think... never fails to amaze


Just the ignorants, Nid. wave
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May 31, 2014 11:59 AM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
unlaoised: What do you base that on?
all my married friends have women running after them.and thats not just here.when i was living in europe was the same thing.
when man is single women dont estimate him.but when he has a beatiful woman becide him other women run after him too.my life experiences.laugh
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May 31, 2014 12:00 PM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
lostabone
lostabonelostaboneMissoula, Montana USA22 Threads 8 Polls 57 Posts
There is a pointlessness in asking these questions because you can't filter vanity from your responses. You're relying upon self-reporting, and not even anonymous self-reporting at that, from the most image-conscious people of them all.

Sounds to me like.......

You can prove that X is true, or at least that X is in the majority, yet if there's any chance that X will tarnish an image or suggest that a woman is not wholly unique in what she does then you can guarantee that X will form the minority of publicly stated female opinion.
Starting with any positive integer n, form a sequence in the following way:

If n is even, divide it by 2 to give n' = n/2.
If n is odd, multiply it by 3 and add 1 to give n' = 3n + 1.

Then take n' as the new starting number and repeat the process. For example:

n = 5 gives the sequence
5, 16, 8, 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1,...
n = 11 gives the sequence
11, 34, 17, 52, 26, 13, 40, 20, 10, 5, 16, 8, 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1,...

These are sometimes called "Hailstone sequences" because they go up and down just like a hailstone in a cloud before crashing to Earth - the endless cycle 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1. It seems from experiment that such a sequence will always eventually end in this repeating cycle 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1,... and so on, but some values for N generate many values before the repeating cycle begins.


laugh
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May 31, 2014 12:03 PM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
unlaoised: What do you base that on?


If not the lying eyes and the real world then there's always the scientific evidence proving the fact to those completely indifferent to the truth(or have social autism).

And I know for certain that wherever I go, and if I'm with my girlfriend, then other women will become more interested in me.
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May 31, 2014 12:04 PM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Leo_7: all my married friends have women running after them.and thats not just here.when i was living in europe was the same thing.
when man is single women dont estimate him.but when he has a beatiful woman becide him other women run after him too.my life experiences.


I think that's what you'd love to believe laugh
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May 31, 2014 12:08 PM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Scott1812
Scott1812Scott1812Claresholm, Alberta Canada26 Threads 11 Polls 1,595 Posts
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May 31, 2014 12:11 PM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Obstinance_Works
Obstinance_WorksObstinance_WorksManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 3,514 Posts
lostabone: There is a pointlessness in asking these questions because you can't filter vanity from your responses. You're relying upon self-reporting, and not even anonymous self-reporting at that, from the most image-conscious people of them all.

Sounds to me like.......

You can prove that X is true, or at least that X is in the majority, yet if there's any chance that X will tarnish an image or suggest that a woman is not wholly unique in what she does then you can guarantee that X will form the minority of publicly stated female opinion.
Starting with any positive integer n, form a sequence in the following way:

If n is even, divide it by 2 to give n' = n/2.
If n is odd, multiply it by 3 and add 1 to give n' = 3n + 1.

Then take n' as the new starting number and repeat the process. For example:

n = 5 gives the sequence
5, 16, 8, 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1,...
n = 11 gives the sequence
11, 34, 17, 52, 26, 13, 40, 20, 10, 5, 16, 8, 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1,...

These are sometimes called "Hailstone sequences" because they go up and down just like a hailstone in a cloud before crashing to Earth - the endless cycle 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1. It seems from experiment that such a sequence will always eventually end in this repeating cycle 4, 2, 1, 4, 2, 1,... and so on, but some values for N generate many values before the repeating cycle begins.


Amazing. So anyway, the only point of a pointless conversation is when the point is not the point. That is, the conversation is a cover for something else which, between single men and women, is usually seduction. But you're not going to seduce women with this question. And probing them for honesty can only attract hostility.

Better to talk about things subjective and emotive where there can be no truth or fact or right and wrong. It's better for a man take an interest in astrology.
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May 31, 2014 12:12 PM CST Why are men who are recently divorced or widowed, more attractive to women ?
Leo_7
Leo_7Leo_7Baku, Azerbaijan87 Threads 16 Polls 2,514 Posts
unlaoised: I think that's what you'd love to believe
no ,u just dont wanna accept the fact.i m not sure about older ladies but young women r like that.
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