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Nov 3, 2016 4:52 PM CST Quit being a priest
UglyLittleToe
UglyLittleToeUglyLittleToeWilhelmshaven, Lower Saxony Germany1 Threads 25 Posts
Someone in my family just did. He`s 38 years old. Saturday he will move in here for a start and work on my farm.

I`m looking forward very much to having him here, but someway I can´t get rid of the feeling I have to watch over him. He`s extremely polite, selfless, completely innocent, as fit as a fiddle and almost as good looking as me (but only almost blushing).
My question is: would you let him make his own experiences without having a serious conversation beforehand?

Possibly I have to abandon this thread for a few hours. I´m waiting for a very old pig to wake up from an anaesthesia for an X-ray. sleep
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Nov 3, 2016 6:03 PM CST Quit being a priest
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
UglyLittleToe: Someone in my family just did. He`s 38 years old. Saturday he will move in here for a start and work on my farm.

I`m looking forward very much to having him here, but someway I can´t get rid of the feeling I have to watch over him. He`s extremely polite, selfless, completely innocent, as fit as a fiddle and almost as good looking as me (but only almost ).
My question is: would you let him make his own experiences without having a serious conversation beforehand?

Possibly I have to abandon this thread for a few hours. I´m waiting for a very old pig to wake up from an anaesthesia for an X-ray.


You mean about the birds and the bees? or about pig farming?confused
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Nov 3, 2016 6:49 PM CST Quit being a priest
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
UglyLittleToe: Someone in my family just did. He`s 38 years old. Saturday he will move in here for a start and work on my farm.

I`m looking forward very much to having him here, but someway I can´t get rid of the feeling I have to watch over him. He`s extremely polite, selfless, completely innocent, as fit as a fiddle and almost as good looking as me (but only almost ).
My question is: would you let him make his own experiences without having a serious conversation beforehand?

Possibly I have to abandon this thread for a few hours. I´m waiting for a very old pig to wake up from an anaesthesia for an X-ray.




Did you see the movie Saturday Night Fever? In the movie, John Travolta's brother gives up the priesthood. The mother goes nuts that her son gave up being a priest and thinks she will forever be damned.

Tony (Travolta) wants to protect his brother but the brother tries to make Tony understand that he knows all about women and nightlife.

Leave your brother alone. What he will learn the hard way is a lesson learned forever.

Take your brother out to a nightclub. You'll be surprised how well he responds to the environment.dancing dog
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Nov 3, 2016 10:45 PM CST Quit being a priest
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
UglyLittleToe: Someone in my family just did. He`s 38 years old. Saturday he will move in here for a start and work on my farm.

I`m looking forward very much to having him here, but someway I can´t get rid of the feeling I have to watch over him. He`s extremely polite, selfless, completely innocent, as fit as a fiddle and almost as good looking as me (but only almost ).
My question is: would you let him make his own experiences without having a serious conversation beforehand?

Possibly I have to abandon this thread for a few hours. I´m waiting for a very old pig to wake up from an anaesthesia for an X-ray.



Why did he quit?




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Nov 4, 2016 5:13 AM CST Quit being a priest
UglyLittleToe
UglyLittleToeUglyLittleToeWilhelmshaven, Lower Saxony Germany1 Threads 25 Posts
Lonely1: You mean about the birds and the bees? or about pig farming?

Lonely1 laugh
Yep, about the birds and the bees, but in an appropriate way.

I´m not a pig farmer. I only give some tortured creatures a last good home.
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Nov 4, 2016 5:18 AM CST Quit being a priest
UglyLittleToe
UglyLittleToeUglyLittleToeWilhelmshaven, Lower Saxony Germany1 Threads 25 Posts
secretagent09: Did you see the movie Saturday Night Fever? In the movie, John Travolta's brother gives up the priesthood. The mother goes nuts that her son gave up being a priest and thinks she will forever be damned.

Tony (Travolta) wants to protect his brother but the brother tries to make Tony understand that he knows all about women and nightlife.

