We used to be friends for years, sharing good and bad time, supporting each other in any situation. Suddenly my good friend decided to get engaged, and now it is just a matter of counting days before he gets married. He has been with me when I felt broken heart, when my boyfriend left me, when my boss in the office got angry with me, when my other friend spied on me ... he gave his shoulder to cry on.
Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him
LVKarlier: We used to be friends for years, sharing good and bad time, supporting each other in any situation. Suddenly my good friend decided to get engaged, and now it is just a matter of counting days before he gets married. He has been with me when I felt broken heart, when my boyfriend left me, when my boss in the office got angry with me, when my other friend spied on me ... he gave his shoulder to cry on.
Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him
You should have married him... Men don't like to be just friends and if he did all this for you may be he wanted you to look at him with different eyes... Missed the moment?
LVKarlier: We used to be friends for years, sharing good and bad time, supporting each other in any situation. Suddenly my good friend decided to get engaged, and now it is just a matter of counting days before he gets married. He has been with me when I felt broken heart, when my boyfriend left me, when my boss in the office got angry with me, when my other friend spied on me ... he gave his shoulder to cry on.
Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him
If you're a good friend of his, why aren't you happy for him?
LVKarlier: We used to be friends for years, sharing good and bad time, supporting each other in any situation. Suddenly my good friend decided to get engaged, and now it is just a matter of counting days before he gets married. He has been with me when I felt broken heart, when my boyfriend left me, when my boss in the office got angry with me, when my other friend spied on me ... he gave his shoulder to cry on.
Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him
He had the time to be there for you when you needed him.
Now he is going to have a different life when he gets married.
You're feeling him slip away probably because he wants you to realize that he can't be there at your beckon call everytime you need a shoulder to cry on.
He will be your friend. Just in a different way.
Best thing you could do is to let him see that you are happy for him.
LVKarlier: We used to be friends for years, sharing good and bad time, supporting each other in any situation. Suddenly my good friend decided to get engaged, and now it is just a matter of counting days before he gets married. He has been with me when I felt broken heart, when my boyfriend left me, when my boss in the office got angry with me, when my other friend spied on me ... he gave his shoulder to cry on.
Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him
It is normal that priorities change as life changes.
I do make time for my friends, but there is simply is less time when there is a new priority in someone's life - it's the way when I have a boyfriend as well as when a single friend gets a new partner.
LVKarlier: We used to be friends for years, sharing good and bad time, supporting each other in any situation. Suddenly my good friend decided to get engaged, and now it is just a matter of counting days before he gets married. He has been with me when I felt broken heart, when my boyfriend left me, when my boss in the office got angry with me, when my other friend spied on me ... he gave his shoulder to cry on.
Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him
yup, that the person you are super into is super into someone else.
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Slowly his attention shifted to her fiancee more and more, the time we used to hang out together reduced drastically. Although it doesn't truly mean that he will not be my friend anymore, however I already feel that I almost lost him