having high expectations + being strong woman (31)
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cgedvr1: back so soon...
yep!
I actually was leaving because of one guy, but........he showed his bad side in last minute - it happens
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Obstinance_Works: That said my advice to confident and strong women is to not stand in your own light. You may be stronger than the majority of men out there, yet the minority of men you fancy will be stronger than you still. And the wiser woman, even the most Amazonian, will know when to flip her script and become feminine and coyly seductive to entrap men of higher quality. Wise women do not stand in their own light.
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Lannna23: is that "bad" combination?
I mean: Is this combination that loses?
What is your opinion on this?
I mean: Is this combination that loses?
What is your opinion on this?
There is Nothing wrong with quietly being strong and having High expectations at all!
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and even wiser women don't stand in their own shadow.
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Obstinance_Works: That said my advice to confident and strong women is to not stand in your own light. You may be stronger than the majority of men out there, yet the minority of men you fancy will be stronger than you still. And the wiser woman, even the most Amazonian, will know when to flip her script and become feminine and coyly seductive to entrap men of higher quality. Wise women do not stand in their own light.
Nicely said and good advice
Thank you
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Rogerzoekt: and even wiser women don't stand in their own shadow.
gray colors are in trend now days
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Lannna23: is that "bad" combination?
I mean: Is this combination that loses?
What is your opinion on this?
I mean: Is this combination that loses?
What is your opinion on this?
There is nothing wrong with either men or woman being of strong character, or of having high expectations.
Problems arise when one's expectations are too high, and one does not recognise when it is good to be weak, to depend on others.
We are all only human, humans need to give and take; be both strong and weak, and not have superhuman expectations of ourselves or others.
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cgedvr1: back so soon...
Stirring something today?
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mollybaby: There is nothing wrong with either men or woman being of strong character, or of having high expectations.
Problems arise when one's expectations are too high, and one does not recognise when it is good to be weak, to depend on others.
We are all only human, humans need to give and take; be both strong and weak, and not have superhuman expectations of ourselves or others.
Problems arise when one's expectations are too high, and one does not recognise when it is good to be weak, to depend on others.
We are all only human, humans need to give and take; be both strong and weak, and not have superhuman expectations of ourselves or others.
Need to find that "happy medium"
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So true. Yet, most of women who seem strong are usually very fragile at the same time. They just don't make it so visible.
I do seem very strong to most of guys, especially after they learn my story or see that I can install the kitchen myself (but it is much more fun in 2 and it does not end up in tendons inflammation I have right now… ). I simply deny to be miserable because my dream of happy family did not come true and so on… it makes the guys think I am strong.
But I do am fragile and easy to hurt the same way other people are. I may not talk about that or cry immediately (ok, sometimes I do) cos I try to reason.
But the true is that guys are scared of women who seem to be strong or have they goals. It's that they are worried there is no place or need of them.
I do seem very strong to most of guys, especially after they learn my story or see that I can install the kitchen myself (but it is much more fun in 2 and it does not end up in tendons inflammation I have right now… ). I simply deny to be miserable because my dream of happy family did not come true and so on… it makes the guys think I am strong.
But I do am fragile and easy to hurt the same way other people are. I may not talk about that or cry immediately (ok, sometimes I do) cos I try to reason.
But the true is that guys are scared of women who seem to be strong or have they goals. It's that they are worried there is no place or need of them.
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Katiko: So true. Yet, most of women who seem strong are usually very fragile at the same time. They just don't make it so visible.
I do seem very strong to most of guys, especially after they learn my story or see that I can install the kitchen myself (but it is much more fun in 2 and it does not end up in tendons inflammation I have right now… ). I simply deny to be miserable because my dream of happy family did not come true and so on… it makes the guys think I am strong.
But I do am fragile and easy to hurt the same way other people are. I may not talk about that or cry immediately (ok, sometimes I do) cos I try to reason.But the true is that guys are scared of women who seem to be strong or have they goals. It's that they are worried there is no place or need of them.
I do seem very strong to most of guys, especially after they learn my story or see that I can install the kitchen myself (but it is much more fun in 2 and it does not end up in tendons inflammation I have right now… ). I simply deny to be miserable because my dream of happy family did not come true and so on… it makes the guys think I am strong.
