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Jan 4, 2016 11:09 AM CST Our Purpose in Life
As I am embarking on the last chapter of my life, having dodged and survived two cancers and now declared very healthy and will live long, at least from my doctors and specialists, I can't help but ask myself deeper, "what truly am I here for?"

As a mother, I have raised four lovely children who all love me so much and seeing them raise their own children much the same way as I taught them, as my mother taught me, I am so grateful and thankful that I have to share this thoughts for anyone who is interested.

When we reach a certain point in life and know that anytime any moment, we are gone, it makes me think, what truly is our purpose in life? After reading so many books and learned so much in life, there are two great men that influenced me and with whom I learned so much that all my living principles are all evident of these virtues. I would love to share them with anyone, who is interested to know.

John F. Kennedy, said: "We must contribute in some way, to make things better."

Ralph Waldo Emerson went a little further and said: "The purpose in life is not to be happy, it is to be useful, honorable, compassionate. To have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well."

Thank you all for reading and I hope that you would share with me, what is your purpose in life. Your comments and or contributions are all appreciated.

Thank you.

Note: I am aware, this is an international site with all peoples of different beliefs, as well as none, different values, cultures and I do hope that we can all share our opinions on this one without causing any grief to anyone. Your thought on this question and share it with me and for all to read is highly appreciated.

Thank you so much.

Hoe we all have a joyful, fruitful and peaceful New Year ahead of us.
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Jan 4, 2016 11:16 AM CST Our Purpose in Life
Our purpose in life can be whatever we wish it to be. It is a very personal thing and to each their own.

I think the best question to ask is are you happy in your life. If you can say yes to that, then perhaps that is your purpose in life.

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Jan 4, 2016 11:18 AM CST Our Purpose in Life
I was reading a poem about death (sudden) and it brought me this kind of thinking.

I didn't ask to be born, and certainly know that I would not know when I die, but in between birth and death I know, there are some things I should and shouldn't do. Deeper in my line of thoughts are the questions that brings me to evaluate my life.

I don't have any regrets but I am positive I can do better, and that is why, I want to understand, why all these cruelties in life, why our world is full of negative energy and yet life is so short and precious? I am sure most of us ask this question, or am I the only one?
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Jan 4, 2016 11:20 AM CST Our Purpose in Life
Track16: Our purpose in life can be whatever we wish it to be. It is a very personal thing and to each their own.

I think the best question to ask is are you happy in your life. If you can say yes to that, then perhaps that is your purpose in life.


Track how nice of you to be here. Thanks for your contribution Track and I hope you had a very nice New year.

Of course, happiness. A very good purpose to live life, is to be happy. Track thank yo again.teddybear teddybear
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Jan 4, 2016 11:24 AM CST Our Purpose in Life
Track16: Our purpose in life can be whatever we wish it to be. It is a very personal thing and to each their own.

I think the best question to ask is are you happy in your life. If you can say yes to that, then perhaps that is your purpose in life.


Track did you read about Ralph Waldo Emerson?

Thanks Track.bouquet
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Jan 4, 2016 12:16 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
lindsyjones: Track did you read about Ralph Waldo Emerson?

Thanks Track.


Truthfully, no lol. I never done a lot of reading. Spent all my time with music.
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Jan 4, 2016 12:21 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
Track I love music so much, it is a very lonely world without it.

But here is Ralph's:




Ralph Waldo Emerson went a little further and said: "The purpose in life is not to be happy, it is to be useful, honorable, compassionate. To have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well."
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Jan 4, 2016 12:39 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
To make as meaningful as possible this life that has been given to us. To live in such a way that some part of us lives on.

Man makes history, woman is history. We all live for history or our lives are of no consequence. Whether that's the feats of man and the civilisation he builds, or the primary, eternal, maternal, plantlike and cultureless reproduction of the species which amounts to nothing less than life itself. Man is the world and woman is life.
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Jan 4, 2016 12:55 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
You've answered your own question lindsay, you've raised four beautiful children, influenced them in a positive way.. So they can I've the same to their children..
The love those children have for you will live on long after you die, keeping your spirit alive.

