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Mar 10, 2018 9:15 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
Let_Us
Let_UsLet_UsAnaheim, California USA9 Threads 1,017 Posts
KremaP: People on forums can't hide for long what they really are...plus, minus 15%...and I'm generous...
If you pay attention and not being too fast on making assumptions you can be surprised in a bad or nice way...
Opinions on different subjects can give a pretty wholesome picture of what you can expect from a certain person, with very, very few exceptions...



As always, KP, a perceptive and balanced contribution. applause And you say it in MANY FEWER words, than I do. Which is ANOTHER Plus! handshake hug cheers bouquet
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Mar 10, 2018 9:16 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
annaroach: Well i did say ,,"most likely" which to me means i don't know for sure.
So do you believe that you are getting the real person, online?
Real?
Parts and varied aspects more like.
These forums give insights into a person's character, stances, etc.
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Mar 10, 2018 9:16 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
Krinka
KrinkaKrinkaAtlanta, Georgia USA1 Threads 231 Posts
annaroach: I would go with a friendly start, as we can't bring aggro to people that we don't know at all
and i suppose if we have low expectations, things can only get better , win , win..
Yeah, i might have to give a blind date a chance,,

Good luck to you , lovely lady


Thank you. smile

You, too. cheers
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Mar 10, 2018 9:23 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
chris27292729: Very unlikely to be any different from the way, they interact in this site.
JMO.



I think that you would be the same Chris
and that is good,, so would i.

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Mar 10, 2018 9:25 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
Geronimolion
GeronimolionGeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
Posted by DeeDee;
Stay away from ring leaders and gang members.
If they are like this on here they are like this in real life.
People who stand on their own two feet here are not hard to spot
Watch those for a while.
If you like them...pm....then start from there.

Dont waste your time on idiots, Anna...your too classy and ladylike for that.

Fully agree with this opinion, i would take this as one of the best advice i saw here.
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Mar 10, 2018 9:27 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Let_Us: As always, KP, a perceptive and balanced contribution. And you say it in MANY FEWER words, than I do. Which is ANOTHER Plus!




laugh

I'm just too inpatient to write long posts...

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Mar 10, 2018 9:37 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
Hi Anna,

I find some of the schtuff you see on the forums is a lot of bravado and can be misleading.

It's only when you have contact behind the scenes, that their true character emerges.

Just in my experiences with online dating sites.

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Mar 10, 2018 9:42 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Hi Anna,

I find some of the schtuff you see on the forums is a lot of bravado and can be misleading.

It's only when you have contact behind the scenes, that their true character emerges.

Just in my experiences with online dating sites.


Hi Berry,,
That is what i'm beginning to think as well,
It is the bravado that is misleading ,
Thank you for that , it makes sense, when you put it like that.
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Mar 10, 2018 9:44 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Geronimolion: Posted by DeeDee;
Stay away from ring leaders and gang members.
If they are like this on here they are like this in real life.
People who stand on their own two feet here are not hard to spot
Watch those for a while.
If you like them...pm....then start from there.

Dont waste your time on idiots, Anna...your too classy and ladylike for that.

Fully agree with this opinion, i would take this as one of the best advice i saw here.



Yes , Deedee, says it like it is, she has a good head on her shoulderswave
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Mar 10, 2018 9:55 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
It very much depends on what you want to see in a certain person...
You can be easily mislead by your own imagination and expectations and that is not the person's in question fault...
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Mar 10, 2018 10:08 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
KremaP: It very much depends on what you want to see in a certain person...
You can be easily mislead by your own imagination and expectations and that is not the person's in question fault...


That may be.....though both parties will only have a clearer picture once communications are taken offline.

Forums are not ideal places to judge a person's true character IMO.
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Mar 10, 2018 10:25 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
BerrySmoothie: That may be.....though both parties will only have a clearer picture once communications are taken offline.

Forums are not ideal places to judge a person's true character IMO.




I have seen quite the opposite and done by people who swear they are actually different in REAL life...
Internet and people's interactions on it are a part of their REAL life...
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Mar 10, 2018 10:42 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
as i said to you Anna.....theres the cyber me.....and the real me....do you rember that......????.....the 2 are compleaty diffrent.....the cyber is a devil..........devil .but the real person is a deep sensertive loving. person......so if i.m being judged on my comments.....and others......perhaps then, thats the stumberling block.......we should all think about.........??????
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Mar 10, 2018 10:45 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
KremaP: I have seen quite the opposite and done by people who swear they are actually different in REAL life...
Internet and people's interactions on it are a part of their REAL life...


Then those people are deluded.

Virtual reality is a far cry from real life.
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Mar 10, 2018 10:56 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
BerrySmoothie: Then those people are deluded.

Virtual reality is a far cry from real life.




Then this place is full with schizophrenics...
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Mar 10, 2018 10:59 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
truheart1941: as i said to you Anna.....theres the cyber me.....and the real me....do you rember that......????.....the 2 are compleaty diffrent.....the cyber is a devil.......... .but the real person is a deep sensertive loving. person......so if i.m being judged on my comments.....and others......perhaps then, thats the stumberling block.......we should all think about.........??????
You are incorrect P.
Perhaps you should give people more credit for what they can see in you here on CS.
That caring, sensitive, moral man clearly shows through in your postings. tip hat
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Mar 10, 2018 11:01 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
KremaP: Then this place is full with schizophrenics...
...seems that way.....oh dear....what a waste of mny time.......crying blues moping moping moping ......bye....wave wave ..all.
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Mar 10, 2018 11:06 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
BerrySmoothie
BerrySmoothieBerrySmoothieMy Retreat, Auckland New Zealand3 Threads 4,733 Posts
KremaP: Then this place is full with schizophrenics...


I wouldn't go that far....uh oh

Schizophrenia is a serious mental disorder.

Some people have a tendency to "hide" or "overstate" their personality traits in a virtual life.

You can't beat real life for revealing all......in more ways than one....grin
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Mar 10, 2018 11:08 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
truheart1941: as i said to you Anna.....theres the cyber me.....and the real me....do you rember that......????.....the 2 are compleaty diffrent.....the cyber is a devil.......... .but the real person is a deep sensertive loving. person......so if i.m being judged on my comments.....and others......perhaps then, thats the stumberling block.......we should all think about.........??????



I do remember Pete, and i believe you, and i'm quite sure you
are loving and sensitive , i won't judge you for one.heart beating teddybear angel hug

Lubs you Pete! xx
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Mar 10, 2018 11:18 AM CST Does Chatting On The Forums Count
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
BerrySmoothie: I wouldn't go that far....

Schizophrenia is a serious mental disorder.

Some people have a tendency to "hide" or "overstate" their personality traits in a virtual life.

You can't beat real life for revealing all......in more ways than one....




That was a joke Berry,
and yet it's not very difficult to spot the people who overstate or hide their personality traits...that's what I meant all along... handshake
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