seking advice" is he serious about me for marriage ?" (27)
secretagent09: Didn't she say they spent two nights together. No man travels and spends money if he isn't going to get it.
He doesn't want his cousins to see her. That's a red flag and she's smart enough to see it.
Only thing she said that bothered me is "I am ready to sacrifice anything for him". Those words rarely come out of the mouth of a woman in the U.S.
I have a feeling that this is how he works building up the hopes of women. He's probably wealthy which gives him the opportunity to meet women all over the world.
If it's too good to be true.....then it isn't true
Excellent observation.He doesn't want his cousins to see her. That's a red flag and she's smart enough to see it.
Only thing she said that bothered me is "I am ready to sacrifice anything for him". Those words rarely come out of the mouth of a woman in the U.S.
I have a feeling that this is how he works building up the hopes of women. He's probably wealthy which gives him the opportunity to meet women all over the world.
If it's too good to be true.....then it isn't true
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chris27292729: As a 2 years old Indian baby settling as a permanent resident in
Sweden, his feelings,upbringing and attitude, become Swedish 97%,
as the ICE climate of the country,where has grown up.
He is Indian in skin color,and not in Indian culture.-
I am quiet confident in predicting that he is most probably into more of Indian traditional values than other native Sweden...and therefore the fact that he avoided meting with relatives it's definitely red flag that he might not be serious in considering meaningful relationship.Like and love are very diferent...Sweden, his feelings,upbringing and attitude, become Swedish 97%,
as the ICE climate of the country,where has grown up.
He is Indian in skin color,and not in Indian culture.-
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bullbull: I met a guy online matrimonial site and we were chating since last three months and it was our mutual decision to meet in person. He is from Sweden but Indian Origin he is living there since he was 2 years old. We finally met recently for just two nights we were together and everything was perfect I really liked him as a person,but the confusion is even before he never used to show me feelings when we used to chat or talk over phone. I was expecting may be he will say when we will meet but nothing such happened,I said I love you he did not response of what I said,when I asked him he said,I liked you that is why I am here with you I came all the way just to meet you living my work and everything.he asked me for some time let me reach back to my country and then I will let you right now I am just taking everything inside but, when i go back home I will think and let you know all about.On the third day he drop me at the airport and he made all the payment of hotels and food bills. I am still wondering we spend two nights we both were comfortable with each other but thing which is cutting my heart that I did not felt the connection and warmth emotion which I was expecting from him. you can say he did not show me any feelings till last day......not even when i was going. So how will i come to know what is there in his mind and what is his feelings for me I am so much confused but also he said you can show our pictures to your mother he has given me so much mixed signals Kindly help me to understand this situation I liked him so much but at the same time I do not want to beg him for this relationship..........hope you guys understand I am ready to sacrifice anything for him but if he is ready to accept me............? Does he loves me? and one more thing he came to India on 28th night we were together 28th,29th and it was pre- planed that he asked me to leave on 30th because he doesn't wanted meet his cousins and he does'nt wanted me to see by his cousins. He is returning back on 2nd of November but some where I feel may be he is there to meeting some other women I don't know It just came into my mind now. I really don t know what to do? I may be wrong Please anyone help me out .......may be I am over reacting for no reason I do not want to misunderstand I really want this relation ...... I need your advice friends.....
Thanks & regards
Niha
Thanks & regards
Niha
I think you should date everyone on CS befor you try to understand. jmho
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bullbull: I met a guy online matrimonial site and we were chating since last three months and it was our mutual decision to meet in person. He is from Sweden but Indian Origin he is living there since he was 2 years old. We finally met recently for just two nights we were together and everything was perfect I really liked him as a person,but the confusion is even before he never used to show me feelings when we used to chat or talk over phone. I was expecting may be he will say when we will meet but nothing such happened,I said I love you he did not response of what I said,when I asked him he said,I liked you that is why I am here with you I came all the way just to meet you living my work and everything.he asked me for some time let me reach back to my country and then I will let you right now I am just taking everything inside but, when i go back home I will think and let you know all about.On the third day he drop me at the airport and he made all the payment of hotels and food bills. I am still wondering we spend two nights we both were comfortable with each other but thing which is cutting my heart that I did not felt the connection and warmth emotion which I was expecting from him. you can say he did not show me any feelings till last day......not even when i was going. So how will i come to know what is there in his mind and what is his feelings for me I am so much confused but also he said you can show our pictures to your mother he has given me so much mixed signals Kindly help me to understand this situation I liked him so much but at the same time I do not want to beg him for this relationship..........hope you guys understand I am ready to sacrifice anything for him but if he is ready to accept me............? Does he loves me? and one more thing he came to India on 28th night we were together 28th,29th and it was pre- planed that he asked me to leave on 30th because he doesn't wanted meet his cousins and he does'nt wanted me to see by his cousins. He is returning back on 2nd of November but some where I feel may be he is there to meeting some other women I don't know It just came into my mind now. I really don t know what to do? I may be wrong Please anyone help me out .......may be I am over reacting for no reason I do not want to misunderstand I really want this relation ...... I need your advice friends.....
Thanks & regards
Niha
Thanks & regards
Niha
It sounds like you should have a secret affair.
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i suppose this thing will be solved.
it started in 2 november 2015...
it started in 2 november 2015...
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recycled ? running out of topics/posters ,, it happens in beautiful seasons ,,,
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Sweden, his feelings,upbringing and attitude, become Swedish 97%,
as the ICE climate of the country,where has grown up.
He is Indian in skin color,and not in Indian culture.-