Have people resigned themselves to remain single ? ( Archived) (168)

Oct 21, 2018 3:35 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
daears: maybe you need to look within yourself more . Change your name to " note to one's self " maybe
Now who's being judgmental conversing confused
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Oct 21, 2018 3:36 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
One2note: I can only assume , without being too judgemental, if Arthur can put up with your "unorthodox cooking" & smelly blanket , then it must be love
rolling on the floor laughing thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2018 3:45 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
I had my share of unpleasant relationship too ...Its been years but I am not ready yet...






Second time being in love requires courage. It requires being able to trust again and being vulnerable again. It requires strength to break that wall that you would have built around yourself, your heart. But it is more mature. It is not to replace the true first love. This time around it will be more mature and more understanding. It may or may not happen again, but your heart will learn to live with that pain....hug
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Oct 21, 2018 3:50 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
ysabeljhen: I had my share of unpleasant relationship too ...Its been years but I am not ready yet...

I really don't understand people who put a time limit on when they are ready for the next relationship.
As far as I'm concerned, it's your heart that determines that factor , not your head .




Second time being in love requires courage. It requires being able to trust again and being vulnerable again. It requires strength to break that wall that you would have built around yourself, your heart. But it is more mature. It is not to replace the true first love. This time around it will be more mature and more understanding. It may or may not happen again, but your heart will learn to live with that pain....
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Oct 21, 2018 3:56 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Just for the record , I'm single by choice, although it's not necessarily my choice but a choice all the same moping laugh
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Oct 21, 2018 3:57 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: Why , in this modern era of technology, are there so many people not in a relationship, with so many options available to them, both at home & in far away places ?
Have past relationships affected your ability to trust , or are you so guarded & self- sufficient anything else ruin that safety of your own environment.
Could your upbringing result in you feeling unsafe , experiencing chaos, upheaval & maybe loss, also have a barring on how you approach a relationship ?
The jury is still out ,on this as far as i'm concerned.
Sometimes i say , that's it, not going to bother anymore.
Maybe there will be some devine intervention , it's not that that i haven't had offers!doh laugh
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Oct 21, 2018 3:59 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
One2note: Just for the record , I'm single by choice, although it's not necessarily my choice but a choice all the same
So as OP what is it that you can say or advise maybedunno would appreciate it much Onehandshake wine
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Oct 21, 2018 4:03 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
One

Yes its the heart that dictates it but you have the mind to choose by choice if you want to get hurt again and againscold handshake
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Oct 21, 2018 4:11 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
ysabeljhen: So as OP what is it that you can say or advise maybe would appreciate it much One
Always keep an open mind when it comes to love .
It may be ready before you are & when you're ready for it , that ship may have already passed !sad flower
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Oct 21, 2018 4:14 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: The jury is still out ,on this as far as i'm concerned.
Sometimes i say , that's it, not going to bother anymore.
Maybe there will be some devine intervention , it's not that that i haven't had offers!
I think Hex summed it up in a nutshell thumbs up
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Oct 21, 2018 4:17 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: I think Hex summed it up in a nutshell
In which comment?dunno confused
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Oct 21, 2018 4:19 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: In which comment?
The first one .
If you're search criteria is for the local talent , why join an international dating site ?dunno
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Oct 21, 2018 4:26 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: The first one .
If you're search criteria is for the local talent , why join an international dating site ?
Because it isn't, i'm open and European!
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Oct 21, 2018 4:28 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: I think Hex summed it up in a nutshell
I agree he did sum it up well!
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Oct 21, 2018 4:34 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: There are many nice men that are really here for dating,
They don't interact on the forums, those are some of the men i met.

The men that expose (not literally ) themselves on the forums,
show what they are really like, and that is not always good, but good for women
to see what they would be like in real life, and as you can see it's not a pretty sight at times..
I'm the first to admit , there's a quirky & somewhat rebellious side to my persona , which in my eyes , makes me more unique & interesting. I seek similar in a partner .
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Oct 21, 2018 4:43 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: I'm the first to admit , there's a quirky & somewhat rebellious side to my persona , which in my eyes , makes me more unique & interesting. I seek similar in a partner .
Nothing wrong with quirky & rebellious , especially rebellious,laugh
I'm sure you will not be without someone to pull your Christmas cracker with help wine
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Oct 21, 2018 4:46 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: Nothing wrong with quirky & rebellious , especially rebellious,
I'm sure you will not be without someone to pull your Christmas cracker with
I suppose , Christmas wouldn't be Christmas without someone pulling my cracker!laugh
We have to stick to tradition uh oh
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Oct 21, 2018 4:46 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
annaroach: Nothing wrong with quirky & rebellious , especially rebellious,
I'm sure you will not be without someone to pull your Christmas cracker with
How right you are sir!
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Oct 21, 2018 4:46 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
One2note: Always keep an open mind when it comes to love .
It may be ready before you are & when you're ready for it , that ship may have already passed !
That's good point.I 'll take thathandshake thankswine
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Oct 21, 2018 4:47 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
annaroach: How right you are sir!
Sorry, that is for Chesney's comment
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