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May 11, 2018 5:46 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
How do you like compliments in general?
What is the greatest compliment you have been given?
Do you get too many compliments?
Ladies do you get a spring in your step, when a man gives you a great compliment on something about you and something he does not see in many other women?
Could you imagine life without compliments…the giving and receiving of them?
Ladies – if you get a new hair cut, wear a new pair of shoes, wear a new shade of lipstick etc…would you expect to get compliments and feel a little shocked if you had no compliments and nobody noticed the changes you had made?
Do you ever take offense to compliments and react negatively?
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May 11, 2018 6:01 PM CST Compliments
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
LeeCharming: How do you like compliments in general? I like them as long as they're sincere

What is the greatest compliment you have been given? I don't remember

Do you get too many compliments? I don't think so

Ladies do you get a spring in your step, when a man gives you a great compliment on something about you and something he does not see in many other women? yes

Could you imagine life without compliments…the giving and receiving of them? I dunno....

Ladies – if you get a new hair cut, wear a new pair of shoes, wear a new shade of lipstick etc…would you expect to get compliments and feel a little shocked if you had no compliments and nobody noticed the changes you had made? No

Do you ever take offense to compliments and react negatively? No
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May 11, 2018 6:29 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
M4 - your reply to my question - How do you like compliments in general? I like them as long as they're sincere

My reply - How do you know if they are sincere? Would you think they would not be sincere? Do you associate a compliment from a bad guy, would men that all guys, who use the same compliment would have the same intentions as the bad guy? Word association and negative response...Do always follow your senses, because they can be wrong a lot of the time and fool into the wrong way of think...judging all by the actions of a few
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May 11, 2018 6:45 PM CST Compliments
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
No and yes...I can tell by my gut feeling and whats being said...my gut never lets me down....my mind/ego has a habit of fooling me but never my gut...my ego will use associations but never my gut/center and I can tell which one is which.....beer
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May 11, 2018 6:48 PM CST Compliments
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
If meaningful and sincere I appreciate their kindness but in saying that typed words can be to try and stroke some ones ego I'm not in to ego so when someone in the real world gives me compliments I'm able to see them as genuine.

When speaking on the phone I'm also able to hear whether it's just bs or genuine I can read a person like the back of my hand when speaking on the phone ones tone of voice tell's me just as much as standing face to face in the flesh.

I don't need my ego stroked so yes I can live the rest of my life with out compliments I give out many many compliments for nothing in return many will give out only wanting to receive back.
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May 11, 2018 6:53 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
M4_Mischief: No and yes...I can tell by my gut feeling and whats being said...my gut never lets me down....my mind/ego has a habit of fooling me but never my gut...my ego will use associations but never my gut/center and I can tell which one is which.....
Online and on this site...a fair number of women had judged me very harshly and I have now proven them to be wrong...this is why I say, that you can't always go with your gut feeling and point the finger, because you won't make many friends if you always do that and the chances are, that you will be wrong...
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May 11, 2018 6:56 PM CST Compliments
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
You haven't proven any thing and let's face it you can be bloody rude and pompous at the best of times.

I'm no saint but I will be the first to apologise when I feel I'm in the wrong.

I'm still waiting on your apology but if you did apologise it wouldn't mean anything because you should of said sorry long ago.
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May 11, 2018 7:00 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mercedes_00: You haven't proven any thing and let's face it you can be bloody rude and pompous at the best of times.

I'm no saint but I will be the first to apologise when I feel I'm in the wrong.

I'm still waiting on your apology but if you did apologise it wouldn't mean anything because you should of said sorry long ago.

Merc see videopointing
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May 11, 2018 7:17 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Maybe most people are judged too quickly online? I have changed my opinions of a few folks and speaking to one on a regular basis...we were not on good terms to begin with, but now we have mutual respect and complimentary of each other...

Asking me to apologise, but not offer one yourself...That's not the way I do things..I don't need any closure, because I'm not holding onto any negative feelings and not into high drama
professor

Either you like me or dunno
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May 11, 2018 7:43 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts

giggle gotta go joy cartwheel
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May 11, 2018 7:46 PM CST Compliments
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
I like that song but I don't agree with the words.

I don't want perfect because I'm far from perfect if I was to want anything in a guy it would be down to earth no bs just bloody be real it doesn't cost anything to be real.
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May 11, 2018 7:47 PM CST Compliments
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Mercedes_00: I like that song but I don't agree with the words.

I don't want perfect because I'm far from perfect if I was to want anything in a guy it would be down to earth no bs just bloody be real it doesn't cost anything to be real.
Was in regard to that perfect song ^^^^^^
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May 11, 2018 8:04 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mercedes_00: I like that song but I don't agree with the words.

I don't want perfect because I'm far from perfect if I was to want anything in a guy it would be down to earth no bs just bloody be real it doesn't cost anything to be real.
I think Both song are perfectgrin

From a decent guys point of view - I always want a woman to be real, but may are not online...some hold onto too many negative feelings from previous relationships and for far too long and never heal...I like a woman, that can heal and know the difference, between a good man and a bad one....A woman, who is not perfect, because perfection breeds vanity and narcissism, a woman who has a good heart and a mostly positive mind...
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May 11, 2018 8:08 PM CST Compliments
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
LeeCharming: I think Both song are perfect

From a decent guys point of view - I always want a woman to be real, but may are not online...some hold onto too many negative feelings from previous relationships and for far too long and never heal...I like a woman, that can heal and know the difference, between a good man and a bad one....A woman, who is not perfect, because perfection breeds vanity and narcissism, a woman who has a good heart and a mostly positive mind...
Everyone has a past but if a guy gives a woman good reason to not trust him it's because of he's actions toward her not because of her past.

Players use that excuse when they've been caught out.
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May 11, 2018 8:18 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mercedes_00: Everyone has a past but if a guy gives a woman good reason to not trust him it's because of he's actions toward her not because of her past.

Players use that excuse when they've been caught out.
I think you misunderstand me...I was talking about women, who have a lot of mental baggage and the way, that they label all potential men, that they encounter to have the same motives as their exe may have had? Men can't be al; put into one box and labelled as the same...we are all different, we think differently, are back grounds are different, our up bringings are different, our interests are different, our attitudes are different...on and on...men are not all the same
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May 11, 2018 8:23 PM CST Compliments
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
Mercedes_00: Everyone has a past but if a guy gives a woman good reason to not trust him it's because of he's actions toward her not because of her past.

Players use that excuse when they've been caught out.
In my case lack of action laugh
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May 11, 2018 8:33 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
LeeCharming: Do you call it the thrill of the chase in Australia?
Or mind games?
Or playing hard to get?
Chase - edit
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May 11, 2018 8:42 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mercedes_00: I can't speak for them I have no clue what they want.

I know they want a piece of va*ina but apart from that unless they respect me enough to confide in me with the truth I don't have the answers.
Firstly you say you have no idea what they want, but you go onto say, that you know what they want? You are prejudging, but why? some might be genuine? How do you findout? You can always block the unsuitableswink
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May 11, 2018 9:36 PM CST Compliments
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mercedes_00: Me too that's why I no longer get my hopes up guy's here don't think like that well if they do they've already settled down.
You say this a lot, but you prejudge every guy, before you know popcorn popcorn popcorn
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May 11, 2018 11:23 PM CST Compliments
rainbowdream2017
rainbowdream2017rainbowdream2017Melbourne, Victoria Australia13 Threads 1 Polls 2,486 Posts
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