What's important to you when picking a mate? (30)
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
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. Same as yourself.If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
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That is a pretty good description.
I also need them to be communicative, to be loyal, and to trust me, and be trustworthy in return.
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
yeah you have most covered to be able to talk with somebody easily without getting bored or having to go on with dribble is what I would want to be friendly and affectionate in private also just to have a real friend to trust without fearIf you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
mollybaby: That is a pretty good description.
I also need them to be communicative, to be loyal, and to trust me, and be trustworthy in return.
I also need them to be communicative, to be loyal, and to trust me, and be trustworthy in return.
I forgot about the trustworthy bit - I kind of take that as a given, but of course, it isn't with all.
I do not want to play detective in my own life; that brings stress and upset where it's not needed.
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
Hang out sounds good,but speaking from past i couldn't speak to the postman thats how possesive he was.He distroyed me totaly..If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
So for me what would suit is def having a laugh and what wouldn't suit would be jealousy.Thats closed book for me.
mollybaby: I thought a pulse was enough for you
Or maybe you don't even need that..
Or maybe you don't even need that..
Suppose beggars cant be choosers
sirLarryIII: Suppose beggars cant be choosers
Pulse and jugs it is so!
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
Compatibility as in similar wants, needs and lifestyle. Just makes things easier.
Having fun with someone, actually wanting to talk and spend time with the other person. Oh, and a great lay helps.
Speaking personally, common interests, and plenty of them...
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
Yeah, just what you said,, trust is a big thing, and respect also
Tactile,, affeecionate, and can't beat a bit of romance,, then sorted
OK - to carry on the theme here : IF we all know what suits us, and what does not, why do women still fall for the "bad" guys, or the ones they know won't be good for them in the long run?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
johnjjm: yeah a great lay I forgot that ha ha ha
Yes of course,, that is a given lol
sirLarryIII: You've just described R2-D2 from star wars.And as a bonus he was really good at fixing electrical stuff
Would be nice to have my socket seen to
sirLarryIII: You've just described R2-D2 from star wars.And as a bonus he was really good at fixing electrical stuff
Yea his name is Bean,
Mr Bean.
henonpause: Would be nice to have my socket seen to
Im sure there is plenty of men out there who want to put their plug into your socket
The question is do you want a handyman to do the job or a fully qualified electrician? 
henonpause: OK - to carry on the theme here : IF we all know what suits us, and what does not, why do women still fall for the "bad" guys, or the ones they know won't be good for them in the long run?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
Nope, I don't think anyone can change a person, I take someone as they are.
If they have very different ideas, it might be that I like them, but I won't touch them. I won't give up my wants and needs and know that other people won't do so either.
I don't "hunt" nor do I expect to be chased, it has to be like everything a give and take.
sirLarryIII: Im sure there is plenty of men out there who want to put their plug into your socket The question is do you want a handyman to do the job or a fully qualified electrician?
I would prefer someone qualified who knows what he is doing; however, in a drought situation, I guess a handyman would have to do. Or a handy man...
henonpause: OK - to carry on the theme here : IF we all know what suits us, and what does not, why do women still fall for the "bad" guys, or the ones they know won't be good for them in the long run?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
I don't go for that type anymore.
I learned a long time ago that they were not good for me, so took a break from dating anyone at all.
Sorted my head, took a more positive approach to life, and then dipped my toe into the dating pool again.
This time I did not go for the same type. I chose people who would enrich my life, not damage it.
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If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss