Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Do u have plans for ur future ?
We all have to a certain extent, but r too scared to reveal them in case something happens to derail them. It is a sad state of affairs if u can't even plan for the future anymore.
We learn to plan properly, catering for anything possibly going wrong, and a way round it, and then we still fall flat on our faces. Humans r not always so predictable.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: I have two adult sons myself and still don't make certain plans anymore too far in the future .I like to do certain spontaneously.
Now on that, we agree ! I'm too very spontaneous ! Within a day, I will change my mind very often on the same subject, as I'm thinking ahead of possibilities involved. Some say that I lie, but I'm one of the most honest people that u'll find, except that I will answer for that moment, not in a week's time. I know this guy at work, and he's in love with me, but makes plans for months ahead, and invariably by that time, I have come up with something else to do. I tend to live in the moment, but still plan for the future knowing myself and my kids.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bristol4You: I don't plan, I do, if I am busy doing, then I don't need any plans.
I do in an emergency, but do take a breather before release, and check what I've done. I'm mostly like this afternoon pleasantly surprised when it works first time. U feel pound and surprised at the same time ?
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We all have to a certain extent, but r too scared to reveal them in case something happens to derail them. It is a sad state of affairs if u can't even plan for the future anymore.
We learn to plan properly, catering for anything possibly going wrong, and a way round it, and then we still fall flat on our faces. Humans r not always so predictable.
Hope the plans for ur future realizes !