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Jan 18, 2015 4:47 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help
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Jan 18, 2015 4:48 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh: don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help


I thought your divorce was over last week? comfort
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Jan 18, 2015 4:49 PM CST help downhill fast
Nice tux by the way.
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Jan 18, 2015 4:56 PM CST help downhill fast
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Hi daniel I can't honestly say that sense I've never been divorced that I know just how you feel cause that obviously wouldn't be true.

But I will say that I can only imagine how you must be feeling.comfort
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Jan 18, 2015 4:56 PM CST help downhill fast
chatonlyman2
chatonlyman2chatonlyman2North Bay, Ontario Canada27 Threads 7 Polls 6,600 Posts
danieljosh: don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help
Once you get the hang of being a bachelor you will see its advantages. Being Free is not so badhandshake
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Jan 18, 2015 4:58 PM CST help downhill fast
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
danieljosh: don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help


Marriage breakup and divorce is said to be one of the most traumatic events of one's life.

It is the legal end of one set of hopes and dreams.

But you can also see it as end of an unhappy period of your life.

Closure.

With closure comes the opportunity of new openings and beginnings.

Allow yourself time to lick your wounds, then awake some sunny morning to your new life, and new beginnings.

hug
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Jan 18, 2015 5:04 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
SITTING HERE IN TEARS ALTHOUGH ABUSED CANT SEEM TO FINALLY ACCEPT IT MAY BE I`M TO SENSITIVE
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Jan 18, 2015 5:09 PM CST help downhill fast
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
danieljosh: SITTING HERE IN TEARS ALTHOUGH ABUSED CANT SEEM TO FINALLY ACCEPT IT MAY BE I`M TO SENSITIVE


If you loved someone, even if this person changed and the love goes, it's hard. hug

Give it time, make sure you do things you like and try to enjoy life to move on. Try not to sit home on your own to often and think about the past. teddybear
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Jan 18, 2015 5:13 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
KNenagh: If you loved someone, even if this person changed and the love goes, it's hard.

Give it time, make sure you do things you like and try to enjoy life to move on. Try not to sit home on your own to often and think about the past.


THAANKS EASY TO SAY BUT HARD TO DO TREATED BADLY BUT STILL LOVE HER IN MY OWN WAY
crying
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Jan 18, 2015 5:17 PM CST help downhill fast
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
danieljosh: don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help


Be kind to yourself tomorrow, you're allowed hug

Single life is good wink
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Jan 18, 2015 5:18 PM CST help downhill fast
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
danieljosh: THAANKS EASY TO SAY BUT HARD TO DO TREATED BADLY BUT STILL LOVE HER IN MY OWN WAY


I know it's hard, have been there myself although not treated badly. hug

Take your time to cry and grieve, when it gets too bad, kick yourself in the bum and move on.

All I can do is wish you strength, give yourself time. bouquet
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Jan 18, 2015 5:23 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
thank you all for your comments sorry I`m just not feeling great best if you ignore me not my usual self
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Jan 18, 2015 5:23 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
thank you all for your comments sorry I`m just not feeling great best if you ignore me not my usual self
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Jan 18, 2015 5:23 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
thank you all for your comments sorry I`m just not feeling great best if you ignore me not my usual self
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Jan 18, 2015 5:23 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
thank you all for your comments sorry I`m just not feeling great best if you ignore me not my usual self
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Jan 18, 2015 5:27 PM CST help downhill fast
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
danieljosh: don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help
Nah , ye don't wanna go down there >>>>>>>>hole

We're open all hours here bud for ye thumbs up
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Jan 18, 2015 5:28 PM CST help downhill fast
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
danieljosh: SITTING HERE IN TEARS ALTHOUGH ABUSED CANT SEEM TO FINALLY ACCEPT IT MAY BE I`M TO SENSITIVE

Nah, it's important to grieve and it's healthy.

Allow yourself the time to do that and you'll get through it, without it cropping up in the future all entangled with other stuff.

You might find it useful to look at a Change (Grief Cycle) Graph and see where you're at and where you're heading. It's not intended to be perfectly linear and you might go back and forth before moving on, but it kind of demonstrates that you're going through the process healthily and 'normally', just as we all do if we allow ourselves.

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Jan 18, 2015 5:31 PM CST help downhill fast
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
danieljosh: thank you all for your comments sorry I`m just not feeling great best if you ignore me not my usual self


That's the good thing with CS, there are some great people with a sympathetic ear out there who will listen and encourage you. hug
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Jan 18, 2015 5:31 PM CST help downhill fast
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
danieljosh: don't know how I feel my divorce Is through tomorrow

life goes on but I am not finding it at all easy

although not my fault

still finding it hard to cope

help


If you feel a little sad it proves that you truly loved, and that is not something to feel bad about.
hug
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Jan 18, 2015 5:38 PM CST help downhill fast
danieljosh
danieljoshdanieljoshtelford, West Midlands, England UK21 Threads 1 Polls 1,364 Posts
Brannigan70: Nah , ye don't wanna go down there >>>>>>>>

We're open all hours here bud for ye

thanks pal and to youall good to know my c/s friemds are there for me at this st&t time hug
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