What's important to you when picking a mate? (37)
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
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. Same as yourself.If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
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That is a pretty good description.
I also need them to be communicative, to be loyal, and to trust me, and be trustworthy in return.
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
yeah you have most covered to be able to talk with somebody easily without getting bored or having to go on with dribble is what I would want to be friendly and affectionate in private also just to have a real friend to trust without fearIf you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
mollybaby: That is a pretty good description.
I also need them to be communicative, to be loyal, and to trust me, and be trustworthy in return.
I also need them to be communicative, to be loyal, and to trust me, and be trustworthy in return.
I forgot about the trustworthy bit - I kind of take that as a given, but of course, it isn't with all.
I do not want to play detective in my own life; that brings stress and upset where it's not needed.
Big firm jugs,feck personality
sirLarryIII: Big firm jugs,feck personality
I thought a pulse was enough for you
Or maybe you don't even need that..
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
Hang out sounds good,but speaking from past i couldn't speak to the postman thats how possesive he was.He distroyed me totaly..If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
So for me what would suit is def having a laugh and what wouldn't suit would be jealousy.Thats closed book for me.
mollybaby: I thought a pulse was enough for you
Or maybe you don't even need that..
Or maybe you don't even need that..
Suppose beggars cant be choosers
sirLarryIII: Suppose beggars cant be choosers
Pulse and jugs it is so!
Confident without being cocky,loyal,trusting,outspoken,have a laugh with ,lighthearted but a deeper thinker too,,affectionate,sexy, to me.
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
Compatibility as in similar wants, needs and lifestyle. Just makes things easier.
Having fun with someone, actually wanting to talk and spend time with the other person. Oh, and a great lay helps.
KNenagh: Compatibility as in similar wants, needs and lifestyle. Just makes things easier.
Having fun with someone, actually wanting to talk and spend time with the other person. Oh, and a great lay helps.
yeah a great lay I forgot that ha ha haHaving fun with someone, actually wanting to talk and spend time with the other person. Oh, and a great lay helps.
Speaking personally, common interests, and plenty of them...
henonpause: We are all initially attracted to visual aspects of a potential partner, followed swiftly by a mental and/or physical connection.
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss
Yeah, just what you said,, trust is a big thing, and respect also
Tactile,, affeecionate, and can't beat a bit of romance,, then sorted
OK - to carry on the theme here : IF we all know what suits us, and what does not, why do women still fall for the "bad" guys, or the ones they know won't be good for them in the long run?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
Is it the chase or the challenge? Are we arrogant enough to think we are special enough to capture them?
Have we become Hunters ourselves?
johnjjm: yeah a great lay I forgot that ha ha ha
Yes of course,, that is a given lol
peachmelba: Confident without being cocky,loyal,trusting,outspoken,have a laugh with ,lighthearted but a deeper thinker too,,affectionate,sexy, to me.
You've just described R2-D2 from star wars.And as a bonus he was really good at fixing electrical stuff
sirLarryIII: You've just described R2-D2 from star wars.And as a bonus he was really good at fixing electrical stuff
Would be nice to have my socket seen to
sirLarryIII: You've just described R2-D2 from star wars.And as a bonus he was really good at fixing electrical stuff
Yea his name is Bean,
Mr Bean.
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If you are looking for a long-term relationship, what - after physical - attributes are important to you?
Do you know yourself well enough to know what will - and what will not - suit?
To me, being able to chat and have a laugh with said mate is vital; without that, there is no physical spark for me. I get along with most people, but I don't spark with all. Being affectionate and tactile is also high up on my list. But most importantly, is the ability to hang out with my mate without the need of additional parties, and still have the best of times.
Discuss