In todays world broken hearts not a wonder. Very few people maintain values in life and others are behind money and luxuries. From my experience true love is very rare to find. And its hard to repair a broken heart, though its possible by the right hands. Whats your opinion friends.
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
You are lucky if you believe that a broken heart can be healed by the right hands. I think a broken heart leaves scars. That means it healed, but it will never function as good as a new one. Like scar tissue, it doesn't stretch so well anymore. :-)
That's a very interesting question. Some heal and others don't. The strong survive and come out stronger. The weak lose yet another part of themselves to the wolves....
Its true Nidifugus, but this is real life, let the scars be there as a reminder as a precaution. Past is always past, it can't be changed. But I think, living in past is not good. So its better to open on doors hoping the best to come.
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
josefromindia: Its true Nidifugus, but this is real life, let the scars be there as a reminder as a precaution. Past is always past, it can't be changed. But I think, living in past is not good. So its better to open on doors hoping the best to come.
True and I would never discourage anybody from giving up hope and moving forward with their love interest.
I have opened my door and waiting with hope to find that real person who is real and wants the true one. I hope somebody who can understand a simple man stops and chat with me. Above all that person also needs a hand.
Just like a broken leg can heal so too can a broken heart,
If we learn to detach and find contentment in just being by ourselves and give ourselves time to do that without wanting another to fill that void of saddness because we are still attached emotionally to another then we are only fooling ourselves,,,
Another cannot mend a broken heart ,
Another dosnt make one happy another can enhance it.
Thats true. Broken is always broken, nobody new can replace it. Eventhough when time passes the pain get reduce when new person comes to fill that gap. Though, that gap cannot be filled for sure, but only a scar can be remained. In other words the depth and pain of the wound get reduced if right person comes to our life at right time.
My heart was broken. Yes, it hurt lots, but I kept going forward. I distracted myself from the pain and eventually the hurt was gone. You can't dwell on things forever.
Nidifugous: You are lucky if you believe that a broken heart can be healed by the right hands. I think a broken heart leaves scars. That means it healed, but it will never function as good as a new one. Like scar tissue, it doesn't stretch so well anymore. :-)
I was going to say that broken hearts never mend until I read what was in the quote.
But I think that you have to have a heart first. Most women do not have a heart, all they want to do is get what they want from you, then leave you for dead.
Let it won't happen again to you. Even if it happens, you have the strength to overcome it. Experiences make a man perfect. Cool and best wishes always.
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
bulldog5150: I was going to say that broken hearts never mend until I read what was in the quote.
But I think that you have to have a heart first. Most women do not have a heart, all they want to do is get what they want from you, then leave you for dead.
Being heartless and using others is not a gender specific problem. I've met several guys in my time who will do anything to get their hands on money... and I mean anything. These people are usually very perceptive (men and women) and they know how to play with an honest person's emotions, how to spot and exploit weaknesses, etc. They're just rotten people who have no moral compass.
Nidifugous: Being heartless and using others is not a gender specific problem. I've met several guys in my time who will do anything to get their hands on money... and I mean anything. These people are usually very perceptive (men and women) and they know how to play with an honest person's emotions, how to spot and exploit weaknesses, etc. They're just rotten people who have no moral compass.
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