What do I say? How do I deal with it? ( Archived) (31)

Oct 2, 2016 3:39 PM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Hiya Soph wave I hope you decided to call her and I'm interested in hearing how it went if you did.
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Oct 2, 2016 9:23 PM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
KremaP: Call her Soph,
life is too short to be scared of the unknown...
thumbs up wave
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Oct 2, 2016 9:24 PM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 2 Polls 2,116 Posts
sophiasummer: I have never met my father.
My sister tracked him down after 50 years.
He died, he is buried in paupers grave.

I have never had family as such as my mothers brothers never had children.

A person contacted through his facebook my ex and said OMG she is my cousin.

She left her number.
I am scared, not sure and if I ring her what to say.

I have be a lone girl all my life.

Should I ring her?
She left a number.
Help

Soph
Good luck in what ever you choose.wine
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Oct 4, 2016 10:02 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
sergio09
sergio09sergio09Knoxville, Tennessee USA31 Threads 901 Posts
sophiasummer: I have never met my father.
My sister tracked him down after 50 years.
He died, he is buried in paupers grave.

I have never had family as such as my mothers brothers never had children.

A person contacted through his facebook my ex and said OMG she is my cousin.

She left her number.
I am scared, not sure and if I ring her what to say.

I have be a lone girl all my life.

I was raised in foster homes and had very little contact with my natural family. Since becoming a man, I have diligently searched for my family. In my case, it was a disaster. I have one sister which whom I have a good relationship. All the rest of my family members were liars and haters. If I had to do it all again, I wouldn't!!!!!!!!! Again...JMO



























Should I ring her?
She left a number.
Help

Soph
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Oct 6, 2016 3:12 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
In response to: I have never met my father.
My sister tracked him down after 50 years.
He died, he is buried in paupers grave.

I have never had family as such as my mothers brothers never had children.

A person contacted through his facebook my ex and said OMG she is my cousin.

She left her number.
I am scared, not sure and if I ring her what to say.

I have be a lone girl all my life.

Should I ring her?
She left a number.
Help

Soph
well you were away 5 days , how did it go??
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Oct 6, 2016 4:32 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
epirb: well you were away 5 days , how did it go??


It's obvious by her lack of reply that she is not the "full ticket".
banana
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Oct 6, 2016 4:54 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
epirb: well you were away 5 days , how did it go??



have not heard. thats ok thanks.
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Oct 6, 2016 5:10 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
thank you to everyone! for such beautiful thoughts, hoped so much, yet maybe its going to take time. :{

Thank you All such special people xxxx

Looking forward to a cousin contacting me.
handshake teddybear

If not
you still have me to deal with.

Soph


dancing
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Oct 6, 2016 5:13 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
One2note: It's obvious by her lack of reply that she is not the "full ticket".


moping
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Oct 7, 2016 3:48 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
@soph
That wasn't meant as a criticism, it just sometimes, your comments are very hard to understand.. confused comfort
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Oct 7, 2016 4:06 AM CST What do I say? How do I deal with it?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
That's OK must be some kind of a kiwi thing, I find that at times.
Hey, "Its A big world".

Still have not heard, maybe she is really busy.
handshake

magenta: I ask for nothing!
Dr. Frank-N-Furter: And you shall receive it, IN ABUNDANCE!


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