MsContessa: I would view that text as a distasteful opinion of a bad-mannered ex. It is not possible to deem one person better than another person. Everyone is unique on a unique journey.
Yes, I agree and that warrants no response at all, imo.
"If a man who enjoys a lesser happiness beholds a greater one, let him leave aside the lesser to gain the greater" -buddha-
"i wouldn't text back, but i would take a moment and wish him well in my thoughts. then i would let go (stop thinking about him) and place my thoughts on my own happiness (be in the present)" -jono-
jono7: "If a man who enjoys a lesser happiness beholds a greater one, let him leave aside the lesser to gain the greater" -buddha-
"i wouldn't text back, but i would take a moment and wish him well in my thoughts. then i would let go (stop thinking about him) and place my thoughts on my own happiness (be in the present)" -jono-
mollybaby: You and Buddha would take it much better than me
hiya molly
my thinking... he's already an ex. not my business anymore. if he's found someone else, he's not interested in me. who wants to be with someone who thinks they're settling to be with them? not me....
i'd rather keep my special snowflake status and be with someone who chooses to be with me....
the fact that he texted....hmmm.... that speaks about him. no more, no less. i don't have to take it on. frankly...if someone sent me a text like that, i would be thinkin' along the lines of "whew...thank you, cuz someone i would want to be with wouldn't do that... (and yup, i would still wish them well). "
Sorry, but I find your thread rather "ludicrous" Have you ever been married or had kids? Maybe if you answered "yes" to either one or both questions, you would know the answer.
Someone "better"? this is making me p!ss myself with laughter, especially with a "TEXT" grow up young woman. Try going out into the "REAL" world and talk to people
Sorry, but I find your thread rather "ludicrous" Have you ever been married or had kids? Maybe if you answered "yes" to either one or both questions, you would know the answer.
Someone "better"? this is making me p!ss myself with laughter, especially with a "TEXT" grow up young woman. Try going out into the "REAL" world and talk to people
jono7: it doesn't matter what 'he' thinks of you...
it matters what you think of you.
having said that.. i think you're awesome!
ps..would your response be the same or different, based on if you were the one who ended the relationship, or he was the one that had ended the relationship?
It's the fact that he felt the need to text is what would annoy me, not what he thought of me per se .
Only an arsehole would do that. It's like sticking a finger up at you. So I'd mumble 'arsehole!' as I was picking up the dog poo
Miss_Cellaneous: Sorry, but I find your thread rather "ludicrous" Have you ever been married or had kids? Maybe if you answered "yes" to either one or both questions, you would know the answer.
Someone "better"? this is making me p!ss myself with laughter, especially with a "TEXT" grow up young woman. Try going out into the "REAL" world and talk to people
Maybe you havent got an EDUCATION at all u ILL MANNERED Before u comment u read and if u have no MORAL at all THANK YOU .U ARE FREE TO KEEP YOUR THOUGHTS WITH YOU.
PS. NEXT TIME U COMMENT U JUST BASE ON THE QUESTION NOT ATTACKING thats for u.
jono7: "If a man who enjoys a lesser happiness beholds a greater one, let him leave aside the lesser to gain the greater" -buddha-
"i wouldn't text back, but i would take a moment and wish him well in my thoughts. then i would let go (stop thinking about him) and place my thoughts on my own happiness (be in the present)" -jono-
jono think thats the best we can do just letting go
Arthur_Sixpence: I'd be the guy who would leave my lawnmower at hers (yes, really) and do the gardening.....she by return was a supremely good cook, and I volunteered to put inches on my wasteline for 'horticultural favours'.... This is absolutely true...
my thinking... he's already an ex. not my business anymore. if he's found someone else, he's not interested in me. who wants to be with someone who thinks they're settling to be with them? not me....
i'd rather keep my special snowflake status and be with someone who chooses to be with me....
the fact that he texted....hmmm.... that speaks about him. no more, no less. i don't have to take it on. frankly...if someone sent me a text like that, i would be thinkin' along the lines of "whew...thank you, cuz someone i would want to be with wouldn't do that... (and yup, i would still wish them well). "
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It is not possible to deem one person better than another person.
Everyone is unique on a unique journey.