Gentlemanly behavior... ( Archived) (94)

Nov 9, 2018 3:12 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
fifitrixibelle
fifitrixibellefifitrixibellegalway, Galway Ireland20 Threads 1 Polls 4,629 Posts
KNenagh: Easy to see who is and who isn't.

Wishing you a lovely weekend L and Fifi.
Thanks K, same to you cheers
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Nov 9, 2018 3:20 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
fifitrixibelle: Thanks K, same to you
I shall do my very best Fifi. cheers
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Nov 9, 2018 3:29 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
KNenagh: Easy to see who is and who isn't.

Wishing you a lovely weekend L and Fifi.
HI K, thanks a million, we had a great evening yesterday, but then we always do... Hope you are keeping well and all is good in your life... Take good care... Be well... wave
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Nov 9, 2018 3:33 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
To aries1234:

No car?
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Nov 9, 2018 4:01 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: HI K, thanks a million, we had a great evening yesterday, but then we always do... Hope you are keeping well and all is good in your life... Take good care... Be well...
Delighted to hear that! applause

Life is good at the moment thankfully. flower
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Nov 13, 2018 4:07 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: Are the good manners of old now misplaced and out of step with today's men and women?...
If yes, what do you think passes for the 'new decent'?....
Manners were drummed into me at a very early age, and I've never drifted away from them, not for an instant, but am I being a dinosaur thinker in a time when courtesies are surplus to social mores?....
Discuss at will....
Manners are part of the traditional culture of the West that today's opinion-makers deem obsolete and due for replacement.
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Nov 13, 2018 4:14 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: No not really....
I just live by a code of manners learnt from my parents... And yes, many is the time a woman has held a door for me, and same of a man holding a door... In Ireland we may be seen as a load of bog-trotters, but thankfully, in the smaller towns and villages, people are reasonably social and mannerly... So where's the feminism that I need to address...
Most people have basic social manners.

I have yet to ever meet a man who has had a bad experience holding a door open for a woman (except hearsay on the internet) or a woman who doesn't like it being held open for them.
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Nov 13, 2018 4:17 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
mollybaby: Most people have basic social manners.

I have yet to ever meet a man who has had a bad experience holding a door open for a woman (except hearsay on the internet) or a woman who doesn't like it being held open for them.
My mother in law was a lady, I used to stand up when she entered the room... Now how far back in the tradition of mannerly behavior does that go... laugh
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Nov 13, 2018 4:19 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: My mother in law was a lady, I used to stand up when she entered the room... Now how far back in the tradition of mannerly behavior does that go...
It is good manners to stand when a lady enters the room. Even today. Sadly, many people don't do it.
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Nov 13, 2018 4:21 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
charles_nz: Manners are part of the traditional culture of the West that today's opinion-makers deem obsolete and due for replacement.
HI Charles, you're probably right but what to replace them with is the question of the hour... I find good manners to be like a social lubricant if that makes any sense, society moves more smoothly when good manners are applied in our daily dealings with others...
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Nov 13, 2018 4:33 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: My mother in law was a lady, I used to stand up when she entered the room... Now how far back in the tradition of mannerly behavior does that go...
I wouldn't need that to happen laugh unless the person was coming over to greet me.
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Nov 13, 2018 4:50 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
If I'm walking down the street in company of a woman, I find that I automatically walk nearest to the road.
I was taught to do that by my parents, something about protecting the lady from spray thrown up by passing horse and carts.
It's become a habit now, not sure why...horses and carts are a bit thin on the ground round here.

grin
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Nov 13, 2018 4:52 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
charles_nz
charles_nzcharles_nzChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand1,386 Posts
It's difficult to convince young people today of the need for gentlemanly manners towards women, when we live in societies that put women in combat roles in the military. What kind of "civilized" society does that to its womenfolk???!!!!!!
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Nov 13, 2018 5:00 PM CST Gentlemanly behavior...
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
bodleing2: If I'm walking down the street in company of a woman, I find that I automatically walk nearest to the road.
I was taught to do that by my parents, something about protecting the lady from spray thrown up by passing horse and carts.
It's become a habit now, not sure why...horses and carts are a bit thin on the ground round here.
I've heard similar, but I can't get it out of my head that there was a more 'sinister' reason.... I might be wrong, but Google knows everything.... (just as well really, because I haven't the room for the library of congress.... laugh
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