But I do am fragile and easy to hurt the same way other people are. I may not talk about that or cry immediately (ok, sometimes I do) cos I try to reason.But the true is that guys are scared of women who seem to be strong or have they goals. It's that they are worried there is no place or need of them.
U are right ..but not all guys.
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cgedvr1: back so soon...
how many new hot lady joined CS?
I am asking this to only u becoz by your past post it seems u r the only one have data of ppl how many are back, left n joined here
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Just go with the flow ,
Expectations I liked that book ,
Don't rush in where angels fear to dread ,
Sometimes when I expect a certain outcome ,
It isn't what I had in mind so I don't lift my glass to high,
Expectations I liked that book ,
Don't rush in where angels fear to dread ,
Sometimes when I expect a certain outcome ,
It isn't what I had in mind so I don't lift my glass to high,
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peachmelba: Just go with the flow ,Expectations I liked that book ,Don't rush in where angels fear to dread ,
Sometimes when I expect a certain outcome ,It isn't what I had in mind so I don't lift my glass to high,
Sometimes when I expect a certain outcome ,It isn't what I had in mind so I don't lift my glass to high,
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Katiko: So true. Yet, most of women who seem strong are usually very fragile at the same time. They just don't make it so visible.
I do seem very strong to most of guys, especially after they learn my story or see that I can install the kitchen myself (but it is much more fun in 2 and it does not end up in tendons inflammation I have right now… ). I simply deny to be miserable because my dream of happy family did not come true and so on… it makes the guys think I am strong.
But I do am fragile and easy to hurt the same way other people are. I may not talk about that or cry immediately (ok, sometimes I do) cos I try to reason.But the true is that guys are scared of women who seem to be strong or have they goals. It's that they are worried there is no place or need of them.
I do seem very strong to most of guys, especially after they learn my story or see that I can install the kitchen myself (but it is much more fun in 2 and it does not end up in tendons inflammation I have right now… ). I simply deny to be miserable because my dream of happy family did not come true and so on… it makes the guys think I am strong.
But I do am fragile and easy to hurt the same way other people are. I may not talk about that or cry immediately (ok, sometimes I do) cos I try to reason.But the true is that guys are scared of women who seem to be strong or have they goals. It's that they are worried there is no place or need of them.
I would like actually to be "weak", I got tired of raising kids on my own, obtaining education in foreign country, being mother and father......I would like someone to take over my place (kids are grown - does not have to play role of father); but someone to lead me - I am so ready to give all control. But, he has to meet my expectations - if I can work 50 hours per week, he has to be able to do the same, if I can be awake every morning at 6b and smiling.......he has to do the same - I dont want negative energy flowing around me! - That kind of MAN is hard to find
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peachmelba: Just go with the flow ,Expectations I liked that book ,Don't rush in where angels fear to dread ,
Sometimes when I expect a certain outcome ,It isn't what I had in mind so I don't lift my glass to high,
Sometimes when I expect a certain outcome ,It isn't what I had in mind so I don't lift my glass to high,
I can take that long deciding ,,pondering ,that by the time it comes round say just to go on a date ,
I've sapped the energy out of it,
Sometimes killed it off before it even started,
Too complex complicating things then it dosnt even get a chance to breath ,
I think it's fear that prevents one from just going with the flow being spontaneous
And having too high expectations at the start,
Then fear of failure that it might not match your expectation,
And even prevent us from even daring to expect ,in case of failure,
There is no failure ,only when we don't make the effort ,
To expect whats best for me when I don't know till ive tried then ill,know,
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Obstinance_Works: That said my advice to confident and strong women is to not stand in your own light. You may be stronger than the majority of men out there, yet the minority of men you fancy will be stronger than you still. And the wiser woman, even the most Amazonian, will know when to flip her script and become feminine and coyly seductive to entrap men of higher quality. Wise women do not stand in their own light.
NICE WORDS HERE, I AM ENLIGHTEN TO THIS..
cheers!!
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Yes, it is a bad combination, you'll probably die single.
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I mean: Is this combination that loses?
What is your opinion on this?