Wishes for 2015 (57)

Dec 23, 2014 5:50 PM CST Wishes for 2015
Tinypaws
TinypawsTinypawsunknown, Longford Ireland16 Threads 1 Polls 339 Posts
onwards: Hi tinypaws,i gave up wishing many years ago i was once told that you will never pass whos to come into your life. There all passing me if that makes sense

awww, time is just not right yet, that's all hug hug hug
Dec 23, 2014 5:50 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
henonpause: Perhaps the way to explain it is, you just fit better than anyone else you've ever known, and he reads you as you read him, without thought or effort, and the Yin and Yang kind of feels just right. And he's your best mate, and he'd be the first one you'd choose to spend your time with.

Don't know how else to explain it. It just IS.

Then again, I had him, and Life got complicated and now I don't. Doesn't change the fact that what we had was unbelievable.


But surely, good friends fill that description better than a lover?

Because you hold onto them for life
Dec 23, 2014 5:56 PM CST Wishes for 2015
onwards
onwardsonwardswexford, Wexford Ireland53 Posts
mollybaby: But surely, good friends fill that description better than a lover?

Because you hold onto them for life
Here here molly.GOOD FRIENDS. theres always the fake ones to that let you down badly.crying But hey its xmas the lover is not the be all and end allcheers
Dec 23, 2014 6:04 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mollybaby: But surely, good friends fill that description better than a lover?

Because you hold onto them for life


He was beyond a good friend - he was my best friend, and a great lover to boot - so the best of both worlds. Call it my best friend with added benefits; call it my soul mate. Call it what you will. I've not had it before, and I've not had it since.
Dec 23, 2014 6:05 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mollybaby:

Because you hold onto them for life


Good friends can turn on you too - trust me.
Dec 23, 2014 6:08 PM CST Wishes for 2015
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
henonpause: He was beyond a good friend - he was my best friend, and a great lover to boot - so the best of both worlds. Call it my best friend with added benefits; call it my soul mate. Call it what you will. I've not had it before, and I've not had it since.


Had that, too once.

I don't believe in soulmates and it didn't last anyway, but it was nice to have it.
Dec 23, 2014 6:17 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
henonpause: Good friends can turn on you too - trust me.


I don't agree. I am very lucky with my friends.
Maybe I chose them to me my 'soulmates', rather than a lover?
Dec 23, 2014 6:25 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
mollybaby: I don't agree. I am very lucky with my friends.
Maybe I chose them to me my 'soulmates', rather than a lover?
soulmates how do you know when you find her or him dunno
Dec 23, 2014 6:28 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
mjpd67: soulmates how do you know when you find her or him


If you read up, you will see that I am not at all sure about the concept of soulmates dunno
Dec 23, 2014 6:34 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
mollybaby: If you read up, you will see that I am not at all sure about the concept of soulmates
soz moll didnt read back ya its kinda iffy to me also so you meet someone and you can tell their your soulmate im very sceptical maybe i have met her in the past and let her go dunno
Dec 23, 2014 6:40 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
mollybaby: If you read up, you will see that I am not at all sure about the concept of soulmates
dont say to much now dont want Wade on my case again laugh
Dec 23, 2014 6:40 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mjpd67: soz moll didnt read back ya its kinda iffy to me also so you meet someone and you can tell their your soulmate im very sceptical maybe i have met her in the past and let her go


If you're questioning the possibility of it, then no, you haven't. So yaaaaay, she could still be out there!

It's as Tiny says - so difficult to find the words to explain that connection. But I think she came pretty close - it feels like the other half of yourself.

Then again, maybe it has to be two people who are in tune with stuff too deep to drag onto the forums - many aren't even aware of themselves, let alone anyone or anything else. dunno
Dec 23, 2014 6:41 PM CST Wishes for 2015
jimbo79
jimbo79jimbo79carlow, Carlow Ireland85 Threads 8 Polls 4,259 Posts
more of 2014,it's been a good year
Dec 23, 2014 6:42 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mjpd67: soz moll didnt read back ya its kinda iffy to me also so you meet someone and you can tell their your soulmate im very sceptical maybe i have met her in the past and let her go


My ex-husband, God love him, is about as deep as a puddle.
Dec 23, 2014 6:42 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
jimbo79: more of 2014,it's been a good year
applause
Dec 23, 2014 6:43 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mjpd67
mjpd67mjpd67galway, Galway Ireland181 Threads 5 Polls 6,550 Posts
henonpause: My ex-husband, God love him, is about as deep as a puddle.
ah now laugh
Dec 23, 2014 6:45 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
mjpd67: ah now


Well, you are, MJ. grin
Dec 23, 2014 6:46 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
henonpause: My ex-husband, God love him, is about as deep as a puddle.


Good one! laugh
Dec 23, 2014 6:47 PM CST Wishes for 2015
henonpause
henonpausehenonpauseCork, Ireland50 Threads 2 Polls 1,504 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing laugh
Dec 23, 2014 6:55 PM CST Wishes for 2015
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
henonpause: Don't fret, MJ. You're not my marrying type.


Would you marry again?
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