Leave your brother alone. What he will learn the hard way is a lesson learned forever.

Take your brother out to a nightclub. You'll be surprised how well he responds to the environment.


Thank you for your advice, Secretagent09 handshake , no I didn´t see the movie. I only know the song. I will take him out, although I´m a bit rusty laugh
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Nov 4, 2016 6:05 AM CST Quit being a priest
UglyLittleToe
UglyLittleToeUglyLittleToeWilhelmshaven, Lower Saxony Germany1 Threads 25 Posts
lifeisadream: Why did he quit?

Hello lifeisadream, of course it has been a long process, but in short he quitted because he couldn´t stand the unnatural life. He expressed himself differently though. He meant that he wants an authentic life or that the life as a catholic priest didn´t feel like an authentic life, that the church or the clerical society is like a parallel society that does not really touch the actual society and how weird it therefore was for him to give as a single man without children or partner or existential problems advice to the members of his community.
The celibacy was like to walk a tightrope, and it needs a lot of patience and strength, but now he "jumped off of that rope", he said.

He`s suspended now, waiting for his laicization. It can take months or years. Lol or actually not lol, but the opposite. When his payments were stopped the clerical health insurance sent our parents papers with the note they sent them to their address because he is deceased. But my brother told me he heard of something like that before thumbs down

But first and foremost he will get a cordial welcome here tomorrow, and a lot of work laugh
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Nov 4, 2016 6:16 AM CST Quit being a priest
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Whos the ugly old pig? I hope youre not refering to your alter ego.rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 4, 2016 6:45 AM CST Quit being a priest
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
UglyLittleToe: Someone in my family just did. He`s 38 years old. Saturday he will move in here for a start and work on my farm.

I`m looking forward very much to having him here, but someway I can´t get rid of the feeling I have to watch over him. He`s extremely polite, selfless, completely innocent, as fit as a fiddle and almost as good looking as me (but only almost ).
My question is: would you let him make his own experiences without having a serious conversation beforehand?

Possibly I have to abandon this thread for a few hours. I´m waiting for a very old pig to wake up from an anaesthesia for an X-ray.



Yeah, that's certainly the most rational explanation.....tripping balls?
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Nov 4, 2016 6:04 PM CST Quit being a priest
lifeisadream
lifeisadreamlifeisadreamMexi Go, Mexico State Mexico156 Threads 20 Polls 16,713 Posts
UglyLittleToe: Hello lifeisadream, of course it has been a long process, but in short he quitted because he couldn´t stand the unnatural life. He expressed himself differently though. He meant that he wants an authentic life or that the life as a catholic priest didn´t feel like an authentic life, that the church or the clerical society is like a parallel society that does not really touch the actual society and how weird it therefore was for him to give as a single man without children or partner or existential problems advice to the members of his community.
The celibacy was like to walk a tightrope, and it needs a lot of patience and strength, but now he "jumped off of that rope", he said.

He`s suspended now, waiting for his laicization. It can take months or years. Lol or actually not lol, but the opposite. When his payments were stopped the clerical health insurance sent our parents papers with the note they sent them to their address because he is deceased. But my brother told me he heard of something like that before

But first and foremost he will get a cordial welcome here tomorrow, and a lot of work


"..He meant that he wants an authentic life or that the life as a catholic priest didn´t feel like an authentic life, that the church or the clerical society is like a parallel society that does not really touch the actual society and how weird it therefore was for him to give as a single man without children or partner or existential problems advice to the members of his community.
The celibacy was like to walk a tightrope, and it needs a lot of patience and strength, but now he "jumped off of that rope", he said."

He should have known that better before entering the Priesthood.

Should not?


The best to him, you and the pig.




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Nov 6, 2016 4:24 AM CST Quit being a priest
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Seems the little pig has escaped his pen.! rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 8, 2016 4:54 PM CST Quit being a priest
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
He probably knows far more than you're giving him credit for - particularly if he's going on as good looking as you !

Kinda worries me though ... what YOU gonna getta up to with that big ole pig when she wakes up ...



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