dream You probably did the right thing...being stood up is not fun and a waste of your time...better to go out with someone who values your time...JMO...
Brannigan70Yellow Brick Road , Manchester, Mayo Ireland2,339 posts
Dreamcatcher99: He gave a very good excuse for not turning up for a date and you bought the story.
He then stood you up again. Would you give him the chance to come up with more feeble excuses or would you just cut him off completely?
Hiya DC , it were kinda late yesterday when I saw your thread and y'all were in bed .
I can only hope that you don't have to experience this again (at least not so soon ) It's only common courtesy to ring/text/send a farking smoke signal if need be and let ye know that he can't make it .
Hmmm if he had a serious illness the first time---and it was not just an excuse----I would give him a second chance. Dont' block him (yet). Give him that chance and then decide.
Sorry for this late posting. Totally forgotten all about it!
Thank you once again to all the suggestions and comments.
Well, I unblocked him and got an answer as to why he didn't show up that night. A valid one I supposed.
Anyway, I just have to be patient and not rush into things or conclusion which I tend to do a lot... which can be very detrimental to a budding relationship.
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
Dreamcatcher99: Sorry for this late posting. Totally forgotten all about it!
Thank you once again to all the suggestions and comments.
Well, I unblocked him and got an answer as to why he didn't show up that night. A valid one I supposed.
Anyway, I just have to be patient and not rush into things or conclusion which I tend to do a lot... which can be very detrimental to a budding relationship.
Yeah, agree DC....
A little patience required with this, me thinks.
...but if he continues to make a habit of it, then don't put up with it for too long.
...if you're anything like me, I tend to make assumptions.....and they're not always correct
BerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand4,733 posts
truheart1941: the lack of * nookie *can effect more woman then men....which leads to lack of trust/faith in men..by said woman.....morning dreamcatcher...
truheart1941: the lack of * nookie *can effect more woman then men....which leads to lack of trust/faith in men..by said woman.....morning dreamcatcher...
Good morning to you, Tru
It's almost tea-time here
Errrr....what is 'nookie'?!? Some enlightenment, please?
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You probably did the right thing...being stood up is not fun and a waste of your time...better to go out with someone who values your time...JMO...