Now your purpose is to let your hair down and go crazy, so other people will also remember you long. After you die
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Jan 4, 2016 1:02 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
when your purpose is served in life on earth in god's eye's your time is up
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Jan 4, 2016 1:18 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
JustBrian
JustBrianJustBrianwarrensburg, New York USA61 Posts
life is the journey from Pampers to Depends... the person that makes it to the potty the most times in between wins!!!!
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Jan 4, 2016 1:23 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
purpose should now be to cease the causes that gave raise to your taking a suffering rebirth, the path is benefiting others
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Jan 4, 2016 1:30 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
TheRedSquirrel87: To make as meaningful as possible this life that has been given to us. To live in such a way that some part of us lives on.

Man makes history, woman is history. We all live for history or our lives are of no consequence. Whether that's the feats of man and the civilisation he builds, or the primary, eternal, maternal, plantlike and cultureless reproduction of the species which amounts to nothing less than life itself. Man is the world and woman is life.


Obs, somewhere in the labyrinth of your mangled thoughts, I always find your meaning hidden amidst confusing words. But first, why would it always end up between what is for man and what is for a woman?

Anyways, yes, life, as we know purposeless or not is still a life. But on the grandeur that was Rome and on the beauty that was Greece. What a wonderful life to all of us.

From the pains of the poor to the well indulged capriciousness of the rich. What a life. bouquet bouquet
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Jan 4, 2016 1:32 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
TheRedSquirrel87: To make as meaningful as possible this life that has been given to us. To live in such a way that some part of us lives on.

Man makes history, woman is history. We all live for history or our lives are of no consequence. Whether that's the feats of man and the civilisation he builds, or the primary, eternal, maternal, plantlike and cultureless reproduction of the species which amounts to nothing less than life itself. Man is the world and woman is life.


I do love that convenient and yet functional points you presented Obs. Man is the world and woman is the life, or both? What an original idea Obs, the fact that man is the builder and the woman as the object to fulfill for what he builds. Great Obs. I love that. Where man is out there to provide and woman is there to receive all that was built for her.

Awesome dear Obs. You are a genius as always..teddybear bouquet
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Jan 4, 2016 1:35 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
serena123: You've answered your own question lindsay, you've raised four beautiful children, influenced them in a positive way.. So they can I've the same to their children..
The love those children have for you will live on long after you die, keeping your spirit alive.

Now your purpose is to let your hair down and go crazy, so other people will also remember you long. After you die


Thank you Serene, I hope you and beautiful Tracy had a very nice Christmas and New Year.

Yes indeed. I can't ask for anything more Serene and I do consider myself amongst the lucky ones. If you think about how the world is in general, where there is no justification for the 80 percent have nots and the very few that lives this way, it is appalling sometimes and makes me think deeper, all the questions that go along that line.teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet

But I have to accept that it, how it is and the awareness to improve what is given to us.

Thanks Serene.teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet
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Jan 4, 2016 1:36 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
pedro27: when your purpose is served in life on earth in god's eye's your time is up


Thank you Pedro. That is a very interesting way to put it. I do hope that when my evaluation is done, it is not as to what I should have done more but that how I would have made it better.teddybear teddybear bouquet bouquet

Thanks Pedro.
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Jan 4, 2016 1:38 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
JustBrian: life is the journey from Pampers to Depends... the person that makes it to the potty the most times in between wins!!!!


Brian how are you my dear soul? How lovely of you to be here.

In between is a huge journey Brian that takes a lifetime for us to figure out. Some perhaps, never have to do anything while most of us have to do it in a minute by minute basis.bouquet bouquet
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Jan 4, 2016 1:39 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
robplum: purpose should now be to cease the causes that gave raise to your taking a suffering rebirth, the path is benefiting others


Awesome Rob. That is a very noble purpose. The objective of making others be the benefactors, that is very high and purposeful. I love it Rob..teddybear teddybear
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Jan 4, 2016 1:43 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
lindsyjones: Thank you Pedro. That is a very interesting way to put it. I do hope that when my evaluation is done, it is not as to what I should have done more but that how I would have made it better.

Thanks Pedro.


god is good!
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Jan 4, 2016 1:44 PM CST Our Purpose in Life
its about thought transformation yes, however its also about ceasing the causes by applying antidote's to our ill's.

Desire is root cause of our sufferings, take away our "I" takes away suffering within mind, path is benefiting other laugh
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