ali110: Hi Lolet , It is not first time from ,She doesnt want to see the peace in the forums.She doesnt know that All have diffrent point of views and life styles and we all see life from diffrent angles ,People doesnt need her lessons , It is better for her to behave herself instead of acccusing and teaching other
And she doesnt know that I am "returning" user Lol
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
ali110: Hi Lolet , It is not first time from ,She doesnt want to see the peace in the forums.She doesnt know that All have diffrent point of views and life styles and we all see life from diffrent angles ,People doesnt need her lessons , It is better for her to behave herself instead of acccusing and teaching other
ali110, hi,, i was following with interest the thread but everytime she pointed in, the essence of the topic was deturned and it seems like an accusation rather than discussion ,, thanks anyway for the info ,,nice to have buddys around,,,
Lolette: ali110, hi,, i was following with interest the thread but everytime she pointed in, the essence of the topic was deturned and it seems like an accusation rather than discussion ,, thanks anyway for the info ,,nice to have buddys around,,,
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
Lannna23: Yep!!! I just feel mad at myself!! I knew about other girls, I knew about him messing around Didnt like the very first meeting And I was weak on his words "please be patient with me!"
Those are things that I am thinking about now. Why did I continue Going futher when i saw there is nothing in between us.
I met a girl from sri lanka for several months, one day I told her that her juju priest was going to become very ill, she called me a liar, blocked me and went off line next day
raphael119: I met a girl from sri lanka for several months, one day I told her that her juju priest was going to become very ill, she called me a liar, blocked me and went off line next day
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
Lannna23: Are you serious????
not even exaggerating. Apparently juju is very prevalent in West Africa, you can learn a little on utube. Also the shamans all over Central africa often have life and death powers over the people.
raphael119: not even exaggerating. Apparently juju is very prevalent in West Africa, you can learn a little on utube. Also the shamans all over Central africa often have life and death powers over the people.
What is a point of the story? That I made up domething to make this guy to block me and never ever talk to me?! I wouldnt do that ..... Or I would?!
raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA5,181 posts
Lannna23: What is a point of the story? That I made up domething to make this guy to block me and never ever talk to me?! I wouldnt do that ..... Or I would?!
I was just relating a similar experience and how I dealt with someone who turned out to be a complete fraud. Mine of course was humorous and I never trusted the @$#% anyway.
NidifugousYap, Federated States of Micronesia1,430 posts
Lanna,
I'm a little confused because elsewhere in the thread you said this is the same guy from a few months ago. Wasn't that guy married? or is this a different guy?
Let me offer a word of well meant advice: If you want a serious guy, he will not have a harem on facebook or his cell phone. A serious guy will choose one woman and then pursue her. One woman at a time. What you got on your hands (twice?) are players.
Good example is the strategy of you breaking up and then him blocking you. He does that to make you feel like you did something wrong so that you become angry and seek contact again. It's the same with other little things they do. Players do that crap all the time.
I'm a little surprised that you'd think such a man is a challenge. What makes him a challenge? The fact that he has multiple women that he plays? or multiple ones on fb? You know, it takes no skill, no special knowledge, no intelligence, no brain .. to build a harem.
A challenge is a man who can teach you to be a better person, to be smarter, to make more of yourself than you are, to be kinder, etc. Someone who brings positive change to your life. To get the attention of such a man is the challenge and you're not likely to find that man on a dating website. Just m.o.
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