pKrema: I am greedy on compliments but can not keep quiet when I want to admire someone's qualities... You are an exceptional woman Mimi, the light pours out of you like a fountain and it's highly contagious too...
pKrema: "I deserve better "... That's another reason for staying available... To make a fair connection between your head and your heart isn't an easy thing... The test of time helps...if you are willing to give it that time...
I agree , many seem to rush , whether it be through the fear of aloneness, or lack of caution. I do feel however , that there is a phobia for many , when it comes to intamacy .
daears: crickey. Your new man deserves gold stars. If the children whom were created from past with that past man enjoy that he's putting time into them. He might earn stars from kids later in life.
My ex wasted a lot of time drinking when the kids were young and now he’s trying to rectify his mistakes by spending quality time with them as much as he could. Trying to make up for lost time.
It was actually Art’s idea that the kids join me when I go over to America, so that my kids can get better quality education. I said ok but I want the kids out of the house after some time so that Art and I can have quality time together!
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
MiMiArt: My ex wasted a lot of time drinking when the kids were young and now he’s trying to rectify his mistakes by spending quality time with them as much as he could. Trying to make up for lost time.
It was actually Art’s idea that the kids join me when I go over to America, so that my kids can get better quality education. I said ok but I want the kids out of the house after some time so that Art and I can have quality time together!
good learning curve for the kids they will see your happiness later and understand
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
One2note: I can never understand why people drink so excessively, or take drugs for that matter!! Maybe they are weak minded & cannot deal with the everyday problems life throws at them ?
maybe some like so called straight people give it a bad name that others judge them by as you are doing now . I ain't weak minded as you say. And I have morals. I deal with more of others problems and help and promote love and goodness. Maybe your not as open minded as you say
daears: maybe some like so called straight people give it a bad name that others judge them by as you are doing now . I ain't weak minded as you say. And I have morals. I deal with more of others problems and help and promote love and goodness. Maybe your not as open minded as you say
What I've noticed is, that many posters seem to blame their exs for past failed relationships , when in fact , they may have been at least , partly to blame. Not taking the blame is another reason why so many people have resigned themselves to the comfort of aloneness & unless they deal with their own imperfections , I doubt they can deal with their partners, remembering , no one is perfect !
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You are an exceptional woman Mimi, the light pours out of you like a fountain and it's highly contagious too...