Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
ysabeljhen: Snook sitting here on my couch gave me BIG SIGH upon reading your thread.Let me think....it has been more or less 15 years single status .Between those years there were suitors but wasnt really serious to them.I tend to be very careful on choosing already.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
galrads: I’ve been searching off and on fir near 16 years. Had several strong and intimate relations now and then in that time. Most ended well, one didn’t.
I’m less active searching now.
Guys, do u realise we r getting old....while being alone...where we could have shared it....
I have had relationships in the last 27 years, but none I wanted a permanent relationship with....it was really just release....and not worth it at all, as I have found out since the last one in 2006.....I prefer my own company, till I find the right one....and he must be very special indeed.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
ysabeljhen: Thats true Snook. Sometimes I am happy of my independency becausè I don't ask anyone's permission to do that and this.But as we age cant avoid to think of that someone to grow old with.
Yeh...I like the idea, of sitting on the porch with someone I love, talking about anything and everything....and growing old together....
tor the older woman perhaps longer ,, as looks may fade......the inportant thing is ......the over whelming smell of used kipper boxes.....when laying in bed.........no ammount of soap/water....or body sprays......can get rid of that smell.......
truheart1941: tor the older woman perhaps longer ,, as looks may fade......the inportant thing is ......the over whelming smell of used kipper boxes.....when laying in bed.........no ammount of soap/water....or body sprays......can get rid of that smell.......
It's awful, isn't it...for us, the old bags... Thank God we can still hook someone with our cooking and knitting skills...
That's crazy>~.. 15 years single.-- i'm Sure HOpeing, you had a handful of dates-
sure having kids must of made it harder as they were growing up. -- i imagine>>-- that's kinda why, - its been so hard._-
some guy, wanting to raise anothers kid.- -- Yea, "You can provide.- but doesn't mean you wouldn't want your partner to , love' just the same'~-- which is impractical. (there are good guys that do it, just, Not that many-- i'd also ASSUME_~ -- that they are the ones looking irl>~> - as ,_-- they want something real.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
InstincThis: That's crazy>~.. 15 years single.-- i'm Sure HOpeing, you had a handful of dates-
sure having kids must of made it harder as they were growing up. -- i imagine>>-- that's kinda why, - its been so hard._-
some guy, wanting to raise anothers kid.- -- Yea, "You can provide.- but doesn't mean you wouldn't want your partner to , love' just the same'~-- which is impractical. (there are good guys that do it, just, Not that many-- i'd also ASSUME_~ -- that they are the ones looking irl>~> - as ,_-- they want something real.
Yes, it is very hard having a relationship, with kids still in he house....men don't like to share...especially with another man's kids....whatever they say....
Anyone who can't hold down a relationship for years on end , should take a good look at themselves. It's easy to blame others & finding flaws , but we must accept that we also have flaws & if you can learn to live with that , then you're on to a winner. In other words , don't seek perfection, if you're not perfect yourself !
One2note: Anyone who can't hold down a relationship for years on end , should take a good look at themselves. It's easy to blame others & finding flaws , but we must accept that we also have flaws & if you can learn to live with that , then you're on to a winner. In other words , don't seek perfection, if you're not perfect yourself !
You should take your own advice i have never seen any one so in such deep denial.
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Some r more selective
Some r very picky indeed
How long does it take u:-
For just bed
For a titillation
For a serious affair
For marriage