Do u miss any of ur old b/f's or g/f's ? (45)
Waste of time waste of head space to do anything like that
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Sure I miss all of my ex's, I hope they're happy and doing well in life.
Would I go back? nah I dont think so, do I want to reconnect? not in an intimate way. Do I stay in touch with them? Well, I dont think its helpful for them to move forward my being in the background, but some like to stay in touch every so often and thats nice.
Would I go back? nah I dont think so, do I want to reconnect? not in an intimate way. Do I stay in touch with them? Well, I dont think its helpful for them to move forward my being in the background, but some like to stay in touch every so often and thats nice.
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pat8lanips: Sure I miss all of my ex's, I hope they're happy and doing well in life.
Would I go back? nah I dont think so, do I want to reconnect? not in an intimate way. Do I stay in touch with them? Well, I dont think its helpful for them to move forward my being in the background, but some like to stay in touch every so often and thats nice.
I miss some of the good points in some of them.Would I go back? nah I dont think so, do I want to reconnect? not in an intimate way. Do I stay in touch with them? Well, I dont think its helpful for them to move forward my being in the background, but some like to stay in touch every so often and thats nice.
It's like going up a step ladder:-
If u step a step twice, u will trip, or if u skip a step, u will stretch some muscles, so that u remember the attempt.
We r supposed to learn, but not many do.
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Yeah I'll get real here and say, we always learn but sometimes dont want to admit we did. Each partner teaches us something about ourselves and others, and so when we're 86 years old and dont know what day it is, we're the perfect versions of ourselves and ready for a partner.
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pat8lanips: Yeah I'll get real here and say, we always learn but sometimes dont want to admit we did. Each partner teaches us something about ourselves and others, and so when we're 86 years old and dont know what day it is, we're the perfect versions of ourselves and ready for a partner.
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Yeah mee too Snooky, my cut off age is 84...
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In my young and crazy olden days I never really had what are boyfriends they were considered only friends.
Back then I was way too busy in getting an education so I didn't date.Do I miss the guy friends heck no.
When I went to one of the towns that I grew up in and met one of the guys I was surprised that they remembered me and the goofy stuff we'd do when young.Those were the good days I won't ever forget.
Back then I was way too busy in getting an education so I didn't date.Do I miss the guy friends heck no.
When I went to one of the towns that I grew up in and met one of the guys I was surprised that they remembered me and the goofy stuff we'd do when young.Those were the good days I won't ever forget.
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pat8lanips: Yeah mee too Snooky, my cut off age is 84...
Lol. Mine is 54.------ This thread is Archived ------
Well, you've got 6 years to convince me...
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pat8lanips: Well, you've got 6 years to convince me...
Ur 5 years younger than me, but ur funny.------ This thread is Archived ------
NO..NO...NO AND NOOOOOOOOOOO AND I SAY NO
I DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST
I have moved on
I DON'T LIVE IN THE PAST I have moved on
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pat8lanips: Yeah I'll get real here and say, we always learn but sometimes dont want to admit we did. Each partner teaches us something about ourselves and others, and so when we're 86 years old and dont know what day it is, we're the perfect versions of ourselves and ready for a partner.
. Brilliant !!!------ This thread is Archived ------
No matter how it ended I don't hold any negative feeling towards my ex-s...
Even in the worse relationship there have been times of happiness and we can not dismiss that just because it's over...
No, I don't miss anyone who is out of my life, I live today and look forward to the future...
Even in the worse relationship there have been times of happiness and we can not dismiss that just because it's over...
No, I don't miss anyone who is out of my life, I live today and look forward to the future...
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pKrema: No matter how it ended I don't hold any negative feeling towards my ex-s...
Even in the worse relationship there have been times of happiness and we can not dismiss that just because it's over...
No, I don't miss anyone who is out of my life, I live today and look forward to the future...
You could teach a lot of women on here, how to move on from negative thoughts and feelings from previous relationships...some never heal from their wounds and never seek help? They lash out and label all men as the same, instead of understanding, that many men are good and it's not our fault that these women chose a bad guy, a nasty guy, a selfish guy, an abusive guy etc.Even in the worse relationship there have been times of happiness and we can not dismiss that just because it's over...
No, I don't miss anyone who is out of my life, I live today and look forward to the future...
You seem to be very level headed and mature in your posts...I don't see you holding onto negativity and a lot of women could follow you good example
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LeeCharming: You could teach a lot of women on here, how to move on from negative thoughts and feelings from previous relationships...some never heal from their wounds and never seek help? They lash out and label all men as the same, instead of understanding, that many men are good and it's not our fault that these women chose a bad guy, a nasty guy, a selfish guy, an abusive guy etc.
You seem to be very level headed and mature in your posts...I don't see you holding onto negativity and a lot of women could follow you good example
Thank you Lee, even if some women will not only disagree but call be an ugly person too... You seem to be very level headed and mature in your posts...I don't see you holding onto negativity and a lot of women could follow you good example
We do tend to forget about the other one, the way we feel becomes the only possible feeling and what's going on in your man/woman's heart isn't something you really consider...
We want to justify our own pain and care less for the other as if they are incapable of going through the same...
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pKrema: Thank you Lee, even if some women will not only disagree but call be an ugly person too...
We do tend to forget about the other one, the way we feel becomes the only possible feeling and what's going on in your man/woman's heart isn't something you really consider...
We want to justify our own pain and care less for the other as if they are incapable of going through the same...
I don't like victimhood mentality, attention seeking, drama seeking and the claims, that a woman can do no wrong and it's was all a man's fault, that the relationship did not workout...Many women have to take accountability for their bad choices and why they chose the wrong men or they will repeat the process again and again....maybe some just don't know what a good man is, because of not having positive male role models growing up, so they have nothing to go by, so maybe they just go for looks and money?We do tend to forget about the other one, the way we feel becomes the only possible feeling and what's going on in your man/woman's heart isn't something you really consider...
We want to justify our own pain and care less for the other as if they are incapable of going through the same...
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pKrema: Sounds great! IF ONLY everyone was capable of handling things the way you say you do. By the way...you look resplendent!
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lookn2share: pKrema: Sounds great! IF ONLY everyone was capable of handling things the way you say you do. By the way...you look resplendent!
I am guilty Lookn, it takes time to realise all that...
It's so easy to slip back into an old, destructive behaviour if you're not careful...
Selflessness is difficult to achieve when people are born with the attitude of a great importance...
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pKrema: When your country starts 'cloning'...please send me one of you!
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But do u miss any of them ?
There must have been something attractive, else u would never have had them ?
Some lasted for short periods and others much longer !
Maybe u had forgotten some, while others were memorable ?
Try to refresh ur memory on the good ones ?