Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You? ( Archived) (56)

Sep 16, 2015 1:43 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: Good morning to you, Tru

It's almost tea-time here

Errrr....what is 'nookie'?!? Some enlightenment, please?



Hello DC,,teddybear bouquet

Time for a morning coffee over here,, 8:30 am,i was following the thread, i see you've given him a chance, that was a good decision, i can see you not ready to give him up yet, a part of you still believe it will gonna work,, give it a time, time will always prove everything in this affair, and it will just come that you're ready to let it fade away with no regrets, i say to yourself enough is enough but atleast you tried to be possitive,, if ever,,, anyway, i wish you all the luck out of it,,and cheers to what lies ahead,,thumbs up hug
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Sep 16, 2015 1:45 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: Good morning to you, Tru

It's almost tea-time here

Errrr....what is 'nookie'?!? Some enlightenment, please?


It's Tru's English slang for a good ol' fashioned bonk...conversing
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Sep 16, 2015 1:45 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie: I thought it may inspire you to do some door-knocking yourself...
er no, Serena would kill me...laugh laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 1:46 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Babettefr: Hello DC,,

Time for a morning coffee over here,, 8:30 am,i was following the thread, i see you've given him a chance, that was a good decision, i can see you not ready to give him up yet, a part of you still believe it will gonna work,, give it a time, time will always prove everything in this affair, and it will just come that you're ready to let it fade away with no regrets, i say to yourself enough is enough but atleast you tried to be possitive,, if ever,,, anyway, i wish you all the luck out of it,,and cheers to what lies ahead,,


@and say to yourself,,,,error again,,grin
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Sep 16, 2015 1:57 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
truheart1941: er no, Serena would kill me...


...and then she would kill me for suggesting it to you....laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 2:05 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
truheart1941: morning D/C...its a form of lovemaking..nostrings att/..over a car bonnet.or upagainst a wall....kinda thing.*nookie*....


Oooohhhhhh...just what I needed!!! love love love rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 16, 2015 2:08 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
Babettefr: Hello DC,,

Time for a morning coffee over here,, 8:30 am,i was following the thread, i see you've given him a chance, that was a good decision, i can see you not ready to give him up yet, a part of you still believe it will gonna work,, give it a time, time will always prove everything in this affair, and it will just come that you're ready to let it fade away with no regrets, i say to yourself enough is enough but atleast you tried to be possitive,, if ever,,, anyway, i wish you all the luck out of it,,and cheers to what lies ahead,,


A very lovely morning to you, Babette hug teddybear bouquet

Hope he makes good use of this chance..
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Sep 16, 2015 2:08 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
truheart1941: er no, Serena would kill me...



grin grin serena, she will understand that you love safari ,,laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 2:10 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
BerrySmoothie: It's Tru's English slang for a good ol' fashioned bonk...


And what is a bonk?

Ok ok I got it! rolling on the floor laughing

Jeez! They should've taught us all these difficult words back in school during our English lesson! grin
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Sep 16, 2015 2:11 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
BerrySmoothie: ...and then she would kill me for suggesting it to you....


Too funny! laugh laugh laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 2:11 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Babettefr
BabettefrBabettefrLa France, Pays de la Loire France13 Threads 1,955 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: Oooohhhhhh...just what I needed!!!



grin
thought it was a cell phone laugh laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 2:14 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: And what is a bonk?

Ok ok I got it!

Jeez! They should've taught us all these difficult words back in school during our English lesson!



There are some words we learnt in the playground....laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 2:14 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99
Dreamcatcher99Dreamcatcher99Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia5 Threads 1 Polls 1,074 Posts
Babettefr: thought it was a cell phone


Oh!! That one also!! The new iPhone 6s in rose gold colour smitten smitten smitten
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Sep 16, 2015 9:36 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
BerrySmoothie: ...and then she would kill me for suggesting it to you....

Naaaaaa not you Berry hug ...I would kill HIMdevil laugh
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Sep 16, 2015 9:57 AM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Dreamcatcher99: Sorry for this late posting. Totally forgotten all about it!

Thank you once again to all the suggestions and comments.

Well, I unblocked him and got an answer as to why he didn't show up that night. A valid one I supposed.

Anyway, I just have to be patient and not rush into things or conclusion which I tend to do a lot... which can be very detrimental to a budding relationship.


Hiya DC wave The bit about being patient and not rushing into things or drawing conclusions is probably something a lot of folks are guilty of and I'm no exception. Thing is, this tendency might happen if someone has been through some rough past relationships and they've become much more careful and questioning the next time around and instead of serving us well, it ends up sabotaging a potential relationship. Anyway, that's only one of probably a few reasons...I can think of more but won't get into it just now. I like what Ocee posted above though...it really makes a lot of sense. thumbs up

I'm glad you've given him another opportunity to make amends and I hope that he will be mindful of how delicate a budding relationship can be and works with you on this. hug
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Sep 17, 2015 7:12 PM CST Maybe, He's Just Not That Into You?
Dreamcatcher99: He gave a very good excuse for not turning up for a date and you bought the story.

He then stood you up again. Would you give him the chance to come up with more feeble excuses or would you just cut him off completely?


I think it depends....if I do not really see him as "long term" potential I might gripe a little but still see him now and then

If we had a long standing relationship though, it could be the end of it , yes

OR were it a brand new, yes it would end immiediately. With a brand new person I will end it if I am stood up even once ...sometimes w/out explanationdunno
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