peachmelba: Sometimes it s easier to be a happy single
As when in a relationship it might bring out ones giving side and the ability to take Compliments and critiisims when in a positive way
Yes good relationships are about allowing each other to have own space ,own identity ,sometimes relationships can highlight insecurities one wouldn't have to face if staying a happy single.
Anyway it good to make the most if what situation we find ourselves in and as long as we are happy then we are happy,
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Just to add I think we learn more about ourselves when in a relationship and the other dies too of course,
peachmelba: Sometimes it s easier to be a happy single
As when in a relationship it might bring out ones giving side and the ability to take Compliments and critiisims when in a positive way
Yes good relationships are about allowing each other to have own space ,own identity ,sometimes relationships can highlight insecurities one wouldn't have to face if staying a happy single.
Anyway it good to make the most if what situation we find ourselves in and as long as we are happy then we are happy,
.
.hahaa,
In a good relationship she could be ever-present but never in my space. I wouldn't define a good relationship as one which gives freedom and space, you get those when you're single. Are people used to smothering or being smothered in relationships and that's why they have this preoccupation with freedom etc? It's like saying you're drug and disease free or have a GSOH, they sort of say the opposite of you.
LoletteLe Mans, Pays de la Loire France1,691 posts
peachmelba: I typed the other one DOES .
I hate this iPad I have to type in slow or else it changes,
I get very annoyed at times .
Peach,, hi,, good enough we could make corrections,,i often times do make mistakes too ,,, awww,, don't want to see you end up in a murder case,, In a way, confident, happy or whatever are we as singles,, no enough guarantee for relationship from that,, it's a day to day journey to it's destiny,,
A confident dater, you enjoy the mutual exchange of support and affection your relationship offers, and enjoy spending time with your partner. You’re happy to share your deepest thoughts and feelings with them and invite them to open up to you. You’re committed to your relationship and know your partner feels the same. Your perfect partner would be another secure individual, but you’d also thrive in a relationship with an anxious or dismissive partner. Thankfully you’re already coupled up – but check out our Bad Dates short videos and think yourself lucky it’s not you!
A confident dater, you enjoy the mutual exchange of support and affection your relationship offers, and enjoy spending time with your partner. You’re happy to share your deepest thoughts and feelings with them and invite them to open up to you. You’re committed to your relationship and know your partner feels the same. Your perfect partner would be another secure individual, but you’d also thrive in a relationship with an anxious or dismissive partner. Thankfully you’re already coupled up – but check out our Bad Dates short videos and think yourself lucky it’s not you!
Obstinance_Works: Confident single. I have a feeling that will be a popular one. Funny they never asked if I had a sense of crushing loneliness and a fear of dying alone? That might have changed the result.
A few of these came up on the Irish forum:
The Happy Single
Attachment type = Dismissive
Think you don’t need a relationship? When the possibility arises, are you usually found running in the opposite direction? You wouldn’t dream of depending on someone and find it annoying if someone wants to depend on you. Basically you like your own space too much and find it uncomfortable if someone wants to get too close to you so think you might just be happier remaining single forever. But if you ever change your mind, your perfect match would be a secure single. Although you’ve been out the game for a while so you might want to watch our short video series, How To Pull
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