One2note: That maybe , but juggling being a single parent, a heavy work schedule & a lover, can be a tall order , but manageable if you have an understanding partner . I did it for 3 years .
My working schedule is never heavy, I am lucky to literally do what I like with it...
pKrema: They want something younger... No, seriously, very rare to have someone in their 40s viewing my profile... Men in general don't want to be involved with someone else's kid...
That is normally the case, it's genetic. When a younger male lion kicks out the patriarch of a pride, he will kill all the cubs. Why? ...so that his dominant DNA gets carried on, not the weaker. It's Darwinism at it's most basic.
When I was a teenager, in order to gigilo, I looked for women who had jobs, and spent 40 or more hours out of the house...
Now I'm at the age where widows are spending the life insurance money their husbands left them; and they're home all day.
At least I look young enough that I can still date women in their 30's 40's; but it's much harder to find women in that age group that are willing to put me in charge of their finances.
MisterForYou: That is normally the case, it's genetic. When a younger male lion kicks out the patriarch of a pride, he will kill all the cubs. Why? ...so that his dominant DNA gets carried on, not the weaker. It's Darwinism at it's most basic.
Yeah, yeah, making kids for your own gratification...the trace you leave behind, the immortality of your sacred blood...
MisterForYou: The issue is very simple: ask anyone what they would prefer, to raise their own, or someone else's? Most people will unequivocally choose the former.
Now if you've fallen for the mother, then other factors come into play. My brother married a woman with 3 adult kids. Best thing he ever did, he says.
I never thought I'll have my own...it was a surprise...not planned... I was even thinking to adopt...some of my friends did, after having their own kid...
pKrema: I never thought I'll have my own...it was a surprise...not planned... I was even thinking to adopt...some of my friends did, after having their own kid...
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I did it for 3 years .