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Jan 25, 2015 2:39 PM CST help me score.
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
allthegoodnamest: OK the first was I've bought a new yoga matt would you join me for a workout?
Now that might work if she were wearing white stilettos, dancing around a handbag and had drunk 5 pints, I cant see it working here
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Jan 25, 2015 2:40 PM CST help me score.
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
allthegoodnamest: OK the first was I've bought a new yoga matt would you join me for a workout?


Lame.

Next?
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Jan 25, 2015 2:42 PM CST help me score.
Ccincy
CcincyCcincyCincinnati, Ohio USA77 Threads 20,535 Posts
Help you score?


What is this a football game and you are trying for a touch down.laugh
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Jan 25, 2015 2:44 PM CST help me score.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Nooooow.I'm not that rude.
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Jan 25, 2015 2:49 PM CST help me score.
allthegoodnamest: I'm pretty new to this online dating malarkey.
I mean what advice can you veterans give me?
I've messaged twice without a reply.


writing As a semi-veteran of the CS International Forum community below is my advice.

1. Decide what kind of a game you are going to play here - "to score" as topic suggest some sort of team athletic activities, football, rugby, baseball, basketball.... dunno So perhaps changing the game to cooking a well prepared meal instead

- ending with the dessert of love and passion (marriage? soul mate? sometime date?) - it's your call
- the entree of email contacts of women in your area. However, read the profiles carefully first because it will say in it. You did the good thing and added your photo.

_ when you send an email, perhaps ask a question about something in the person's profile. If it reads in the profile - just here for the blogs, etc believe them and leave them alone.
- send out a lot of emails and flowers and realize that it takes time to get a response and more than likely you will not get a response.

Be like the rest of us CS vets, entertain yourself in the forums and blogs until you get those responses.
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Jan 25, 2015 2:49 PM CST help me score.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
Ok I've got all the advice i need.
Basically I've got no chance!!!
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Jan 25, 2015 2:50 PM CST help me score.
I forgot - the best thing, that I enjoyed was the actual CS get-togethers

There are a lot in Ireland and a few in Scotland.smitten
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Jan 25, 2015 2:51 PM CST help me score.
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Ok I've got all the advice i need.
Basically I've got no chance!!!
hit the quote button it might help us understand who you are replying to
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Jan 25, 2015 2:55 PM CST help me score.
allthegoodnamest
allthegoodnamestallthegoodnamestLondon, Essex, England UK40 Threads 4,697 Posts
A gentleman never tells.
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Jan 25, 2015 3:22 PM CST help me score.
2girlsnocup
2girlsnocup2girlsnocupunknown, Greater London, England UK28 Threads 1 Polls 2,621 Posts
allthegoodnamest: Ok I've got all the advice i need.
Basically I've got no chance!!!


I can tell you what may work with an almost guaranteed reply.

Send them a willy picture. laugh
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Jan 25, 2015 9:20 PM CST help me score.
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
2girlsnocup: I can tell you what may work with an almost guaranteed reply.

Send them a willy picture.
laugh
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Jan 25, 2015 10:03 PM CST help me score.
2girlsnocup: I can tell you what may work with an almost guaranteed reply.

Send them a willy picture.


Actually this is not what i expected.
He asked very politely.
If you dont feel to reply anyone dont at least make fun of him..

Rest is upto you...laugh
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Jan 25, 2015 10:15 PM CST help me score.
Guru80
Guru80Guru80dali, Nicosia Cyprus2 Posts
Instead of begging for replies and tips from veterans ( sorry,this is how it looks like) try to be more patient. Like in real life if someone don't reply to your calls means you need to go on. That simple.
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Jan 25, 2015 11:10 PM CST help me score.
Nidifugous
NidifugousNidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia38 Threads 3 Polls 1,430 Posts
Okay, I'll give a serious reply.

When I first saw the thread, I thought he meant score as in get a woman in the bedroom... is that still true? (rhetorical question, don't answer)

Look at it like looking for a job. These days you have to send out 150 applications to "score" an interview even if your qualifications are fantastic. It's the same thing here. You have to write a lot of mails and perhaps participate in the open forums so that people get to know you. (This can be a double-edged sword). Building trust is the big hurdle on any social site.

Keep your expectations low and go on some other sites as well.

Good luck
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Jan 25, 2015 11:14 PM CST help me score.
Nidifugous: Okay, I'll give a serious reply.

When I first saw the thread, I thought he meant score as in get a woman in the bedroom... is that still true? (rhetorical question, don't answer)

Look at it like looking for a job. These days you have to send out 150 applications to "score" an interview even if your qualifications are fantastic. It's the same thing here. You have to write a lot of mails and perhaps participate in the open forums so that people get to know you. (This can be a double-edged sword). Building trust is the big hurdle on any social site.

Keep your expectations low and go on some other sites as well.

Good luck



thumbs up thumbs up
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Jan 26, 2015 3:21 AM CST help me score.
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
allthegoodnamest: I'm pretty new to this online dating malarkey.
I mean what advice can you veterans give me?
I've messaged twice without a reply.


Hiya a, wave the advice I would give you is to read her profile and see if you actually match, re what she is looking for in regards to relationship type, age etc.

If you send someone an email like you did who is looking for a serious relationship (long-term or marriage) it probably isn't going to go down well, someone who is looking for dating or fun, you might hit the nail on the head there. Have a look at the age range they're looking for as well.

If you make a funny reply in regards to something which is on her profile, it might get you brownie points that you actually read the damn thing. laugh

Best of luck and have fun. bouquet
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Jan 26, 2015 3:23 AM CST help me score.
psygnar
psygnarpsygnarJleeb Al Shuyoukh, Al Farwaniyah Kuwait2 Threads 1 Polls 988 Posts
Nidifugous: Okay, I'll give a serious reply.

When I first saw the thread, I thought he meant score as in get a woman in the bedroom... is that still true? (rhetorical question, don't answer)

Look at it like looking for a job. These days you have to send out 150 applications to "score" an interview even if your qualifications are fantastic. It's the same thing here. You have to write a lot of mails and perhaps participate in the open forums so that people get to know you. (This can be a double-edged sword). Building trust is the big hurdle on any social site.

Keep your expectations low and go on some other sites as well.

Good luck



if u put it like that. then u can i say i scored on my 5th try grin
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Jan 26, 2015 3:47 AM CST help me score.
2girlsnocup: I can tell you what may work with an almost guaranteed reply.

Send them a willy picture.
Asleep or alert...wink
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Jan 26, 2015 8:35 PM CST help me score.
Control the Ball. HEADER! Do the right thing! Just do not get red carded!
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Jan 27, 2015 1:12 AM CST help me score.
Lindzi
LindziLindziManama, Bahrain12 Threads 191 Posts
2girlsnocup: Was the second "Will you help me shower after I've had a yoga workout?"


I bet it was...
I've lost my number can I have yours?
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