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Jun 5, 2014 5:21 AM CST Thinking about...
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
skippyguy: You're quite the Analytical one yourself aren't you ! ...
Need to know is simple........IF one asks something of others they should expect it of themselves...If not...don't ask.!

Maybe sometimes people have the need to ask, but not answer. What stops us from accepting that's where they're at?
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Jun 5, 2014 5:22 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serene56: Dragos I think many women appreciate a thinking guy

'Deep' is good as long as the person who owns that quality is able to express their thoughts, not hide them away like some kind of dirty laundry lol


thumbs up thumbs up ...oooh don't remind me about laundry !!! that laundrette in peru stil owes me a sock.!!! Pffft ,...and they told me it was impossible...i'm stil somwhat Bitter laugh
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Jun 5, 2014 5:25 AM CST Thinking about...
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,960 Posts
skippyguy: Maybe my thought is catching them out upon their lack of..?..ok i'm stopping now ... *i'm certainly not buying into silly games though



Well hmmm as far as the 'catching out' thing Skip, I've generally found that game players lose interest once you accomplish that.

It's a 'job done' kinda thing, yanno conversing
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Jun 5, 2014 5:25 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
jac379: Maybe sometimes people have the need to ask, but not answer. What stops us from accepting that's where they're at?



Well thats simple as well....thats a one sided view, and if said in your context...accepting that's where they are at is simple...and it's also accepting they are ultimately rude in demeanor, thats all that can be taken from that tip hat
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Jun 5, 2014 5:27 AM CST Thinking about...
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,960 Posts
skippyguy: Well thats simple as well....thats a one sided view, and if said in your context...accepting that's where they are at is simple...and it's also accepting they are ultimately rude in demeanor, thats all that can be taken from that



So yeah, we pack our bags and go home, right dunno


But what about the 'Fark that, a**hole mumbling ' aspect laugh
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Jun 5, 2014 5:27 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serene56: Well as far as the 'catching out' thing Skip, I've generally found that game players lose interest once you accomplish that.

It's a 'job done' kinda thing, yanno


Quite true thumbs up grin doesn't hurt to keep them on their toes..:)
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Jun 5, 2014 5:31 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serene56: So yeah, we pack our bags and go home, right But what about the 'Fark that, a**hole ' aspect


There is that....laugh , but within a message i don't think thats
gonna do much good, though may make one feel better :)..........
There is too much hiding behind a keyboard at times, face up or ship out...you know Good Ship Loillipop and all' grin bouquet
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Jun 5, 2014 5:36 AM CST Thinking about...
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
skippyguy: You're quite the Analytical one yourself aren't you ! ...
Need to know is simple........IF one asks something of others they should expect it of themselves...If not...don't ask.!


"Thus" you are.
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Jun 5, 2014 5:41 AM CST Thinking about...
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
skippyguy: Well thats simple as well....thats a one sided view, and if said in your context...accepting that's where they are at is simple...and it's also accepting they are ultimately rude in demeanor, thats all that can be taken from that

How do you know they're ultimately rude in demeanour and there's not something else going on for them?

What is it about the rudeness you perceive that bothers you? What does it remind you of? Where does it come from?

I'm not suggesting you answer these questions, Skippy. They're just ideas for reflection.
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Jun 5, 2014 5:46 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
jac379: How do you know they're ultimately rude in demeanour and there's not something else going on for them?

What is it about the rudeness you perceive that bothers you? What does it remind you of? Where does it come from?

I'm not suggesting you answer these questions, Skippy. They're just ideas for reflection.


I think you think too much as well hug
i'm not going to write you a novel conversing
only refection i need is of my own and if that stands up i'm happy grin
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Jun 5, 2014 5:46 AM CST Thinking about...
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
jac379: How do you know they're ultimately rude in demeanour and there's not something else going on for them?

What is it about the rudeness you perceive that bothers you? What does it remind you of? Where does it come from?

I'm not suggesting you answer these questions, Skippy. They're just ideas for reflection.



OOOOMMMMMMMMMMthumbs up
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Jun 5, 2014 5:52 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
sophiasummer: OOOOMMMMMMMMMM


Thats one from the woodwork.! roll eyes laugh
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Jun 5, 2014 6:05 AM CST Thinking about...
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
skippyguy: Thats one from the woodwork.!


"I rest my case"cool

Hey! enjoy your evening Skippydancing peace
Soph

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Jun 5, 2014 6:09 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
sophiasummer: "I rest my case"

Hey! enjoy your evening Skippy
Soph


hahaha I've yet to see your case , So court is stil in session tongue
Enjoy your evening as well hug
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Jun 6, 2014 3:25 AM CST Thinking about...
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
serene56: Do you think women tend to think too much, as in overanalyzing?

I tend to think that men are more straightforward in their thinking, cutting to the chase, so to speak

What do you think

As long as I can nail one ...I don`t really care ...grin
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Jun 6, 2014 4:33 AM CST Thinking about...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
serene56: Do you think women tend to think too much, as in overanalyzing?

I tend to think that men are more straightforward in their thinking, cutting to the chase, so to speak

What do you think


confused I did meet men who definitely kept things "simple" but not all did. dunno

Overanalysing happens and I really like the part where people come up with stuff that has no relevance at all. laugh
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Jun 6, 2014 4:35 AM CST Thinking about...
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,960 Posts
KNenagh: I did meet men who definitely kept things "simple" but not all did.

Overanalysing happens and I really like the part where people come up with stuff that has no relevance at all.



Sorry about that blushing laugh
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Jun 6, 2014 4:37 AM CST Thinking about...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
serene56: Sorry about that


That remark wasn't directed at you serene, it just sometimes makes me laugh or gobsmacks me what some people come up with. laugh wave
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Jun 6, 2014 4:40 AM CST Thinking about...
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,960 Posts
KNenagh: That remark wasn't directed at you serene, it just sometimes makes me laugh or gobsmacks me what some people come up with.



Yup it's a wonderful world alright laugh hole laugh
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Jun 6, 2014 4:48 AM CST Thinking about...
skippyguy
skippyguyskippyguyAshburton, Canterbury New Zealand26 Threads 3,825 Posts
serene56: Yup it's a wonderful world alright


ooooooh professor ..Louis Armstrong grin
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