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Feb 1, 2017 5:32 PM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
JamesRobo
JamesRoboJamesRoboSearcy, Arkansas USA1 Threads 1 Posts
So I'm completely new at this whole internet date site thing. I've been single for a VERY long time. Raising kids alone, job, standards for what I'm expecting but haven't found in anyone thus far) All I've heard is horror stories about attempting such a feat as meeting someone who is real & who they turn out to be later. So it makes me wonder: do legitimate relationships happen as a result of sites like this one? I'm talking, two ppl meeting, talking at first, then texting, then it becomes a real relationship after its been established that both ppl are who they portray themselves to be? They actually make one on one contact & begin their journey together? Do they actually become a real life couple as if they had met in day to day life?
I'm asking because I want to know if these things happen (successfully) or are sites like these a waste of time? I'm genuinely interested in feedback on this. Thanks.
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Feb 1, 2017 5:37 PM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
JamesRobo: So I'm completely new at this whole internet date site thing. I've been single for a VERY long time. Raising kids alone, job, standards for what I'm expecting but haven't found in anyone thus far) All I've heard is horror stories about attempting such a feat as meeting someone who is real & who they turn out to be later. So it makes me wonder: do legitimate relationships happen as a result of sites like this one? I'm talking, two ppl meeting, talking at first, then texting, then it becomes a real relationship after its been established that both ppl are who they portray themselves to be? They actually make one on one contact & begin their journey together? Do they actually become a real life couple as if they had met in day to day life?
I'm asking because I want to know if these things happen (successfully) or are sites like these a waste of time? I'm genuinely interested in feedback on this. Thanks.



Yes that can, and does happen.

But both people have to be realistic from the beginning.

Don't chat to someone from Thailand unless you are willing to move to Thailand, or even the other side of your own country if it is unrealistic.

Sorry for taking the less romantic side, I'm sure somebody will give you the whole flowers and chocolate version too laugh
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Feb 1, 2017 7:22 PM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
Kattte
KattteKattteVancouver, British Columbia Canada759 Posts
"Legitimate"????laugh Hell, why not use the word "legal"....
Get what you've been missing most of your life; settle for an 'illicit', 'illegal' relationship and enjoy the many sins of Life! You'll be saying "Yeehaa!" sooner .rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 1, 2017 8:25 PM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
Suspenders
SuspendersSuspendersSomewhere, Buenos Aires Argentina1 Threads 75 Posts
Yes they do if you have TIME, MONEY and COMMON SENSE to pick wisely.
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Feb 2, 2017 11:11 AM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
cubcougar
cubcougarcubcougarSanta Rosa, California USA9 Threads 59 Posts
Suspenders: Yes they do if you have TIME, MONEY and COMMON SENSE to pick wisely.



Donald Trump has no problems in his three marriages ... time .. money ... I dunno about sense ... but time and money are big on getting that trophy wife.

Relationships that are healthy come from inside of you .. you pick them dude. You have a string of sick relationships like Donald it is because you are sick.

How to get healthy once you know you are sick ...

Here is a video on that noise.

Duck Disease

Otherwise it is a numbers game ... go see a LOT of women ... one of them will click and along the way you are going to meet a lot of messed up women.

I dated a few Chinese (here 10 months on a green card) and they are really MESSED up ... all money money money and no spiritual sense and no common sense in the world.

Must be that Commie childhood they got.

sumbuddie wear blind sea

comfort
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Feb 3, 2017 9:33 AM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
MiriamJuarez
MiriamJuarezMiriamJuarezHarrold, Texas USA1 Posts
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Feb 3, 2017 10:45 AM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
JamesRobo: So I'm completely new at this whole internet date site thing. I've been single for a VERY long time. Raising kids alone, job, standards for what I'm expecting but haven't found in anyone thus far) All I've heard is horror stories about attempting such a feat as meeting someone who is real & who they turn out to be later. So it makes me wonder: do legitimate relationships happen as a result of sites like this one? I'm talking, two ppl meeting, talking at first, then texting, then it becomes a real relationship after its been established that both ppl are who they portray themselves to be? They actually make one on one contact & begin their journey together? Do they actually become a real life couple as if they had met in day to day life?
I'm asking because I want to know if these things happen (successfully) or are sites like these a waste of time? I'm genuinely interested in feedback on this. Thanks.


Well:-
No. 1:- I met my soulmate and best friend on a local site like this here by me
No. 2:- I met a real friend on this site, and we r moving towards good friends, it has been a couple of years now.

So yes, If u put real effort in, things might just happen !!!
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Feb 3, 2017 3:23 PM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
If you'd like a little more control over the replies James, on the blogs you can removed comments.
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Feb 3, 2017 4:15 PM CST Do legitimate relationships stem from sites like this one?
Demi7
Demi7Demi7Bad Kreuznach, Rhineland-Palatinate Germany80 Posts
JamesRobo: So I'm completely new at this whole internet date site thing. I've been single for a VERY long time. Raising kids alone, job, standards for what I'm expecting but haven't found in anyone thus far) All I've heard is horror stories about attempting such a feat as meeting someone who is real & who they turn out to be later. So it makes me wonder: do legitimate relationships happen as a result of sites like this one? I'm talking, two ppl meeting, talking at first, then texting, then it becomes a real relationship after its been established that both ppl are who they portray themselves to be? They actually make one on one contact & begin their journey together? Do they actually become a real life couple as if they had met in day to day life?
I'm asking because I want to know if these things happen (successfully) or are sites like these a waste of time? I'm genuinely interested in feedback on this. Thanks.

ok , if you are able to find people here that are in your area and you can meet them face to face it could be a chance. BUT so far , what I have seen there are many scammers. How can you trust someone that is far away? How should that work out. Those questions you must answer for yourself. I find it worthless if one is sitting inside the USA to even talk to someone that is in a different Countrie. I believe men get ripped off by women just like the other way around. So never give a dime to anyone. That is always a red flag, Asking for phone cards or money or to trasnfer money or want to send something to you. Never do that. Before you met a person face to face and get to know them and you can spend time with the person ...careful!
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