Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You? ( Archived) (56)

Sep 5, 2015 8:12 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
loulou77
loulou77loulou77Vancouver, British Columbia Canada1 Threads 1,555 Posts
dream
You probably did the right thing...being stood up is not fun and a waste of your time...better to go out with someone who values your time...JMO...wine
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Sep 6, 2015 3:20 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Brannigan70
Brannigan70Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland35 Threads 2,339 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: He gave a very good excuse for not turning up for a date and you bought the story.

He then stood you up again. Would you give him the chance to come up with more feeble excuses or would you just cut him off completely?
Hiya DC , it were kinda late yesterday when I saw your thread and y'all were in bed .


I can only hope that you don't have to experience this again (at least not so soon ) It's only common courtesy to ring/text/send a farking smoke signal if need be and let ye know that he can't make it .

Cut your losses me thinks and move on hug
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Sep 6, 2015 3:23 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
vnufall
vnufallvnufallMadison Hts, Michigan USA1 Threads 13 Posts
cut him off...there are more from where he came from....lol
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Sep 6, 2015 8:15 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
Thank you all for your suggestions and comments.

I need to tell my heart to listen to what my head reasons.......

Not an easy feat but I need to do it...sigh
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Sep 6, 2015 8:16 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: Thank you all for your suggestions and comments.

I need to tell my heart to listen to what my head reasons.......

Not an easy feat but I need to do it...


No, it isn't easy at all. teddybear
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Sep 6, 2015 8:47 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
2intrigued: No, it isn't easy at all.


hug bouquet teddybear
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Sep 6, 2015 11:58 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
PrettyPrescious
PrettyPresciousPrettyPresciousRenton, Washington USA8 Threads 2 Polls 355 Posts
Hmmm if he had a serious illness the first time---and it was not just an excuse----I would give him a second chance. Dont' block him (yet). Give him that chance and then decide. comfort
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Sep 7, 2015 5:35 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Sharpen that blade and start cutting!
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Sep 7, 2015 1:04 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: He gave a very good excuse for not turning up for a date and you bought the story.

He then stood you up again. Would you give him the chance to come up with more feeble excuses or would you just cut him off completely?

Cut him off ..completely
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Sep 15, 2015 10:09 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
Sorry for this late posting. Totally forgotten all about it! doh

Thank you once again to all the suggestions and comments.

Well, I unblocked him and got an answer as to why he didn't show up that night. A valid one I supposed.

Anyway, I just have to be patient and not rush into things or conclusion which I tend to do a lot...uh oh hole which can be very detrimental to a budding relationship. sigh
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Sep 16, 2015 12:46 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: Sorry for this late posting. Totally forgotten all about it!

Thank you once again to all the suggestions and comments.

Well, I unblocked him and got an answer as to why he didn't show up that night. A valid one I supposed.

Anyway, I just have to be patient and not rush into things or conclusion which I tend to do a lot... which can be very detrimental to a budding relationship.


Yeah, agree DC....thumbs up

A little patience required with this, me thinks.

...but if he continues to make a habit of it, then don't put up with it for too long.

...if you're anything like me, I tend to make assumptions.....and they're not always correct doh

Take care Mimi....hug
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Sep 16, 2015 1:08 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
the lack of * nookie *can effect more woman then men....which leads to lack of trust/faith in men..by said woman.....morning dreamcatcher...wave snooty snooty giggle giggle giggle
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Sep 16, 2015 1:16 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
truheart1941: the lack of * nookie *can effect more woman then men....which leads to lack of trust/faith in men..by said woman.....morning dreamcatcher...



You not getting any either Tru, I take it....giggle wave

hug
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Sep 16, 2015 1:21 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie: You not getting any either Tru, I take it....
not at the moment.....blues rolling on the floor laughing grin wave mumbling
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Sep 16, 2015 1:24 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
truheart1941: not at the moment.....



Oh....for some nookie....sigh laugh

I wonder if my neighbour is home? hmmm giggle
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Sep 16, 2015 1:27 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Yeah, agree DC....

A little patience required with this, me thinks.

...but if he continues to make a habit of it, then don't put up with it for too long.

...if you're anything like me, I tend to make assumptions.....and they're not always correct

Take care Mimi....


Thank you very much, Berry hug teddybear bouquet
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Sep 16, 2015 1:29 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie: Oh....for some nookie....

I wonder if my neighbour is home?
weather he is ,or is,nt. doesent help me ...does it....professor rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 1:29 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
truheart1941: the lack of * nookie *can effect more woman then men....which leads to lack of trust/faith in men..by said woman.....morning dreamcatcher...


Good morning to you, Tru wave bouquet

It's almost tea-time here wink coffee2 coffee cake

Errrr....what is 'nookie'?!? confused Some enlightenment, please? grin
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Sep 16, 2015 1:38 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99: Good morning to you, Tru

It's almost tea-time here

Errrr....what is 'nookie'?!? Some enlightenment, please?
morning D/C...its a form of lovemaking..nostrings att/..over a car bonnet.or upagainst a wall....kinda thing.*nookie*....laugh rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing professor
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Sep 16, 2015 1:43 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
truheart1941: weather he is ,or is,nt. doesent help me ...does it....


I thought it may inspire you to do some door-knocking yourself...professor laugh
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