What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better? ( Archived) (150)

Sep 19, 2018 3:10 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
MsContessa: I would view that text as a distasteful opinion of a bad-mannered ex.
It is not possible to deem one person better than another person.
Everyone is unique on a unique journey.
Yes, I agree and that warrants no response at all, imo.
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Sep 19, 2018 3:13 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
wobblyheed
wobblyheedwobblyheedSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK14 Threads 785 Posts
I'd want to know how she got out from under the patio.
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Sep 19, 2018 3:20 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
"If a man who enjoys a lesser happiness beholds a greater one, let him leave aside the lesser to gain the greater"
-buddha-

"i wouldn't text back, but i would take a moment and wish him well in my thoughts.
then i would let go (stop thinking about him)
and place my thoughts on my own happiness (be in the present)"
-jono-





bouquet
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Sep 19, 2018 3:22 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jono7: "If a man who enjoys a lesser happiness beholds a greater one, let him leave aside the lesser to gain the greater"
-buddha-

"i wouldn't text back, but i would take a moment and wish him well in my thoughts.
then i would let go (stop thinking about him)
and place my thoughts on my own happiness (be in the present)"
-jono-
You and Buddha would take it much better than me laugh
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Sep 19, 2018 3:28 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
mollybaby: You and Buddha would take it much better than me
laugh

hiya molly hug

my thinking...
he's already an ex. not my business anymore.
if he's found someone else, he's not interested in me.
who wants to be with someone who thinks they're settling to be with them?
not me....

i'd rather keep my special snowflake status and be with someone who chooses to be with me....laugh

the fact that he texted....hmmm.... hmmm
that speaks about him. no more, no less.
i don't have to take it on.
frankly...if someone sent me a text like that, i would be thinkin' along the lines of "whew...thank you, cuz someone i would want to be with wouldn't do that...laugh (and yup, i would still wish them well). "
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Sep 19, 2018 4:09 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
ysabeljhen: How would you manage?




Anyone ....?

*(((Peace I give unto u....))))
Sorry, but I find your thread rather "ludicrous" Have you ever been married or had kids? Maybe if you answered "yes" to either one or both questions, you would know the answer.

Someone "better"? this is making me p!ss myself with laughter, especially with a "TEXT" grow up young woman. Try going out into the "REAL" world and talk to people rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 19, 2018 4:12 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 2,444 Posts
ysabeljhen: How would you manage?




Anyone ....?

*(((Peace I give unto u....))))
Sorry, but I find your thread rather "ludicrous" Have you ever been married or had kids? Maybe if you answered "yes" to either one or both questions, you would know the answer.

Someone "better"? this is making me p!ss myself with laughter, especially with a "TEXT" grow up young woman. Try going out into the "REAL" world and talk to people rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 19, 2018 4:42 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
I would say, sense you text me to brag about you finding someone better, you don’t sound convincing
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Sep 19, 2018 4:53 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jono7: it doesn't matter what 'he' thinks of you...

it matters what you think of you.


having said that..
i think you're awesome!

ps..would your response be the same or different, based on if you were the one who ended the relationship, or he was the one that had ended the relationship?
It's the fact that he felt the need to text is what would annoy me, not what he thought of me per se .

Only an arsehole would do that. It's like sticking a finger up at you. So I'd mumble 'arsehole!' as I was picking up the dog poo laugh


I think you're great too grin
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Sep 19, 2018 4:59 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
mollybaby: It's the fact that he felt the need to text is what would annoy me, not what he thought of me per se .

Only an arsehole would do that. It's like sticking a finger up at you. So I'd mumble 'arsehole!' as I was picking up the dog poo


I think you're great too
i hear ya..

an arsehole is as an arsehole does...


thumbs up
laugh
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Sep 19, 2018 5:01 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
jono7: i hear ya..

an arsehole is as an arsehole does...
I wouldn't have dated such an arsehole in the first place anyway

So it's a moot point laugh
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Sep 19, 2018 7:27 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Miss_Cellaneous: Sorry, but I find your thread rather "ludicrous" Have you ever been married or had kids? Maybe if you answered "yes" to either one or both questions, you would know the answer.

Someone "better"? this is making me p!ss myself with laughter, especially with a "TEXT" grow up young woman. Try going out into the "REAL" world and talk to people
Maybe you havent got an EDUCATION at alldevil u ILL MANNEREDthumbs down
Before u comment u read and if u have no MORAL at all THANK YOU .U ARE FREE TO KEEP YOUR THOUGHTS WITH YOU.


PS.
NEXT TIME U COMMENT U JUST BASE ON THE QUESTION NOT ATTACKINGteddybear kiss hug thats for u.
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Sep 19, 2018 7:33 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
PeKaatje: My right hand is complaining, I'm m**turbat with my left hand sometimes.
enjoy Peka thats your signaturerolling on the floor laughing peace
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Sep 19, 2018 7:39 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
jono7: "If a man who enjoys a lesser happiness beholds a greater one, let him leave aside the lesser to gain the greater"
-buddha-

"i wouldn't text back, but i would take a moment and wish him well in my thoughts.
then i would let go (stop thinking about him)
and place my thoughts on my own happiness (be in the present)"
-jono-
wave jono thumbs up
think thats the best we can do just letting go handshake cheers
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Sep 19, 2018 7:40 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Bearwoman: I would just tell him Best wishes and move on.
thumbs up BW
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Sep 19, 2018 7:42 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: I'd be the guy who would leave my lawnmower at hers (yes, really) and do the gardening.....she by return was a supremely good cook, and I volunteered to put inches on my wasteline for 'horticultural favours'.... This is absolutely true...
Gentleman Artcheers
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Sep 19, 2018 7:42 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
I would congratulate her and wish them both the best
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Sep 19, 2018 7:45 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
Track16: I would congratulate her and wish them both the best
Trackwave that shows u moved on for the bestthumbs up thumbs up cheers
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Sep 19, 2018 7:47 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
jono7: hiya molly

my thinking...
he's already an ex. not my business anymore.
if he's found someone else, he's not interested in me.
who wants to be with someone who thinks they're settling to be with them?
not me....

i'd rather keep my special snowflake status and be with someone who chooses to be with me....

the fact that he texted....hmmm....
that speaks about him. no more, no less.
i don't have to take it on.
frankly...if someone sent me a text like that, i would be thinkin' along the lines of "whew...thank you, cuz someone i would want to be with wouldn't do that... (and yup, i would still wish them well). "
thumbs up thumbs up
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Sep 19, 2018 7:53 PM CST What do you respond if your ex texts you to say he/she found someone better?
ysabeljhen: Track that shows u moved on for the best
I don't want to see anyone not happy, even if they don't want me to be happy. I know all about not being happy and its not a good way to live.
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