Experience as a black woman in scandinavia (101)
Lindzi: I was in a bar in Thailand once (good old Black Swan) when a drunk old fart tried to hit on me.
he: where have you been all my life?
me: I wasn't alive for most of it
Saw him a few times and he stayed away.
he: where have you been all my life?
me: I wasn't alive for most of it
Saw him a few times and he stayed away.
Hahahaha that is a good one.
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questforlove10: I am creating this thread as a way to interact with other people and share my experience. Ok so i am a black woman age 25 who moved to study first in sweden and then doing my masters now in Finland.i have also traveled a lot around Europe and my experiences are almost the same.
I noticed immediately that i was getting a lot attention from older white men,somethings that never happened in my home country. I am in no way interested in any older man and was quite disgusted at the thought. i mean men as old as 65! older than my father. This happened a lot, in real life and on this site as well.
Men my age do not seem to be interested in me so i am guessing i was not appealing enough which was okay by me because every person has their own preferences.
Anyway my question is why is this the case? Why is it that the older Scandinavian men seem to be the ones interested in girls like me?
I noticed immediately that i was getting a lot attention from older white men,somethings that never happened in my home country. I am in no way interested in any older man and was quite disgusted at the thought. i mean men as old as 65! older than my father. This happened a lot, in real life and on this site as well.
Men my age do not seem to be interested in me so i am guessing i was not appealing enough which was okay by me because every person has their own preferences.
Anyway my question is why is this the case? Why is it that the older Scandinavian men seem to be the ones interested in girls like me?
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Cant beat a bit of black ham
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and the pink bits are even sweeter hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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PLUMBER02: Cant beat a bit of black ham
PLUMBER02: and the pink bits are even sweeter hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Do you not realize that reading that probably made her a little(or very) sick to her stomach?
Honestly, it's not just her.
You probably just made the do not reply list of every woman here.
Nice job.
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Ocee102: Do you not realize that reading that probably made her a little(or very) sick to her stomach?Honestly, it's not just her.
You probably just made the do not reply list of every woman here.
Nice job.
You probably just made the do not reply list of every woman here.
Nice job.
You got that right.
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Ocee102: Do you not realize that reading that probably made her a little(or very) sick to her stomach?Honestly, it's not just her.
You probably just made the do not reply list of every woman here.
Nice job.
You probably just made the do not reply list of every woman here.
Nice job.
Exactly
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Quest, you are beautiful, and since you are educated, you might carry yourself very well and confidently? I suspect that the young men are intimidated and too shy to approach you. Maybe some practice at looking coy approachable would help? As for the old geezers, I don't blame you for being creeped out. 
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PrettyPrescious: Exactly
I think "beam me up Scottie" is on the horizon.
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questforlove10: I am creating this thread as a way to interact with other people and share my experience. Ok so i am a black woman age 25 who moved to study first in sweden and then doing my masters now in Finland.i have also traveled a lot around Europe and my experiences are almost the same.
I noticed immediately that i was getting a lot attention from older white men,somethings that never happened in my home country. I am in no way interested in any older man and was quite disgusted at the thought. i mean men as old as 65! older than my father. This happened a lot, in real life and on this site as well.
Men my age do not seem to be interested in me so i am guessing i was not appealing enough which was okay by me because every person has their own preferences.
Anyway my question is why is this the case? Why is it that the older Scandinavian men seem to be the ones interested in girls like me?
I noticed immediately that i was getting a lot attention from older white men,somethings that never happened in my home country. I am in no way interested in any older man and was quite disgusted at the thought. i mean men as old as 65! older than my father. This happened a lot, in real life and on this site as well.
Men my age do not seem to be interested in me so i am guessing i was not appealing enough which was okay by me because every person has their own preferences.
Anyway my question is why is this the case? Why is it that the older Scandinavian men seem to be the ones interested in girls like me?
Maybe you have that aura that attracts certain age in men, but don't be mislead by the word "interested",,, they can mean a lot of intentions. Be grateful they admire you, you have that charm, i'm pretty sure.
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questforlove10: Thank you for your reply.
It is not appealing getting advances from 50 to 70 year old men when i am only 25, i find it very disturbing.
It is not appealing getting advances from 50 to 70 year old men when i am only 25, i find it very disturbing.
old men like playing the lottery or bingo.
terrible odds but the chance of becoming a winner is pure adrenaline
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questforlove10: Thank you for your reply.
It is not appealing getting advances from 50 to 70 year old men when i am only 25, i find it very disturbing.
It is not appealing getting advances from 50 to 70 year old men when i am only 25, i find it very disturbing.
old men like playing the lottery or bingo.
terrible odds but the chance of becoming a winner is pure adrenaline
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questforlove10: Is is not like i want to meet a white young man.i am talking about my experience in everyday life. Most of the time i am minding my own business walking on the street and then Boom!!! old man.
What time did you wander around your town? Weekdays? Weekend? It could be time where the young ones are at workplace and at the same time pensioners present in public areas enjoying their times. It happens everyday here during weekdays. You can see young ones with friends, partners, children on weekends.
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Where he is......
who he is.....
no one really knows,
and thats why I call him,
or it........
TWINKLETOES!
who he is.....
no one really knows,
and thats why I call him,
or it........
TWINKLETOES!
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Lindzi: I think you are over analyzing the situation.
Older people just have more confidence and we always feel we have little to lose. So they seem braver and more forward.
Older people just have more confidence and we always feel we have little to lose. So they seem braver and more forward.
I guess you're right. What do I know. I've never been a Black woman in Scandinavia. I also haven't been a white male in Scandalnavia.
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Dear Black lady, original poster,
I would, if I were you, pretend you like some of these older and older men... reel them in, really slow, and when you go them wrapped around your finger, wham, go and swoop down and grab their young, like the mighty Bald Eagle does, and the young should be exactly your age.
Shaving your head to achieve this purpose is optional. I wouldn't recommend it.
That's the way to do it.
I would, if I were you, pretend you like some of these older and older men... reel them in, really slow, and when you go them wrapped around your finger, wham, go and swoop down and grab their young, like the mighty Bald Eagle does, and the young should be exactly your age.
Shaving your head to achieve this purpose is optional. I wouldn't recommend it.
That's the way to do it.
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Haha thanks for that.